r/SipsTea • • 18h ago

SMH The advice didn't age well.

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u/draconicmonkey 18h ago

I don’t understand the point of these posts - at this point we all understand that the economy has changed in the last 60+ years and even changed dramatically in 2000, 2008, and 2019 in rapid succession.

I’ve seen a lot of danger in belaboring these sorts of point, often sowing the seeds of hopelessness, generational dissent (which ultimately isn’t productive), and it never seems to come with a meaningful call to action or what better advice would be.

Which is concerning given the rising rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts in younger generations vs previous.

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u/Dull-Yak3671 17h ago edited 17h ago

The point is that not all do. My parents don't. I'm young, employed, have savings, invest money, 0 debt and my parents still want to lecture me about how I should be living my life and where I should be living because that's what they did at their age. They still think rent costs as much as it did 30 years ago. 

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u/ExecutivePirate 16h ago

Nuance on reddit?!?! Le gasp! You mean its not all rage porn? /s

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u/borgman_a 15h ago

"They still think rent costs as much as it did 30 years ago. "

It does in a relative sense.

2025 -
Median rent: $1,696
Median monthly income: $7,288
Percentage of median income to afford median rent: 23.3%

1995 -
Median rent: $655
Median monthly income: $2,840
Percentage of median income to afford median rent: 23.1%

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u/TheHighSeasPirate 14h ago

Median monthly income: $7,288

FOR WHO? LOL Even with two people that is almost 100k + salary.

Your math only looks good because your Median income is absolute dogwater made up. Even the rent is crap. I was paying $700 for rent in 2005, not 1995.

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u/HemlocknLoad 14h ago

One should look at the median individual monthly income which is on average $3,850. The 2025 figure you quote is an 87k a year salary. The individual figure works out to between 42-50k a year and even that is pretty high with many hourly workers still in the $16-20 range putting their yearly in the 30 thousands and many gig workers lower still.

That puts median rent at 55% of income or higher for the average US citizen.

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u/borgman_a 14h ago

"One should look at the median individual monthly income"

Sure - but that makes 2025 look BETTER vs 1995 than using household income, not worse.

2025 -
Median rent: $1,696
Median individual monthly income: $4398 (Median individual yearly income was $52,770)
Percentage of median income to afford median rent: 38.6%

1995 -
Median rent: $655
Median monthly income: $1,625 (Median individual yearly income was $19,502)
Percentage of median income to afford median rent: 40.3%

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u/TadGhostal1 13h ago edited 13h ago

These numbers don't make sense to compare. The median income American is not renting. Renters skew low income.

In reality, the percent of Americans paying more than 30% of income to rent has skyrocketed. It's now HALF of all renters.

"In 1960, about one in four renters paid more than 30 percent of income for housing. Today, one in two are cost burdened. Even in 1980, following two decades of worsening affordability, the cost-burdened share of renters was just above a third."

https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/research-areas/reports/americas-rental-housing-evolving-markets-and-needs

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u/Buckeyebornandbred 14h ago

My rent in 1992 was $138. It was a small 1 bedroom. I moved into the top half of a house in 1994-1997 for $400

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u/borgman_a 14h ago

Median rent in the USA was $447/month in 1990.

You were a RADICAL outlier.

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u/Buckeyebornandbred 14h ago

I also made a lot less money too lol

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u/TheHighSeasPirate 14h ago

I think your "median" numbers are a made up google AI response. Are you even old enough to have lived in the 90's?

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u/borgman_a 14h ago

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u/TheHighSeasPirate 14h ago

Sorry man, I don't believe government websites that change every 5 years, especially this admins. I lived through the 90's, payed rent in the 90's. A 1-2 bedroom was cheap as fuck, it wasn't anywhere near 700.

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u/borgman_a 13h ago

This is a publication from the year 2000. I mean.. you could at least glance at it before not trusting it.

"I lived through the 90's, payed rent in the 90's."

Yes, so did I.

...but if you don't trust government - how about actual, advertised rent prices?

Some ads from the Detroit Free Press 1995 (and Detroit is cheap):

"Living to Share Quarters Clean, Quiet Home-Prof. Male Seeks Same-Straight, $300 W/Utils."

"Houston-Whittier 14467 1 Bdrm., $350 + Dep."

"Lahser 18045 - 1-2 Bdrm, Crpt., Heat/Ac, $370 Up."

"Up. Immed. Occup. 313-862-1963 Palmer Pk. 17518 Second, Lge. 1 Bdrm. $355."

From the Saline Reporter 1995

"RIVEROAKS Ann Arbor area’s beat kept secret 1 &2 BR,starting* $465."

"DELANE APARTMENTS (313)439-7374 1 BEDROOM APT. for rent in Milan area Newly decorated. Large living room, bedroom, modem kitchen; Separate entrance. Covered parking space included. Available now. Nonsmoker, please. $450/mo. plus phone."

"ONE BEDROOM APT. Everything included. $450/mo. plus security deposit"

"3-BEDROOM COUNTRY apartment with view. Washer, dryer, new carpet no pets. $625/mo. plus utilities"

" LARGE LOFT-TYPE apartment in Clinton with 1 bedroom and small office. Appliances included. Partly furnished I needed. Ideal for working couple. $500/mo. No pets or waterbed. "

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u/squidwardsaclarinet 9h ago

A few things you need to consider.

First off, the number you cited for median rent ($655) doesn’t align with the table you linked. If we linearly interpolate between 1990 and 2000 to get 1995 we get about $587 for monthly rent in constant 2000 dollars.

Next, from what I can find, the median income that you cite is the nominal value in 1995 (ie not adjusted for inflation). But when you’re comparing it to the rent price that you cited, you have to adjust the dollars to constant 2000 dollars. Adjusting $2840 in 1995 would be roughly equivalent to about $3,200 in 2000 dollars.

With these we can do the calculation you did previously. We could further adjust these to 2025 dollars, but since we’re just using a simple inflation calculation, ultimately looking at a ratio/percentage, it shouldn’t matter. With these new numbers, we get about 18% of income going towards rent. As far as I’m aware, there’s a difference between 23% and 18%.

Moreover, while medians are usually the best single comparison for an entire population, I would be very interested to know how these things have changed throughout different quantiles in the income distribution. Essentially, if we assume that median incomes and prices reflect middle-class things, then what we are looking at is how these things have changed for people who are solidly middle-class. I suspect things are worse for people on the bottom end.

Lastly, the biggest problem is that it would be one thing if this change was happening only with housing. But the cost of essentials and other important things like healthcare and education have exploded. We know wages haven’t kept up with productivity or inflation. Something has to give here.

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u/StrawberryOk8459 14h ago

It why reddit has become a pathetic place to read anything.

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u/DaFookCares 16h ago

It's just more of the division propaganda in the US. Old versus young, republican versus democrat, hatred towards minorities, class wars... anything to keep you all pointing fingers at each other white the ruling class watches you fight over scraps.

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u/gustoreddit51 15h ago edited 15h ago

It's the same propaganda mechanism - blame "the others" just like America's problems are ridiculously blamed on illegal aliens and transgenders. Rage baiting. Anything to sow division in America. It's called "manufactured polarization" and it is aimed at everything American. Noted in the news that all sorts of divisive posts dropped significantly when the Russian data centers were taken out by Ukrainian drones.

Edit: But please, by all means, vote the boomers out of office.

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u/DudeWithTudeNotRude 10h ago

this. boomer hate, maga hate, trans hate, racial hate...it's all hate and a simple mechanism of control.

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u/jdw-52 13h ago

It really is an amazingly effective strategy. You start with what should be an easy thing to agree on. Like clean water. Add a dog whistle / strawman to the argument, and people are at each other's throats. "Dump raw sewage and forever chemicals in my water. Just as long as the other side doesn't win."

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u/hiimsubclavian 16h ago

I don’t understand the point of these posts

The first mistake is believing every post has a point to make and an agenda to push.

Sometimes it's just regular people getting tired and frustrated and blowing off steam on reddit. Oh, you're seeing these types of posts a lot? Yeah, a lot of people are tired and frustrated.

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u/Responsible_CDN_Duck 14h ago

Lies about how good it was in the past isn't blowing off steam.

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u/raycepak 8h ago

in 1980 avge income was 20k a year average house price was 50 k or your yearly income was 40% of a house now today avge income is 69k while average house price is 500k or your yearly income is 13% of a value of a house. 1980s $3,617 (18% of income) for private colleges 2026 ~$60,924 (88% of income) per year. we can repeat this with just about any good or service other than tvs. i wonder what changed in the 80s....

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u/throwawayfinancebro1 15h ago

IMO because the older folks never want to make actual changes to make it easier for the younger folks. 

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u/Raspberries-Are-Evil 13h ago

How much are you willing to sacrifice? What does that even mean?

There should be no sacrifice. The wealthy should be paying their fair share of taxes, and then we could all have healthcare and some guarantee for basic housing.

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u/Raspberries-Are-Evil 12h ago

But why should you and I pay more for shit?

Why shouldnt the billionaires pay more taxes?

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u/crapsguy702 11h ago

Stop counting other people’s money and go make your own

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u/Key_Bee1544 13h ago

"If I am assured"

See, this is the escape hatch. When you are old and the kids have policies you will not be assured of anything. And thus, will not be supportive. I know this because I see how people older than I react to nonsense posts like this. They are not assured.

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u/Key_Bee1544 13h ago

You literally said "if I am assured." I don't want to say you're full of shit, but if I wanted to it would be very easy.

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u/seetapura 7h ago

Forty years old and still shadowboxing ghosts

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u/Sirhaddock98 13h ago

I don't suck ass actually so I probably won't. You're meant to try and make life better for your children, not actively worse.

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u/Baconated-Coffee 15h ago

What changes do you want the retired population to make?

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u/throwawayfinancebro1 15h ago

Vote for much easier zoning regulations including higher density housing. Wealth taxes, particularly on the wealthiest. Higher taxes on the wealthiest. End of the capital gains tax. Single payer healthcare and colleges. Many other things that they’re generally opposed to.

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u/Green_Sugar6675 14h ago

Well they shouldn't vote for Republicans that want to take away the same benefits that they are living off of in their retirements from those that are younger than them... those younger people that are paying into that system right now to provide those current benefits.

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u/crapsguy702 11h ago

And they paid for those before them

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u/TwistedBamboozler 14h ago

Retired? I’ve had some of the same people in Congress and the senate my 35 years. The post you replied to is 100% correct

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u/crapsguy702 15h ago

What was done to help them? Go work hard for yourself

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u/throwawayfinancebro1 15h ago

lol go troll elsewhere

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u/Cyclesync 15h ago

the economy supported them, they were helped by post war economic boon that made the single income 40 hour work week support a family. Pay attention

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u/StaffNo6120 17h ago

There was a specific mechanism deployed by the neoliberals in the 1980s that asset stripped the western world and turned citizens into economic units. The slow degradation of public life is contributing to the very issues you mention in relation to mental health. The mental health epidemic is a reflection of the society and the conditions created over the last 40 years. For many people life has become an isolated economic loop, where insidious terms like optimization degrade our quality of life by forcing us to metricize our very existence...

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u/permalink_save 16h ago

Also reaganomics

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u/permalink_save 12h ago

Lol the whole economic model is named after him but easier to blame dems instead of a greedy actor turned republican and we're dealing with that all over again now and look where the economy is. Conservatives are just as guilty of benefitting the wealthy as neolibs.

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u/Misha_Vozduh 15h ago

the point of these posts

At best: easy karma farm, essentially a disguised "DAE economy le bad"

At worst: divisive messaging pitting generations against each other, so that they don't focus on the actual problems. "Divide and conquer".

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u/JoeyAndLueyShow 16h ago

My parents, particularly my father has zero understanding of life in the current zeitgeist. They live in a bubble of 80ish year old people. I told my dad recently i still had 40 years left on my mortgage and he said "but you have had the house for 5 years already, it should be almost paid off..." I'm not kidding, that is exactly what he said, this is the world he lives in.

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u/ArmyHotel338 15h ago

Most people in the current zeitgeist have only heard of 15-year or 30-year terms for a mortgage.

I've never heard of a 45-year mortgage.

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u/ArmyHotel338 12h ago

No wonder their parents are confused.

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u/DudeWithTudeNotRude 10h ago

why would an 80 y.o. of any generation understand the current culture? Boomers know what the world was like when they were young, when their brains were at their peaks. X'ers know their young adult decades best. And so on.

Old people are out of touch bc they are old. What they are experts on now are the pain and confusion of mental and physical decline. They need young people's advice about the current economic situation, bc their experiences are less relevant with each passing decade, yet if they have enough lucidity, much of their non-economic experiences can still be useful. You just have to tailor their experiences to today's reality, be they know very little about much today's economy

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u/loondawg 15h ago

You took a 45 year mortgage?

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u/MarcCouillard 14h ago

well, I mean the fact that there's even a need for 40 year mortgages these days is a dead giveaway that things have obviously gone to shit...for like a hundred years the "regular" term for a mortgage was 25 years, there wasn't even such a thing as a 40 year mortgage...and most people with 25 yr mortgages, if they had a good income, would pay off double each month, and extra whenever they had it, and be able to pay off the entire thing within around 10 yrs or so...

nowadays we NEED 40 and 50 yr mortgages and people can barely even pay regularly each month for those, barely making ends meet

massive difference in the world we lived in even 25 years ago and the world we live in today

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u/JoeyAndLueyShow 13h ago

to be fair i live in Portugal, they don't call this the western Balkans for nothing...

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u/commie-scarecrow 5h ago

The usual for his day was likely twenty year mortgages. You might want to check to see if he is having small strokes.

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u/LevelStationaryPlane 16h ago

Yeah that's all great until a legit 3/4 of the boomers you talk to think there's something inherently wrong with you for working multiple jobs yet not owning property yet, or why you can't or won't start a family in an economic vacuum etc.

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u/under_ice 15h ago

[citation needed]

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u/EducationalProduct 14h ago

go outside and speak to one dude.

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u/under_ice 13h ago

Ok, I'll assume is bull shit then.

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u/Defiant-Cat-8212 16h ago

It’s all the avocados we buy

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u/mkt853 15h ago

And the Starbucks!

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u/LevelStationaryPlane 16h ago

From the supermarket chains THEY own etc.

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u/its_yer_dad 16h ago

You sure have a lot of Boomers judging you 

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u/LevelStationaryPlane 15h ago

It's almost like mathematically and statistically be the case given the size of said demographic. No wonder you're fine w getting economically shafted bro math is hard.

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u/loondawg 15h ago

No wonder you're fine w getting economically shafted bro math is hard.

Where the fuck did that come from?

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u/RedhandedMan 3h ago

Not like it's hard to find, you just have to exist and they'll tell you how the last 3 generations are spoiled shits.

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u/DudeWithTudeNotRude 10h ago

they are out of touch. everyone gets that way as their brains and bodies decline.

Boomers will be long dead before most will realize that boomers were never their problem. Hope your brain still works good so you can actually do something other than blame others

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u/Snoo71538 15h ago

Then why do you keep talking to them about it? You can set boundaries with your parents.

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u/ArmyHotel338 15h ago

Which is concerning given the rising rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide attempts in younger generations vs previous.

That is the purpose of these posts though, they are state sponsored psyop attacks. Slowly chip away at the youth of the western countries.

Posts like this are addicting, I myself live a very comfortable life, but I still cant help being drawn to posts like this all the time.

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u/whattteva 15h ago

Saying nothing about it is also not productive though.

Historically speaking, nations only move to fix things only after their citizens complain loud enough, not because they just stay quiet and say nothing.

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u/nn2597713 17h ago

There's a difference between fixing the issue (which posts like this don't) and therapeutically blowing off steam (which these posts do).

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u/loondawg 15h ago

These posts cause resentment. This is not blowing off steam. It's blaming someone else.

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u/BagOnuts 14h ago

You think Millennials and Gen Z didn’t resent Boomers before seeing posts like this?

Bro, we live this shit every day. This is just venting in a literal shit-post sub. Imagine being on /r/sipstea and saying “this post isn’t productive!” lol

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u/loondawg 14h ago

So you were just sitting around steaming about the generational wealth divide hating on boomers when you happened along this post? Sis, this is stirring up misguided resentment against a whole generation of a hundred million plus people based on false beliefs that life was simple and easy back then.

And I didn't say it's unproductive. I said it's harmful.

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u/BagOnuts 13h ago

Yes. People have Boomer experience outside of Reddit.

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u/loondawg 13h ago

Yes, people are ignorant bigots outside of Reddit too.

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u/Escobar1888 17h ago

And there were locations that were almost no-go zones that now are prime real estate

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u/Odra_dek 17h ago

The point? There still is not nearly enough outrage about this intergenerational crime.

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u/loondawg 15h ago

The point? Keeping the young fighting the old instead of all the people fighting getting screwed fighting the oligarchy.

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u/oso_polar 1h ago

The boomers ARE the Epstein/Trump oligarchy

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u/EducationalProduct 14h ago

the oligarchy.

what is the average age of "the oligarchy" if you had to guess?

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u/loondawg 13h ago

What % of boomers are billionaires if you had to guess?

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u/EducationalProduct 13h ago

a vastly higher percentage than any other generation?

i find something like this more interesting:

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u/loondawg 13h ago

a vastly higher percentage than any other generation?

So you have no idea? Do you think it is 1% or more? Or more directly, is it a large enough percentage that it merits blaming the entire generation?

i find something like this more interesting

So if you find it interesting, have you factored in what % of the population makes up each generation? How about how people tend to be wealthier later in life as they gain wealth over the course of their lives?

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u/EducationalProduct 12h ago

So you have no idea? Do you think it is 1% or more? Or more directly, is it a large enough percentage that it merits blaming the entire generation?

are you making any points or just asking questions? feel free to tell me since you obviously know.

So if you find it interesting, have you factored in what % of the population makes up each generation? How about how people tend to be wealthier later in life as they gain wealth over the course of their lives?

yes i have.

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u/loondawg 12h ago

That complaint is laughable given you're the one who started asking questions instead of directly making points.

And when you say "a vastly higher percentage than any other generation" you should be able to answer what the percentage is yourself. It's not my job to do your research.

And if you have actually considered those factors, you should understand how they make the chart you supplied pretty much meaningless.

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u/Fluffy-Study-659 17h ago

Vote Progressive
Tax billionaires

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u/Historical-Cress8985 17h ago

Eat the billionaires

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u/PeachScary413 17h ago

The point is that boomers have no say in anything related to today's generation since they got to experience life on tutorial island difficulty mode and then pulled the ladder up behind them for any future generation.

I'm all for a generational divide as long as it's every other generation uniting against the boomers.

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u/LevelStationaryPlane 16h ago

"Tutorial Island Mode" is the best description I'm using that one lmao.

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u/rimshot101 16h ago

I mean... do you plan to kill them all or something? What does your united fight against 70 year olds entail exactly?

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u/GothGreyAyyLover 15h ago

its funnier when the new gen comes in and blames his generation and he spends 40 years trying to explain how it was the boomers. Then the next gen comes in and blames them. its a hilariously long cycle of playing the victim and not doing anything to stop it, its like when kids start flexing how THEIR generation is going to fix shit when they are at home on their computer while other people are out fighting the system and protesting.

lol

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u/Sufficient-Object-89 1h ago

We are the first generation in 100 years to have living standards worse than their parents...

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u/SleepyDoozer2 14h ago

Keeping them out of elected positions, for one - make the mandatory retirement age the same as SS, guaranteeing that any vote to raise the former will be stymied by the latter. Folks who will never see the consequences of their decisions ought not to be making them.

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u/DudeWithTudeNotRude 10h ago

there are more non-boomers than boomers in the world.

All you need to do is run for office and out vote them. there are fewer of them fwiw, so it's not on them at this point.

Boomers are dying. they are not your problem. if you think many of them were pawns...they totally were.

dont be a pawn. your hate is the easiest way to control you.

wake tf up instead imo.

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u/SleepyDoozer2 10h ago

That is wildly naive.

Boomers are, in fact, the problem - they put in place many of the economic and political gates that are causing trouble. Is it your belief that the current crop of sept-and octogenarians are the very best folks for the job? Or could they have stacked it like that?

Repeal Citizens United, so that the corporate candidate doesn't have such a stacked advantage. Introduce more term limits and mandatory retirement ages. Then we can talk - there's no point in playing a rigged game.

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u/RepublicDry2258 12h ago

We need to tax the elderly more, I think that’s a fair option

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u/rimshot101 7h ago

Do you seriously think that all old people are fabulously wealthy?

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u/Acceptable-Leek1546 6h ago

What a terrible take. I can’t for the life of me understand why Reddit thinks taxing everyone to death will fix their shitty lives.

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u/RepublicDry2258 6h ago

Imagine it, we take the wealth from boomers (before they waste it all on end of life care and corvettes) and the subsidize housing for younger people, also doesn’t have to be that, really any social programs

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u/Acceptable-Leek1546 6h ago

Why do you need the government to provide everything for you? At some point, you gotta get off the nipple.

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u/MacroDemarco 14h ago

When SS runs out in 2032, don't raise taxes on working people.

But I also wouldn't be opposed to involuntary MAID

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u/GlitteringFerretYo 15h ago

Why is every other post on my front page "I have nothing saved for retirement and I'm 65 what do I do?"

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u/EducationalProduct 14h ago

do you frequent povertyfinance like subs?

we didn't say they were responsible. some kids still crash with training wheels on.

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u/PeachScary413 9h ago

They would be sooooo cooked on gen-z "nightmare mode" or gen alpha "no respawn one shot kill giga-hard"

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u/Big_Wave9732 13h ago

some kids still crash with training wheels on.

Love that.

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u/Laquickah 15h ago

As lower middle aged person one thing I have noticed is that in my part of the world, we were able to grow up with low key drinking and driving and in the last few years I had to adjust to the idea that it wasn’t safe to drink 3-4 beer, wait 2-3 hours and drive… I’m sure I’ll get some downvotes, but that was a very normalized behaviour.

I do think that passed generations had some liberties that current ones never will, for better or worse.

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u/Gonna_B_Alright 17h ago

And they pretty much created corporations to buy all the housing and rent it to people forever.

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u/in4life 12h ago

The perception of Boomers will be more comparable to a diety than whatever you described when you see how young generations perceive us when we're awaiting Social Security.

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u/naslanidis 16h ago

WTF do you know about what boomers actually experienced though?

Maybe, just maybe, boomers and the younger generations have NFI what each other have experienced.

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u/PeachScary413 14h ago

Found the boomer.

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u/AutoCockerPB 16h ago

Lol, try living with a boomer. They will tell you that every damn day.

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u/xGreir 16h ago

Time to get your head out of your ass, I fear.

Truth is, not even close to all understand this reality, and the spreading of this narrative is one of the most important things we have to do, to create consciousness, understanding, and effectively, the little action we see today, and more each day.

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u/loondawg 15h ago

Yes. Getting made at a whole generation for what a small segment of people did is really stupid important.

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u/S_balmore 16h ago

Agreed. Yeah, the Boomers were the luckiest generation in history, but what does that have to do with me and my life? Are we trying to say that because the Boomers didn't struggle, no one should ever have to struggle again, therefore those who are struggling now should just.......give up? Like, what is the takeaway here? Yeah, Boomers are out of touch, but acknowledging that doesn't put money in my pocket.

And let's not forget, people in the 1930s were way worse off than we are today. If we're going to play the comparison game, why do we only ever compare ourselves to Boomers? Why do we conveniently forget that we're way better off than virtually ever other generation in history? These types of posts are from and for people who just want to complain and sulk. It's pitiful.

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u/alexifua 16h ago

Neither do I. Yes, after WW2 the US was essentially the only intact economy, with the others in ruins. That was a unique historical circumstance, and it will never happen again, no matter what any government does.

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u/BagOnuts 14h ago

My guy… do you not see what sub you are on? Dude is upset that a /r/sipstea post isn’t “meaningful”, haha

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u/Ill-Emu-1121 14h ago

Chronological Snobbery and it maintains conflict over actually doing something.

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u/Euler007 14h ago

Also there's another step. They inherited roughly 64k from their parents, and they will pass down on average 900k-1.1M.

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u/Mushu_Pork 14h ago

The point is the elimination of hope through propaganda.

Impoverished unmotivated people are easier to control.

I'm a Xennial, and I'm already hearing tall tales about how everything was so easy in our generation as well.

Bro... a lot of boomers blew all of their money, or lost it in the dot.com bubble or 2008 financial crisis...

So the people that were SUPPOSED to retire, simply couldn't... and there were no jobs "waiting for us".

We're finally getting ahead at 40-50 years old... after making no progress for 20-30yrs.

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u/WhatevMannnnnnnnnn 14h ago

Generational sniping distracts from the discussion of current wealth inequality.

And, karma-farmng.

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u/Sudden_Cartoonist539 14h ago

The most generations that criticize and demean other generations are Baby boomers and gen x with baby boomers being worse.

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u/_twowheelin 14h ago

It probably has something to do with the talking down to younger generations, the fact that social security is being siphoned from the young (that will never see the benefits of the system they are paying into), and the fact that BOOMERS VOTE FOR THESE POLICIES AND OVERWHELMINGLY ARE IN OFFICE ACTIVELY FUCKING EVERYONE.

I hope you could hear me in the back.

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u/AboveAndBelowSea 13h ago

I agree. These posts minimize the fact that even though times were different back then, people that thrived still worked hard and adapted to changing conditions. Yes, times are hard. But also yes, the folks who are doing well are adapting to changes in the past economy and evolving needs in the workplace.

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u/exiestjw 13h ago

The point is to get someone besides me to jack me off when I get hard to the thought "other people aren't me, therefore they have it better than me"

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u/SolDios 13h ago

Its grumpy people trying to find a person to blame, all the while pretending if they were in the same socioeconomic scenario they would be doing it different.

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u/reality72 12h ago

I think the younger generations are sick and tired of the condescending attitude of the boomers that they’ve had to put up with their entire lives. And even with 1 foot in the grave, they’re still in control of this country and trying to exempt themselves from paying as much taxes as possible, putting an even worse burden on the younger generations.

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u/in4life 12h ago

Every failure wants to be the underdog and every success story wants to preach how individualistic that was.

Someone's perspective simply distills it down to whether you're listening to a successful or unsuccessful person.

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u/Every_Application_26 12h ago edited 10h ago

Not to mention failing to learn from previous generations. Very few of these posts talk about how we should avoid the same mistakes by caring more about future generations in terms of reducing deficits etc.

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u/Ilovemytowm 11h ago

At this point I'm thinking it's a I bot trolls behind all of this nonsense... Funded by the billionaires who have us peasants exactly where they want us.

Humanity is f****** cooked because we're too goddamn stupid 

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u/Electronic-Raise-281 16h ago

And none of these people want to consider moving to a city where homes are nuch cheaper. No. They cluster all around LA, SF, NYC, and go online to post how unfair it is.

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u/Gloomy_Lumis 15h ago

I mean this is just ignoring where a majority of jobs are. I moved out of one of the cities you listed and it took 6 months to find a job to move back to the big city in my state. I had to completely change industries. The competition is 2 other companies in my new industry otherwise I’d have to move (again) for better opportunities.

My brother lives in one of the cities you listed. He wants to move home but again there are 3-4 companies with roles in his industry. He ended up taking a role with one of those companies in his current city and is going to request a transfer in a yr or 2 because there were no openings in this city.

“These people” are there working because that’s where the jobs are. A very small percentage are okay being poor to live in those areas just because. We saw this when remote work was popular in Covid. A lot of small towns complained that city folk with remotes jobs were moving to their towns and driving up prices. My home town still complains about this.

Same way you go on any subreddit of a southern state where somebody posts about moving there. There are always comments about it being full, at capacity or jokes to move somewhere else.

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u/ArmyHotel338 14h ago

You can live 30 miles from San Francisco and own a condo for under $400k
You can live 30 miles from Northern Virginia and own a single family home in Jefferson County for under $300k

There are plenty of places to live and own your own home if you are willing to make a commute for work without having to live in the city proper.

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u/Gloomy_Lumis 14h ago

How long is that commute for either of those places (I don’t know, I’m genuinely asking)?

It wouldn’t matter if Remote work was still the norm but that’s no longer the case so people are naturally going to gravitate to areas that are under an hour commute (one way). I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect anybody to live over an hour (1 way) commute from the hub of jobs in their area.

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u/ArmyHotel338 12h ago edited 12h ago

WV to NOVA you can do under an hour if you are going to Loudoun County, if you are going to Fairfax County it will be an hour or a little over if you work near Chantilly or Reston... Tysons would probably be worth it if the job paid enough, that would be around 1hr15min. Anything past that would suck, you wouldn't want to work in Arlington and live in WV.

Concord CA to SF you can take the Concord BART yellow train and be in the city in under an hour.

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u/born2bfi 15h ago

It’s a lot easier to live on a full time McDonald’s salary in Omaha or Tulsa than it is San Fran or LA. You can make $20-25 an hour as a fork lift driver in those cities and afford to live. Can you do that in the big cities you are talking about?

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u/Gloomy_Lumis 14h ago

I’m not disputing that but how many forklift drivers do you think are needed in Omaha compared to the Port Newark and Port Jersey-Port Authority or Port of LA?

It’s also incredibly telling that you took my comment and used McDonalds/hourly work as a response instead of salary positions.

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u/born2bfi 14h ago

Most people on here have shit jobs so they complain nonstop. If you are making 80k as a financial analyst you can find that job in much lower cost of living areas. I’m in an infrastructure engineer who makes 140k/yr in a MCOL medium city. I’d make 175-185k for an equivalent job in SF. I like the weather but not more than my badass house I live in now

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u/EducationalProduct 14h ago

crazy, people dont want to live in a flat one-company town?

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u/El_Gran_Che 17h ago

And it’s about to dramatically accelerate that change here in the next 5 years. Stand by

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u/MacroDemarco 14h ago

generational dissent (which ultimately isn’t productive)

Translation: please don't notice how you've been screwed by earlier generations

and it never seems to come with a meaningful call to action or what better advice would be.

Defund the SSA

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u/rimshot101 16h ago

I see a lot of anger because there wasn't a perfect world waiting for them when they were born. All unsolved problems are the fault of the people before them. All economies are supposed to only get better and better. I told one GenZer that he was going to have to learn to navigate this life just like we did and he accused me of "wanting him to suffer just because I'd had to suffer".

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u/Traditional-Buy-2205 17h ago edited 17h ago

The point is to make sure everyone knows you're a victim.

Being a victim is all the rage in this day and age.

Sounds like I should become a rapper.

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u/Fantasyfootball9991 16h ago edited 16h ago

The point is to combat the gaslighting and lies the older generations have told millennials and Gen Z and show that this is a universal problem for anyone 40 and under. It’s not some individual failing like we’re not working hard enough or that we’re buying too much coffee and toast and that’s the reason we can’t afford to buy a house…many boomers actually believe this nonsense.

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u/borgman_a 15h ago

Gen Z has it bad when it comes to housing costs...

...but the Boomer didn't have it great - they had it the SECOND WORST of any generation born since 1900 in their 20's/30's.

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u/Traditional-Buy-2205 15h ago

[sad_violin_music]

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u/LevelStationaryPlane 16h ago

Just like the boomers during Vietnam, right? Bunch of victims. The difference is they still had purchasing power and a half-upright economy.

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u/MyNameIsMud1996 17h ago

That's a solid assessment.

And we need solid investments.

But my take home pay got me like,

Where the rest went?

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u/CDBoomGun 17h ago

People get likes and attention with outrage. It's easier to blame an entire generation than adapt and accept. You know, I was thinking about how scary it would be to have gas prices go above $10 a gallon. Then I decided it would probably be good for me because I would have to start biking 10 miles to work. The easier thing is to complain, but the better thing is to adapt.

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u/AK-Master-07 17h ago

Agreed. I started my career in 2007. The entire economy was in free fall. The value of my house dropped and I was underwater by 50%. Homes were foreclosing all around us. “Second job” was impossible to find, if you were lucky enough to find a primary job.

One thing we didn’t do was go on message boards to whine about it.

This new generation has no idea what it is to be uncomfortable. And I feel bad for them. Cause when the actual pain hits, they’re likely to be paralyzed by it.

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u/ZealousidealSkin941 17h ago

Yet.. here you are..

Maybe.. you just didn't have message boards to go whine to? 🤔

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u/AK-Master-07 13h ago

lol the internet existed during the Great Financial Crisis

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u/Away_Investigator351 17h ago

Just sounds like another ignorant generalisation about an entire generation.

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u/astrisk120 17h ago

You mean like the op?

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u/Away_Investigator351 16h ago

Hence the 'another', yes.

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u/AK-Master-07 13h ago

Please explain how this is an “ignorant generalization”. Is this new generation not whining on message boards? I mean Reddit is a dumpster fire for this generation of whiners. Also, what real hardship has this generation experienced? Lowest unemployment rate in history? Information and solutions at your fingertips. Lowest amount of gainfully employed in history? The number of full grown adults willfully unemployed and living with their parents is shocking.

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u/Away_Investigator351 13h ago

Because you're generalising an entire generation as those people you see on Reddit, and that is the act of an ignoramus.

I'm not going to waste time trying to hold a discussion on what the problems are today with someone who can't recognise a basic hasty generalisation fallacy. That's a huge intellectual red flag.

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u/AK-Master-07 13h ago

I mean, anytime anyone talks about what “a generation does” is generalizing. How could you possibly talk about a generation without generalizing? Please explain.

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u/Away_Investigator351 13h ago

By not generalising them all as "whining on message boards" - whilst you do the same thing.

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u/LikesPez 17h ago

Just like this meme.

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u/Away_Investigator351 16h ago

Hence the 'another', yes.

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u/GrizzlyAdam12 16h ago

People who post these things are also implying that somehow the solution will come from Big Government…which is, ironically, still run by the boomers.

There is no “solution” because the post WW2 growth was never sustainable. It was a one-time thing. We are now normalizing.

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u/Rionin26 16h ago

Laws arent being enforced, and government is there to help the rich. First was bitches(the rich) hated unions, so they bribed the gov to open offshoring to break them up. Things like closures back in the day got you in trouble, now is a tactic companies use to keep unions forming.

Next the consolidation of competition, I think Kahn had the last successful stop with Albertson, and Kroger. I think the last one before was in early 2000s. We have many industries that are owned by a few to 4 companies. This drives costs up, and hurts if recalls happen ie baby formula recall. Also hurts innovations as well. High speed Internet might not exist if at&t was not broken up in the late 80s.

High taxes on the wealthy also helped the people more. A gov that tied mw to inflation would also help.

Trying to act like this was just a one time thing from rebuilding Europe and Japan is naive. This is a gov bought to serve the rich and their needs, and we are seeing the aftermath of them getting their way for the last 80 years.

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u/Ricktor_67 16h ago

Bullshit. We are being strip mined by $billionaires. Thats it. Thats what is happening. 1% control literally 70% of the money. The bottom 50% have literally 1% of the money. They are bleeding us dry despite the fact they have more money than they could ever spend.

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u/viralust 16h ago

Normalizing? Lol. Was the great depression normal? High income inequality is not sustainable. High inflation is not sustainable. Inflation is one of the reasons we changed our retirement system in 1978 and why we allowed stock buybacks in 1982. Those decisions, along with many others led to what we have now which is an overinflated stock market that is not representative at all to local economies nationwide. Your big government argument doesn't work because we literally have corporations writing laws that government passes. Welfare for corporations is okay but, oh no, social programs that make life better for everyone? That's big government and its bad. Pfft whatever

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u/PickledDildosSourSex 16h ago

It's just grief and outrage fuel, echoed out to get engagement. It's incredibly toxic 

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u/Responsible_CDN_Duck 14h ago

They lie about how good people in the past had it to make your feel mad.

They want you to think everyone lived in new houses, not drafty trailers or apartments that would be condemned today.

There are members of the Friends cast that talk about using payphones because they could not afford basics like phones early in their careers.