I’m here hoping to meet a guy I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to about anything and everything, laugh with over the simplest things, and feel comfortable being myself around.

I value good conversations, honesty, consistency, and a connection that goes beyond physical attraction.

I’m not looking for perfection or rushing into anything. I’d rather take my time getting to know someone and see where things naturally lead.

If it grows into something meaningful, even better. I believe the best connections start with two people who are genuinely interested in knowing each other, not just passing the time.

A little wild naughty side, a little humor, mutual effort, and genuine affection would be nice. Maybe we start as strangers, become each other’s favorite person to talk to, and see where life takes us. 😊

Hi - I'm incredibly curious about being with another man. I need to make this happen somehow. But I can't imagine putting my photos on Grindr. What advice do you have for a nervous beginner? I'm 54, handsome, 6'3" 220.

thank you

Hi i am 26 M looking for a desi btm gays in seattle or bellvue

37m in the Kent area looking ideally for a relationship. Dm me and we can chat more. I'm Caucasian and typically attracted to Asian or Latino guys.

Hiiiii! I am a Vietnamese boy based in Washington, in the greater Seattle area, hoping to connect with someone who shares similar hobbies and sexual interests.

I’m mainly looking to chat with people between 27–45. I’m pretty open-minded overall, but if you happen to be an older Asian man… that’s definitely a bonus 😉 (not a requirement though!)

A little about me: I’m big into PC gaming and I’m absolutely obsessed with K-pop. If that sounds like your vibe too, let’s talk! We can get I to the sexual stuff later or reference my other posts for details hehe ;) Feel free to say hi and send a pic — I’d love to put a face to the name!

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41M, Bi Father, in an Open Relationship. Looking for other males to hang with and get to know better... and hopefully it evolves to more. Im at a new place in my life and looking to try new things, explore the city, find new hobbies, meet new ppl, etc. Im masc presenting and prefer it that way, but for the right vibe/energy I can be very soft and submissive behind doors. My partner does know what Im doing and is very supportive, but by no means wants to be involved behind doors.

Downtown area I'd say

Just curious if there are any LGBT members there.

Just across the water from Seattle in Bremerton. I lived in Seattle for years but now in Kitsap. Single here and looking to meet other single men to date and see where it may lead. Not into hookups. I am at a point in my life that dating with intention is more important.

Plant/garden geek, language nerd and music dude who loves travel (when the plants allow it), cooking, and humor of questionable taste. I live in White Center, practically.

Today’s my birthday! I’m looking for someone to say hello and ask me to lunch and see where things go. I would like something serious. Talk to me about art and pokemon

26 M Asian 5’6 stocky/average build. Looking for fun dates or outings. Open to drinking, clubbing, walking, gaming, eating, etc. if you have a fun hobby you want to have more people know I’d like to be introduced to it with you as my guide :))

Hey, new to the sesttle area. Where do the 40 something chill guys hang out lol. Suggestions for places to visit, activities, etc.

Bi poly married chubby guy. Very newly looking to explore my bi side and especially my sub side. Pretty shy and looking to take things slow. Hoping to find someone patient to help me explore.

hey! I'm here visiting my sister in the navy and trying to tell her i'm gay. ive known for a while i feel like and our families cool but just looking for advice! not sure if this is the right place for this so sorry if not

So I’m having an issue with my ex fiance “JW” that I was engaged to since he moved here from Kentucky in 2017, last year I discovered what a con he was, in 2018 or 2019 I went through his phone and saw he had a tinder account and was pretending to be straight, I found several messages in his phone from “BE” and confronted him on it , he claimed it was just a phase he was going through and his plan was to knock up some “lowlife” with a baby and then take it away from her to raise it as his own. Yes I know I should have thrown him out of my house then, but he swore it was done and she moved away to Arizona. Well fast forward to 2024 he asked me if it would be ok if he moved to Kentucky for a year to help set up a new shop and be with family and he’d come home at the end of the year come to find out he moved to Lancaster KY with BE and was living a double life, still keeping in contact , having me on his cell account, and paying for bills and utilities here .fast forward to 2025 he moved to Fremont, CA and drove up here to spend some time with me in April , may and June, although pretty short but intimate visits. I started getting suspicious at this point so I did some digging around since I had met all of his family before and low and behold on his Mother’s Facebook she’s friends with “BE” so I confront him on this And he says it’s a fake account blah blah , so i decided to take a trip down to Cali since we had shared locations on iPhone and low and behold I show up to the trashy hotel he’s living in and “BE” is with him , I confront him and he runs away and then has the nerve to beg me to hook up with him the several nights I’m in Cali. I decide to fall for his lies again and fly him up for his Birthday in October and pick him up from SeaTac airport and he spends 2 nights here promising he’s gonna fix all the mess he made and all this stuff. I’ve reached out to her and most of her family and they don’t believe a word I’m saying because he’s that good of a con, I’ve sent video footage of him from my doorbell showing him here in October, screenshots of texts , copies of insurance policies we had together, my info that shows I got him his stupid Toyota Tacoma’s , everything ! He’s convinced them it’s all AI manipulated messages made by me, he’s done this to several other men and women in Seattle and Lancaster KY too but. Ever gets busted ! How does someone continuously get away with being a con ! Apparently he’s snaked his way back to Seattle this last December and even got an apartment where he has “BE” living with him but messages me and calls me daily to get back together and all kinds of stuff , Im sure there are other Victims, any ideas on how I can expose him for the lowlife pathetic loser he is ? If this gets the attention I’m hoping it will, I’ll post screenshots of all

I’m recently divorced after 20 years together. I don’t know what I’m doing at this point. I would like to find someone to just be friends first. Meet new people to go to dinner with or get drinks and laugh with. It’s hard to even just be friends let alone find the elusive “one”. Any suggestions?

Hey guys, I am a 24yo amab enby. I am looking to meet people and see what the vibes are like. Love to text and yap. Im chubby and tall. Inquire within, serious inquiries only :p

I’m trans masculine, had top surgery, but not bottom surgery (I like my holes & I’m a vers bottom).

I do pretty well on grindr with gay and bi cis guys who are into trans men & fem boys.

am I generally welcome at steamworks during pride weekend?