I want to try travel dancing in Miami and not sure what clubs to work at? I was recommended Scarlett’s Cabaret and Cheetah. Any other recommendations would be great! I don’t do extras so looking for clubs where I can make decent money without crossing those boundaries.

does anyone have any experience stripping in idaho? mainly the boise area. i have never stripped before but i have been taking pole classes for a year. something about doing it in my state specifically is very scary though. but this is saying i’d even get past the audition 😂

Is there any clubs hiring newbies , i’ve used to dance upstate before during college . I’d like to get back into it , any suggestions? Any underground places in NYC ?

I was a baby dancer when I first started and danced for about a year and half before I started to get really really burnt out mentally from dancing. Lot of factors in play, emotional stuff, taking a lot of customer interactions extremely personally, was using weed to escape facing feelings at the time, and felt trapped because dancing was my only source on income and money got rough, it definitely led to a collective snowball affect. And I was in a place where I was jsut trying to rebuild my life when I started dancing and then I did that. I didn’t have a direction/plan/goal after that. I’ve been away for 6 months now and I’m missing a few things, the sisterhood, the financial freedom/wellbeing, and the literal freedom and flexibility dancing as a profession provided me and the aspects of expressing myself as a sexual being was very empowering and I feel that it is a form of expression for me.

I feel ready to return but have nerves/reservations about it because I’d like to do more to take care of myself and prioritize my well being to prevent burn out. I feel much more confident knowing I’ve safely walked away from dancing once so I can survive doing it again if dancing just doesn’t pan out for me. Also want to be much smarter about money and distribute my income with part time job like 15-20 hours a week and working 2-3 shifts at the club/wk because the financial shift from dancing to not made me realize how much money I was spending that wasn’t really necessary at the time.

Advice/tips/what would you tell yourself in these shoes? Also just hoping for some reassurance from those that get it

I'm new to going to strip clubs. I've been twice (last Friday/Saturday) and I really met a cool dancer which whom, I got along with and had a genuine conversation. I really just liked her bc she was really awesome. Talked about her life goals and aspirations. I admired her dedication to bodybuilding and meal prep and honesty about being not natural. Her degrees and previous life. It was cool to chat without having a filter.

First day, I paid $600 for a jacuzzi, and tipped the club $100 and then afterwards I was waiting for my friend and then he wasn't out so I did a 15 minute lap dance with same girl. Gave $100 tip and just chilled a bit afterwards with her until after my friend came back.

Now the next day, I had to come back and see her. I only had $600 in cash. Well I ended up doing 3, 30 minute sessions ($450 each) with her. $80 tip first time , $25 second time and then the last one I was out of cash so I venmo the club to pay the dance. I feel bad for not tipping the third time but I was out.

Do you expect to get tipped after each one or the fact that I did multiple private dances is enough? I'll ask the next time I see her if that was okay but just want input.

Hi i’m from Canada and i’m going to dance in Connecticut without a permit. I’m travelling by bus and I was wondering if anybody has ever done the same and if it is risky at the borders

My wife and I were in at a strip club the other day and one of the dancers on stage said to us out loud, "Sorry I have to adjust my panties, my coochie's trying to sneak out". To which I responded, "That's great! I'm the male version of a size queen!" She looked at me kind of awkwardly and never said a word after.

Is there a shorthand term for "large vulva lover" that doesn't sound derogatory to a dancer? For example a dancer is talking to us and I don't want to waste her time, how do I ask her, "We'd love to have an upstairs dance with you, but I really love watching a woman with a large vulva. Do you have one?"

I’ve always wondered and seen stories about it but wanted to ask.

What are the chances of a guy asked for a private room/session and when you got there he just wanted you like wedgie him in panties or briefs?

Also what would a woman’s reaction be to giving a guy a dance and he’s wearing a Chasity cage??

(Edit I will be waiting till I turn 21 next year. Thank you for all the advice and help so far!!!!)

I am 19 turning 20 in a couple months. I have been considering stripping since I first turned 18. I want to not only use it as an opportunity for money but also build confidence!

I’m just not sure how to start or if my body is even pretty enough as I know there are specific standards. I have lost a decent amount of weight but still not completely sure.

I also have no idea on what to train for. If anyone can give me tips or advice on how to start that would be greatly appreciated!!! (If needed I can post a picture of myself in the comments)

Is it normal for strippers to have sweaty/stink feet or was my dancer just dirty?? Genuinely her feet smelled so bad!! 🤮

hi (: i’m new to dancing and would love some advice on moves i can learn for stage! i’m open to pole tricks, but i especially want to learn what to do when i’m not on the pole so i can feel more confident, seductive, and keep guys’ attention.
right now i mostly shake my butt, arch my back, and twerk, but i want to expand beyond that. what are your favorite body rolls, hip movements, floorwork, walks, poses, or transitions? i’d love to learn how to connect everything smoothly so i’m not repeating the same few moves or feeling awkward between them.
i’m also interested in pole spins and tricks i can build up to safely. any tutorials, creators, classes, or specific move names i can look up would be so appreciated! even simple moves that look really good when you slow them down please give me all your tips 🤍

Just venting but my damn dogs messed up my chances of working this fall. My boy dog (J) got my girl dog (D) pregnant. Yes, I am to blame first since I didn’t separate them in time. I was in Vegas when she went into heat, I thought I had more time to spare but I timed it wrong and my sitter goes “ I think she’s in heat and allowing J to hump her” 😳🫠

I’m pissed! I had a weird rough start to the year and I was only considering on letting her get pregnant once I moved to next state, which is all on hold right now. She’s about done but the round the clock care this is going to need once the pups are born is literally going to drain me and I can’t quite go to the clubs at night since it’ll be cold soon, she’s gotta be cared for as well and I don’t have another option until December. I wanted to find online ways to make money but I’ll be honest, I’m no good at multitasking and becoming successful at either. I’m excited for my new pups but geez I’m missing out on so much cash. 😮‍💨

Encouraging words are helpful but I just feel so overwhelmed about it. I’m ok on my finances for a bit but we all know if you’re used to staying busy and getting paper, it’s a whole different mindset with this and it’s forcing me into my “maternal” energy and I was about to be in hustler mode lol

I’m a newer dancer working at a club where I feel safe and haven’t observed anything shady. Management and customers have complimented my appearance, and I’ve been told making money should come easily to me. I’ve been told repeatedly that I’m one of the prettiest they hired (not to sound vain or self absorbed) I’m also very friendly too. I’m a sweetheart. So far, that hasn’t matched my experience.
My earnings have stayed in the three-digit range, I get rejected a lot, and I’m trying to understand what it takes to reach four-figure nights. I know appearance alone isn’t enough, and I may need to develop a more confident sales approach.
People often say the money comes from regulars, but how do those relationships actually get started? When I exchange contact information with customers, they don’t always respond. Some of the guys I traded numbers with also ended up being stingy and wanted to meet outside the club.
Someone also warned me that dancing could lead down a bad path. I want to earn more while keeping clear boundaries. For those with experience, what helped you improve your earnings, and how realistic are four-figure nights for someone starting out?

Is a short one okay? I have no idea what would be easy to take off on stage

Turning 30 soon and wondering if it’s worth forking out for pole lessons to try and pursue this properly or if I’ve left it too late?

Edit: it would be at one of the clubs in London

Hello!
I am a camgirl & bikini barista currently, but I plan on dancing instead as I need a change of pace. I’m moving from Arizona to Portland & wondering which clubs are good to start at? I’m short, thick, Latina with a few tattoos for reference. I hear diversity isn’t great there & they go hard on the pole tricks so I’m a little bit worried!
Thanks :) <3

Hi, i’m a dancer from Canada and i’ve heard there are clubs in Texas that don’t require a work permit or US id but i’m having trouble finding them online. Can anybody recommend me one?