You elevate your way......and I'll elevate mine.

I'm over the labels and all the tiny boxes you all seem to want to divide and put everything and everyone in. If I post a picture of a woman in clothing, some ass-hat will comment, CFNM or some shit like that. An OnlyFans girl wrote me a novel vial mod mail that this space of ours is full of internalized misogyny, and a young feminist wrote me a manifesto on the destruction of the patriarchy.....all this just this week.

I'll remind everyone to take from my stories what might be helpful and leave the rest.

Several years before the "great awakening" I was already looking for some guidance on how best to rewrite my marriage in a way that would serve me and us. I did not get the help, mentoring or guidance I needed. I was on my own...and still am.

Bla..bla...bla.....

We almost lost each other. That clear moment came after a knee to knee, come to Jesus, two bottle of wine talk that lasted till the early hours of the morning. It was gut wrenching, difficult, awful...but it was also beautiful because we got to a new place.

...again...bla...bla...bla...

He asked me what I wanted and I blurted out, "I want more meaningful intimacy. I want more orgasms." He just stared at me for a few moments and said, "I can do that for you." Yes there was much more to it than I can stuff into this post but that began a full, top to bottom, revamp of our intimacy.

Today...and for the last several years, he is to go down on me whenever I ask him to. No expectation that I am to reciprocate. To his credit, he's never hesitated. I love his eagerness to please, serve and honor me.

I'd have it no other way.