r/ShibariPersonals • • Dec 06 '23

Welcome to Shibari Personals NSFW

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Riggers and Rope Bunnies alike!

I've been posting personals ads on Reddit enough to come to realization that the wonderful world of shibari/kinbaku is different enough from other bdsm practices and most certainly from hookup type personals subreddits to warrant its own.

So, here it is, wonderful kinksters, use this place to find each other! And be safe out there.

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r/ShibariPersonals • • Nov 29 '25

M4F šŸ‘€ Looking for a Rope Bunny for a Fun 3D Scanning Project in #PA or #NJ NSFW

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Hello, Shibarians!

I am a bit of a photography and 3D scanning connoisseur, and I do have experience making 3D scans of people, but as you probably can imagine it's really hard - people move, and you need them to be as still as possible for a good 3D scan. That is, when you don't have cool hundred grand for a mutil-camera rigs that Hollywood studios and some crazy enthusiasts use.

So, I searched deep within my soul and realized that I am also involved in another interesting hobby, one that renders beautiful people still for approximately the time that it takes for a good 3D scan. And so the idea for this project was born.

This is how I envision it, and I am open to any and all possible suggestions on bettering it:

You are a young woman and you enjoy having your pictures taken. But since they are 2D, you've been curious about how you look if you add one dimension to those. At the same time you are curious about shibari and rope bondage or indeed you are a pro rope bunny - all levels of familiarity with the craft are welcome. You also happen to live within couple hours drive from Philadelphia or in town on some business or pleasure.

What we do:

You: show up (whew! that was hard!)

Me: Organize everything in a hotel that's convenient for you to get to, have lights, some props, scanning app, have my rope kit with me obviously

Together: We chat a bit to relax (if we don't already know each other because if we do you already know that I'm super chill and easy going). If you never experienced rope, I will tie a few non-restrictive ties on you just to play with rope and get a feel for it. If you are a pro, we can skip that step. Or not. It's cute regardless :)

Then I tie something simple but restrictive, say a simple box tie, then tie some agura to immobilize your legs, sit you on the floor and wave my phone with a scanning app around you for 10-15-ish minutes. Then we take a break, do a different tie and a different pose, another 15 mins for scanning and then move on to the next. I am hoping that in about 5-6 hours we can go from TK to ebi, or however restrictive your physique will allow, while still having time for breaks, chatting, checking phones, drinking water etc, the normal things people do on a shibari rope play session.

We don't have to do it only once, but whether or not there will be 3D scanning next time will depend on the outcome of the first scanning session. If that does not work out great but you still like playing rope with me - I would be ecstatic to organize more sessions with you, just not so camera-oriented.

Wall of text later, I am finally getting to one tiny little important detail: since this is technically photography, just with an extra dimension, you may be wondering how I am planning to use your likeness, and I will admit to you freely that I have no freaken clue. I am just interested in the process, and I am interested in the object - you. But beyond that I can either do nothing with it or let you distribute your own 3D likeness on OF, IG or wherever your hears desires. Spam your boyfriend's messenger, haha, I don't care all that much beyond figuring out how to produce a good 3D scan of a beautiful woman in ropes. I will probably ask you to help me find a few of your good still image renders and perhaps a short walkaround video to post in r/shibari or similar for bragging, with all required attribution of course. But even that is very optional. This is not a commercial offer, I will not be compensating you for your time, except perhaps with some corny jokes :)

Interested? Perplexed but intrigued? Chat or message me here! This is a bit different from my regular shibari sessions (did I mention you are also invited to those?!), so may take a bit of time to put it together, but it won't happen for sure unless you get in touch with me, so get in touch today! See ya šŸ¤—


r/ShibariPersonals • • 7d ago

M4F 50M4f Concord NH area - looking for a rope bunny for fun and practice NSFW

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Inked and kinked :). Looking for a rope bunny to share some time with. It’s important to me to build up some communication and trust before engaging in any play so please reach out and let’s chat. Let me know kinks limits or whatever else you feel like is appropriate. Some examples of my work is on my profile but happy to chat about other interests and ideas.

Have a couple times open and available the next couple weekends specifically if anyone is open to something spontaneous.


r/ShibariPersonals • • 14d ago

M4F M4F looking for a female Shibari partner for private classes in Victoria, BC NSFW

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Hello Reddit! I tried this a few months back but plans fell through so I’m trying again. I’ve been interested to learn how to tie Shibari rope work on a woman and I’m looking to have a female partner or a couple from learn with me.

I am in touch with a tutor that has a studio for private lessons in Victoria, BC (So ideally you would be from this area or able to travel). The classes can accommodate 4 people for the same price for 2 hour sessions. If you’re the female partner joining me, I would cover the cost of classes, but if you’re are a couple looking to join us, we can split the cost between 2 couples. The classes are by sessions so there is no commitments to set classes. Looking to start sometime in October.

I’m an absolute beginner and well go through basics including materials so no worries if this is something you are curious about. We will of course meet up prior to chat and discuss anything we need to.

I am respectful and your safety abd comfort will always be top priority. No means no, and stop means stop. No questions asked.

If you’re interested, let me know and we can set something up!


r/ShibariPersonals • • 14d ago

M4F [M4F] #FortWorth, TX Older Dom and Rigger lookingfor younger bunny and sub NSFW

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I recently got out of a marraige and I am looking for a younger playmate. I have over 25 years in the BDSM Lifestyle and 14 years as a Shibari Rigger. I am an Old School Dom that believes in the Old Tenets of the Lifestvle. I have trained many women that are new to the lifestvle. Al activities are negotiated before performing and I abide by all hard and soft limits. Safe words are strictly adhered to. If you are looking for guidance and instruction or iust playtime, I can accommodate pretty any level of submission you want


r/ShibariPersonals • • 14d ago

M4A [M32] Self Bondage Exhibitionist. I am looking for someone to watch me put myself into self bondage and enjoy the show. Watching me struggle and tease myself. If this sounds interesting to you please let me know . Can provide pics and video proof NSFW

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See Title. Or Add my discord johnsmalls897


r/ShibariPersonals • • 17d ago

F4F 18 TF4F Inexperienced sub looking for rope domme in Indiana NSFW

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Uuh like the title says, I’m a trans woman in college and am interested in trying out bondage with another person! I have experience with Selfbondage but have never been tied up by another person and would live to try. Feel free to comment or DM so we can get to know each other :33


r/ShibariPersonals • • 17d ago

F4F 28 [tF4F] #STL Amateur rigger/bunny looking for same NSFW

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Hello~

I am a switch with high interest and limited experience in both being a rigger and a bunny.

I am looking for someone for a long term FWB relationship.

If you're near the area and you'd like to get to know each other, send me a DM! We'll chat for a bit then arrange a date to meet each other in public.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ShibariPersonals • • 20d ago

M4F Hello, im new here. I“m a Kinbaku Rigger from Argentina NSFW

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r/ShibariPersonals • • 26d ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #NJ Looking for domme into bondage and creativity NSFW

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Let me start this by saying I am NOT looking for a kink dispenser. I am looking for a real relationship led by a domme that is into my largest kink which is bondage. Aside from that, let's discuss what you enjoy and how we can make this a mutually beneficial relationship. Only then will I be satisfied because you are satisfied. ​


r/ShibariPersonals • • 28d ago

T4A 28 TM4A #Balkans Long shot but looking for a rigger NSFW

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Looking for a rigger, beginner or experienced, from the Balkans. I know its a long shot but I figured I'd try anyway.

I'm new to shibari and I enjoy being a bunny. I'm open to having the rigger learn on me. Everything else we can discuss in person ā˜ŗļø My preference would be someone from Bosnia as I'm currently located there, but I'm willing to consider other Balkan riggers too.

Any gender is welcome, as long as you are respectful of the fact that I am a trans man who will not be your feminine twink.


r/ShibariPersonals • • 29d ago

F4A 28F [F4A] #USA Looking for my rope tops across USA NSFW

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I am a nomad and have a hard time finding community- can I build one? Looking for genuine rope tops who would be interested in getting together when I come through your area.
Newer to being a bottom but obsessed


r/ShibariPersonals • • Sep 12 '26

M4A 24 M4A #CA #California #SoCal Rope bunny looking for someone awesome to explore shibari with NSFW

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Hello there fellow human beings! I hope you are having a pretty bombastic day!

I’m a happy-go-lucky, pun-loving nerd who’s usually a bit shy at first, but opens up if we click. I tend to be a bit more of a homebody. I game a lot (mainly fighting games, even though I’m terrible at them), love trying new foods, and have been trying to dive into programming lately. I also really like listening to all kinds of music (currently enjoying the deltarune OST), so if you have any suggestions, pass them over! As for outdoors, I’m always down for most things, especially for swimming (which I also somehow suck at). I also love trying new foods. I've also been considering getting into hiking lately, so give me those tips and tricks too if you have any. I currently live in the southern Inland Empire and can travel a bit if needed (most of SoCal is in reach for me). That being said, I can’t host.

I am writing here in the hopes of finding an awesome rigger! I personally like most things bondage related, and shibari has definitely been something that I've wanted to dabble in and experience for some time now. I've done some simple self ties, but it is obviously much easier when you have a partner to help. I have a strong lean towards being a sub/rope bunny. That being said, I am trying to improve my own skill, and would be open to occasionally being a rigger. Though I definitely can't strictly be a rigger. And keep in mind that I am definitely a beginner, as both a rigger and a rope bunny. I am also very open to making friends outside of the shibari/kink world, so still feel free to message me if you would just like to chat! It should be stated that despite my like for shibari, I am very inexperienced (and shy), so please be patient with me. That being said, If you are also not very experienced, that is no problem for me. Then we can both learn together! I am bisexual, so all genders are open to send me a message if you would like. My only real requirement is that you're not a jerk.

Other than that, I hope everyone reading this has an awesome day!


r/ShibariPersonals • • Sep 02 '26

M4F [M4F] #FortWorth,TX Older Dom and Rigger looking for a younger Submissive and Rope Bunny NSFW

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I recently got out of a marraige and I am looking for a younger playmate.

I have over 25 years in the BDSM Lifestyle and 14 years as a Shibari Rigger. I am an Old School Dom that believes in the Old Tenets of the Lifestyle. I have trained many women that are new to the lifestyle. All activities are negotiated before performing and I abide by all hard and soft limits. Safe words are strictly adhered to.

If you are looking for guidance and instruction or just playtime, I can accommodate pretty much any level of submission you want.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 29 '26

M4F 57 [M4F] #PA #NJ ~ Bondage Bonanza ~ Experienced Rigger Cordially Invites You to Fun and Safe Shibari Rope Play NSFW

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Does the idea of being tied up excite you? Let's explore your desires together, with focus on safety and comfort. We can engage in friendly banter and listen to music while I tie you up. This may end with a simple hug and "thank you for the wonderful evening" or an orgasm or several - it's really up to you and your level of comfort. If you want to play with things other than rope, just let me know what else turns you on! I do have my limits, but will accommodate most requests.

I can host at a conveniently located hotel, with my name on their guest registry for your safety and peace of mind. I can send you some examples of my previous work. If you have not done this before, I will explain the safety procedures and make sure you follow them during our playtime.

Come alone or bring a partner/chaperone - couples are welcome. No pressure to engage in anything more than what you're comfortable with, and I will respect your limits and make sure you are comfortable. We can meet for coffee beforehand to get to know each other better and discuss our interests and desires. You don't need prior experience and don't need to provide anything, just bring your enthusiasm!

I am experienced, sane and level-headed, respectful, patient, clean and fit. You will be safe with me. And unless you like it this way, we won't do anything strenuous - after all, this is intended as a relaxing afternoon activity, a great way to unwind after a stressful day at work with no hurry or particular goals. This can be a one-time exploration, but I am always striving to establish good rapport and common interests to become friends and meet and play regularly.

Everyone is different, so let me know what your interests are, and we can work together to make it a playtime to remember. If you're curious, click the Chat button on my profile or send me a message and we'll go from there!


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 25 '26

M4F 50 [M4F] #Dordogne - A la recherche de une rope bunny en Dordogne et alentours NSFW

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C’est Ć©trange de repenser Ć  mon histoire avec le shibari. Tout a commencĆ© il y a des annĆ©es, en Asie, où j’ai eu le plaisir d’apprendre les bases. Depuis, le chemin vers des ligotages plus Ć©laborĆ©s a pris quelques dĆ©tours hasardeux… jusqu’à me laisser un peu perdu dans les bois, sans direction vraiment claire.

Aujourd’hui, le vrai dĆ©fi est ailleurs : trouver ici, en France, des rope bunnies avec qui explorer, essayer de nouvelles choses et apprendre ensemble. Le besoin est lĆ , sincĆØre. Alors pourquoi est-ce si difficile de croiser la bonne partenaire dans cette partie du pays ? Dordogne et alentours… on m’a dit que c’était possible. Et pourtant, toujours aucune bunny Ć  l’horizon.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 20 '26

F4T I'm new here! Does anyone like rope marks? I am working up to full suspension with my rope topšŸ’‹āœØ NSFW

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r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 19 '26

M4F 36M4F#GER - rigger looking for a beautiful female in body and soul as his ropebunny NSFW

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Any new ropebunnies? Where Do i usually find new people to explore and practice shibari with - in my country?


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 16 '26

M4F [M4F] rigger looking for a Model in Italy, experienced rigger NSFW

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Looking for a bunny / model in Italy currently living and working in Italy, ask for my fetlife šŸ˜‰


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 15 '26

F4M Looking for some good tips for someone who is just getting into this stuff with real people. What have you learned from past experiences. Want to do it safe and fun. NSFW

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Looking for some good tips for someone who is just getting into this stuff with real people. What have you learned from past experiences. Want to do it safe and fun.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 11 '26

F4F Just a rope bunny who lobes to be tied up and gagged. I love being put in my place and serving my dom. I love playing out scenes in fantasies. NSFW

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r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 11 '26

F4M Any Riggers in the DFW Area? Not sure where to look. NSFW

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Looking for a Rigger in the DFW area.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 10 '26

M4F 60 [M4F] #FortWorth, TX Rigger looking for a new bunny NSFW

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Older Rigger has been out of the game for a while. I am looking for a new bunny. No experience necessary. I am in N Fort Worth by Keller. I am an Old School Dom and live by the old Tenets: Safe, Sane, Consensual. Any other BDSM activities can be negotiated after meeting and chemistry has been assessed.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 09 '26

M4A 27 [M4A] #SF #BayArea #EastBay - Looking for shibari buddies NSFW

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Been curious about trying shibari as the rigger and the one getting tied up. I’m very much a beginner so I’m looking for someone with a similar amount of experience or someone more experienced that will be patient with a newbie. There are also rope jams and classes around the Bay that I’d like to attend to learn more and practice. Would be great to have a buddy to go with. I’m ok with chatting about interests, limits, and boundaries to see if we match. Also down to meet up somewhere in public before doing anything to build up trust. Ideally you can host, I cannot host. Happy to share more about myself in chat. I’m in the east bay but can meet anywhere. I prefer people around my age but not a deal breaker.

Be at least 18 and respectful of limits and boundaries.

HMU with age, stats, and how you see this going down. Say more than just ā€œheyā€ or ā€œsupā€ in your first message please.


r/ShibariPersonals • • Aug 09 '26

F4M Shibari in tokyo now - place suggestions needed for today NSFW

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Hoping to do this today in tokyo

Any place suggestions