r/Punishmenthookup • • 1d ago

Online 21 [FTM4A] #online looking for an TPE owner NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hii I’ve posted on here before but it’s been awhile!!

I’m a trans man looking for a master/dom to control whatever they please. I named my kinks, limits, and my toys below. I use discord and only discord to communicate (besides here ofc). I don’t mind sending pics but I won’t show my face. Besides that I’ll do any thing your heart desires. Dm to talk to me more!! Serious inquiries only! Share with your friends!

Kinks: cnc, TPE relationship, Humiliation, degradation,orgasm control, degradation , hypnosis, public
Limits: ~Scat, permanent marks, excessive pain, gore, drinking pee(soft limit), blackmail
Toys: dildo, bullet vibrator, butt plug


r/Punishmenthookup • • 1d ago

In Person 24 (M4A) San Diego Ca- dom looking for a sub NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey there I’m looking to break in a new bitch and ruin em. I’m looking for someone who needs the push to do something they’d normally wouldn’t do;) to be specific I’m looking for a sub who wants to indulge in cnc, bdsm, exhibitionism, and orgasm denial. The main thing I enjoy doing is to play around with my sub in public by making them bend over so I can slip some fingers in and grope em until we get to somewhere remote to fuck.
The best part about it all is recording it all and capturing my sub reaction as I have my way with em

Message me if your interested and let’s have some fun


r/Punishmenthookup • • 3d ago

In Person 32 [M4NB/AFAB/FTM] #NC - Nerdy soft dom seeks committed sub for meaningful long term connection. Big and tall welcome! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'll start this post with a bit about myself and what I'm like. I'm white, in my early 30's, enjoy a lot of nerdy hobbies and dorky interests, and have a bit of a quirky, oddball personality. What I am hoping for is more than a quick hi and goodbye and I'm fully open to a serious commitment and long term connection. As a nerd it would be fun to find someone I can relate to who is also a fellow geek! If you like gaming and anime among other things, or are into dorky hobbies of your own then that would be amazing! You don't have to be into the same stuff as I am but it would be fun to have some things in common among other unique interests that we can each learn about and explore! I'm a pretty gentle but direct person, and work best with kind, patient, and nurturing partners who are naturally quite submissive. I can be both very tender and gentle while also being quite strong willed. So, someone who is seeking that duality in a man would be nice. Physically I'm open minded but have a strong preference for larger and plus sized individuals, and love when someone is busty and large chested in most respects. I'm not shy about being very interested if you're on the bigger, heavier, or super sized side of things, or stronger and taller at all too. It is a big plus if you're hairy everywhere, have PCOS/PMOS, or have a big clit. Communication and conversation are super important to me and I am very much someone who puts openness and vulnerability first in a connection. I'm a pretty sentimental and sweet person and I love talking and exploring what makes a person who they are while getting to bond with a partner.

On a core level I'm hoping to connect with a larger, nerdier, possibly plus sized submissive who is looking for a long term and romantic connection. I’m a very gentle yet dominant man IRL, currently back in school, and looking for a dynamic with a person who wants a genuine relationship bond but also knows their place and would like to just let loose as we connect. Someone open to a dom who explores things both firmly and directly, and in a gentle way with a loving tone. It would be nice to find someone who wants to be embarrassed/humiliated/patronized/etc... while their limits and needs are respected. The kind of sub who enjoys being overstimulated and used as much as being edged and denied, and who has a caring and serving mindset that loves being taught lessons and given gentle punishment vibes. Being open minded and strongly communicative is an important must have for all of this.

Some examples of things I like as a dom:

  • Casually putting my finger in your pussy/boycunt and telling you when to squeeze, hold, and release. Preferably several times a day.
  • Giving you my cock to suckle when either of us is stressed, or providing it as I feel like it to stimulate your oral fixation.
  • Comparing our genders and bodies.
  • Praising, teasing, or degrading you about how much better or worse you are intimately than a cis woman in one aspect or another. Only if you consent to this.
  • Misgendering and gender play. Only if you give clear consent and communication about this.
  • Encouraging you to voice and explore what it is you like so much about being dominated by a cis man.
  • Being in control of when you pee.
  • Not letting you shave your pussy/boycunt or other body areas.
  • Feminizing or masculinizing you as the mood hits. With consent and communication as to limits or feelings on the matter
  • Putting you to sleep every night. We could do this by gently and slowly fucking, having you suck my cock like your pacifier, cumming inside you and then keeping it plugged with my cock until you fall asleep, and more.
  • Encouraging weight gain.
  • Encouraging muscle gain.
  • Teasing/Encouraging/Chastising you for your hormones if you're on any.
  • Fucking and exploring your body when you're asleep. Only with your knowledge and consent of course.
  • Resting my hand over your pussy/boycunt while watching TV, eating dinner, falling asleep, and anytime the urge hits.
  • Normalizing you being naked or in your underwear and me being clothed around the house.
  • Lots and lots of lap time.
  • Bathing and showering together.
  • Pumping or hormonally enlarging your clit. If you're into that
  • Helping pick your outfits and pick your clothes, underwear, and lingerie.
  • Picking out a collar and leash together and fitting them onto you
  • Large amounts of breast play and even exploring ANR/ABF or lactation. If possible
  • Feeling you up all of the time, giving your pussy/boycunt pats throughout the day, nipple pinches, wet kisses, ass grabs, wetness checks, and fun button presses.
  • Saying things like “Master's got you,” “I know sweetie, it’s so hard to wait,” and “It’s so adorable when you squirm/whimper/pout" as you serve me.
  • Making sure you're eating well and saying stuff like "Eat up so you can grow big and strong" as I fondle your body, or tease your belly, thighs and tits/boytits while emphasizing how large and soft you are or might be getting.
  • Squeezing your biceps or poking your abs and muscles and saying things like "Gosh you're getting bulky," "Someone's slacking at the gym," "Feels like those hormones are/aren't working well," and generally praising/teasing/degrading you for your physique.
  • Giving you a slap on the pussy/boycunt but then comforting you, giving your sensitive fun button a press, tons of cuddles, and/or telling you something like “I know silly, it’s okay. Let me help you feel better.," or "Master had to teach you that you can’t hump things without his permission.” when you struggle to handle your arousal.
  • Telling you no and making you wait and/or be denied no matter how much you beg, and then comforting you with more denial, domination, or if you're lucky a little touching.

Some examples of things I do NOT like as a dom:

  • Scat or anal play.
  • Poor communicators.
  • Any real bigotry or racism.
  • Mean spirited or spoiled people.
  • Any brats and prince/princess types.
  • Judgemental or closed minded individuals.
  • Any kind of harsh pain, blood, or otherwise violent play.
  • Lacking a personality or being unable to function on your own.
  • Being afraid to be yourself. Be who you truly are, this is important.
  • Not being genuine about the things that matter and are limits for you.

Please message me while clearly stating your age/gender and tell me what about my post gets you most excited. I love a partner with a large body and a nice size difference, be it bigger, taller, heavier, stronger or otherwise, and am open to all races, and female, FTM, or non binary AFAB individuals my age or a little older/younger around 20-40+, just be in the USA please.


r/Punishmenthookup • • 4d ago

In Person 52 [ M4Ftm] # Tucson AZ - You are not a victim. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Even though I’m going to be doing awful things to you, you’re not a victim.
Even though I’ll make you cry, we both know you have asked for this.

You will eagerly offer your body to be punished.
You will get in whatever position I’ll tell you.
You will bite your lip, try to fight back your tears and beg me for more.
You will hold your mouth open for me to put a gag in, knowing very well you won't be able to say a single word until I decide you've earned that right again.

You will willingly sleep on the floor because you want to feel inferior to me.
You will willingly do to yourself whatever I say again and again because I told you to, even when you’re crying and desperate and it feels impossible.

So, how can you be a victim when you want this just as much as I do?


r/Punishmenthookup • • 4d ago

Online 32 [FTM4M] slutty masc sub looking for a dom NSFW

4 Upvotes

Looking for preferably older doms with a good imagination and a dirty mind, be rough.

I'm interested in online role playing/writing dirty stories together, being asked intimate questions and forced to answer/admit embarrassing things, getting tasks, taking pics

Kinks:CNC/r**e play, free use, hole stretching/training, object insertion, doctor/patient scenarios and much more.

Limits/big turnoffs: misgendering, impreg play


r/Punishmenthookup • • 5d ago

In Person 27 [M4F] #LondonON – Seeking a Local Non-Sexual Spanking/Bastinado Play Partner NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone,
I’m a 27-year-old male based in London, Ontario, looking to meet a local female interested in consensual, non-sexual spanking or bastinado sessions.
I’m looking for someone who enjoys this as a form of impact play rather than anything sexual. Mutual respect, clear communication, consent, and boundaries are very important to me.
I’m interested in building trust with the right person and meeting in real life, as required by the subreddit. If you think we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message so we can get to know each other.

Love receiving or giving


r/Punishmenthookup • • 7d ago

In Person 35 FTM LEEDS UK NSFW

3 Upvotes

Naughty boy needs putting in his place. Make me present my ass, pussy, and tits for rough treatment and spanking.

Punish me, leave me sore and bruised, and make me thank you for the privilege.

Any age and gender, the only requirement is confidence in your authority and the willingness to be strict and firm with me.


r/Punishmenthookup • • 10d ago

In Person FTM 4 A Manchester UK NSFW

3 Upvotes

I am travelling to Manchester in two weeks for a few days. I'm looking for someone of any gender, age 30+ but the older the better.

Primarily looking for spanking, anal, and nipple punishment, though we can discuss other kinks. I want to be humbled and made to feel like a well disciplined boy.


r/Punishmenthookup • • 26d ago

Online NB Lesbian sub looking for dom NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 22. I go by any pronouns. I’m afab nonbinary & a lesbian. I dress goth more often than not. I’m plus size.

I’m looking for an online power exchange. I am into a lot of things but my primary interests are servitude, objectification, humiliation, orgasm control & denial, masochism, nipple torture, and Dollification. I’m also open to trying new kinks.

It would likely mostly be audio clips, videos, and texts over calls as I do unfortunately live with roommates and that makes having total privacy for that uncommon. (Though they can probably happen on occasion!)

As for my interests outside of submission, I love art, d&d, video games, horror media, and writing


r/Punishmenthookup • • 29d ago

Success! FTM 4 A Birmingham UK NSFW

3 Upvotes

I'll be in Birmingham next week, looking for someone older to come to my hotel and spank me. Any gender, the older the better.

Getting my bottom bruised is the main goal but we can also discuss other kinks. I have a collection of toys you can use to make me moan and squirm, or scream.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 14 '26

Online 36 MtF4A cute butch transfemme looking for gender play and overall control NSFW

2 Upvotes

South Yorkshire based. Cute transfemme butch, been on E for over a decade, had laser on my face so no facial hair. Can be online, but face to face is a bonus.

My big kinks are gender play/detransition, sexuality play, appearance control, and humiliation/public (larger list of kinks at the bottom of the post)

Not a brat, looking for a firm, assertive dom to exercise significant control over me and mould me to your preferences.

Larger kink list: leather, latex, boots/bootblacking, uniform, masc formalwear, anal training, petplay, bondage, orgasm control, hypnotism, adbdl, drone, bimbofication, gender play, detransition, sexuality play, hucow, corruption, exhibitionism, armpits, feminisation, masculinisation, appearance contro, body modification


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 14 '26

In Person 25 M- Estero, Fl- Bear looking to ruin a sub with huge toys NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I’m looking for something very specific lol. I want a sub (preferably someone who can host and is under 35) who has huge toys for me to break their hole, want to make you moan and beg for me to be as rough as I can. I’m 6’1”, 230 lbs and would like to keep it anonymous or dl but we can talk about it in DMs. Women are welcome too but I love breaking a man


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 13 '26

Online 38[m4ftm] #online Muslim fat belly Dom looking for a subby pup to mould to my liking NSFW

4 Upvotes

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About me: 38 cism UB Muslim, Swarthy ,fat belly. UK. Daddy dom sadist.

You: submissive masochistic, aggressively horny, non bratty, ftm, thin, enjoys the idea of having your diet controlled, your Bladder, every kind of Pervy hot fantasy imaginable. Your stomach as a hypothetical boxing bag. You're Open to mpreg/breeding or misgender kink (I've had more than a few ftm partners online before I'm happy to work with what phrases work for you). Think of every dark hot fucked up over the top ownership fantasy. You gag puking on my cock your collarbones bitten buttocks smacked me thrusting inside you as you take your weekly t shot. Shaving you feminising you (if that's your jam), raceplay (I'm light brown, I do like Caucasian and east Asian puppers). The idea of only imbibing my piss spit and cum makes you feel alive. That hot wild animal passion. A bit of religion play too. Me the brown slave owner you the ftm subby slut.

Tangerine

If you're into this and a big exhibitonist come chat with me and use the word for the fruit so I know you've read the post above

Ideally where I'm looking at for this is medium term sexting and if eventually we decide our paths and values align meet ups if you're local to the UK.

I am ultimately looking to find my Pervy persons but we can stick with sext and text for the moment.

If this sounds like a fuck-yes to you pinch your bits and grope your nipples and send me a message with the word in it and reach out x

Prefer slim snowbunny/ Caucasian pups but not exhaustively or exclusively, it's just the contrast turns me on. Ideal age 20-35 late 20s ideal.

Thanks 😊


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 11 '26

In Person 25+ ftnb4M NorCal- looking for first time rough, risky breeding experience NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi, I've never been with a cis man but I would really like to try. I am into misgendering and pregnancy risk.

I am asian, 5'3" and 160 lbs, have had top surgery, no longer on T and no birth control. I am not willing to do anal.

I am looking for a cis man who is bigger and stronger than me, preferably has a thick cock??? (idk), into breeding risk or forced breeding, into misgendering, loves to be rough or possibly into cnc or "fixing" fakeboys? Please let me know what you are into and your limits.

I want my first experience with a cis man to include feeling raw cock. I'll leave it up to you to decide to pull out or cum inside me. We can plan around my cycle when I am/am not ovulating.

Let's talk if you are maybe interested! I'm not in a rush to find someone.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 09 '26

Online FTM4A Looking for a strict dynamic online or in person (UK) NSFW

13 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m an experienced 24yo ftm sub, based in London, UK. On T and post top surgery.

Within a kink context, I have come to enjoy heavily controlling dynamics, leaning into misogyny play and misgendering. I love being reduced to a toy for ‘real men’ who use all my holes as they please.

Denial is a huge part of this for me - I adore when my pleasure is ignored during sex and I truly feel like I’m just there to serve.

I also crave discipline and clear rules. I want consequences for misbehaviour and especially enjoy over the knee spankings and similar degrading punishments.

My ideal dynamic is in equal parts caring, controlling, and degrading. I want to feel like your property - like something you care about deeply but will use however you want.

I’ve got many kinks, but to give you an idea: anal (only), painful sex, chastity, orgasm denial, edging, spanking, degradation, piss, body worship, misogyny and gender roles, political play, breeding, forced nudity, TPE, cnc, free use …

My limits include scat, smells, certain textures (like food), blood, sharps, and permanent damage.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out!


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 07 '26

Online FTM4A heavy degradation and misgendering/detrans NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hii I'm a 22yo FTM, post top surgery and on T for 5 years. I'm a sub bottom, and I'm super into being degraded, forced, abused and similar.

With time I've gotten more and more into misgendering and detrans, I loove being invalidated and misgendered, called a girl and treated like one, I'm really into misogyny play too, that I'm just a pussy/cunt to fuck and abuse because I'm just a girl. I especially enjoy forced detransitioning and manipulation.

I'd love to chat with people who enjoy heavy degrading/humiliating a fakeboy and like correcting and fixing ftms. I'm into tons of things so I'll list some kinks here but im likely open for more things too, more niche things too

Some of my kinks: degradation/humiliation, pet play, piss play, forced detrans, misgendering, misogyny play, forced breeding, slave play, dehumanisation, pussy/clit torture, body writing, light blackmail play (mainly online exposure with no face/personal info), heavy bondage/bdsm and more

Limits: scat, blood, high risk public, showing face

I'm open to many kinds of play! Got a detrans game? Want to abuse a slut? Want to chat about what could be done? Want to fix me and force me ro detransition? Or something else entirely I am very open for!

I am absolutely up for sending pics! I usually keep my genitals shaved/mostly shaved and would probably be described as a Twink by most


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 03 '26

In Person FTM UK needs a spanking NSFW

7 Upvotes

I can travel anywhere in the UK. Open to meeting anyone 30+ of any gender.

I'm hoping for a disciplinary style spanking from someone who understands the psychological power of building anticipation and can combine a stern lecture with the physical punishment to make me feel truly humbled.

Ideally I'm looking for someone who will build up slowly, starting with a gently stinging hand spanking to warm up my bottom before gradually building up to harder strokes and implements until I'm a very sorry boy indeed.

Can roleplay or not depending on your preference, and open to incorporating other forms of punishment, though I'd prefer not to make it too sexual.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Sep 02 '26

In Person FTM4A 21yr. Wanting a degrading and sadistic domonline or irl ( very maybe) NSFW

3 Upvotes

Located in NL. I'm ftm and love degrading and sadistic doms, esp when im high 👀. Would love to talk to y'all and hear about your fantasies and how I could best serve you. Kinks like Sadism, degradation, Cnc, somno, intox and piss are very very welcome. (no pregnant stuff pls)


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 31 '26

Online [FtM 34 LFA] Come Sext Me Your Dirty Fantasies NSFW

4 Upvotes

Looking to sext about how you would use me as your live in little fuckpet / sex toy. I'm in to Daddies, BDSM, Group, Dubcon, Dp etc.

I'd love to hear all your perverted little thoughts and share some of mine as well.

You can DM me here, Snap, or you can find me on Session


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 29 '26

Online 29 ftm looking for abusive dom online or irl NSFW

2 Upvotes

Located in the US, MI. Very into humiliation, impact, hole stretching, cnc, anal, sph and more. Looking for someone to humilate, degrade and threaten me online or irl. I prefer to bottom anally or with both holes. I love having my little dick tortured too.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 28 '26

Online 35 ftm4M bottom I'd love to talk dirty with you NSFW

2 Upvotes

I really get off knowing that I've made you, internet pervert, horny and bothered as well.

Come and tell me how you want to play, I really prefer text but I've been known to send pics and vids.

I'm in to Daddy Dom's, party / group, dubcon, bondage etc.

Pics on my profile.

if you're interested or want to find out more you can send me a DM.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 23 '26

In Person 36 M4MTF #NJ - The Beautiful Contradiction: Willing Surrender NSFW

1 Upvotes

Dominant with 10+ years of experience specializing in CNC dynamics, particularly resistance play, abduction scenarios, and psychological domination. I thrive on creating intense, immersive scenes that push boundaries while keeping safety and consent absolute.

Specific CNC Interests:

Resistance Play: Overcoming physical and verbal resistance, pinning, restraining struggling partners

Abduction Scenes: Capture scenarios, transport play, "kidnapping" roleplays

Forced Positions: Manipulating body positions against resistance, predicament bondage

Sensory Overload: Combining physical restraint with sensory deprivation/overload

Psychological Intimidation: Using tone, proximity, and psychological pressure to create authentic fear responses

"Reluctant" Oral Service: Scenes where submission is coerced through physical positioning

Clothing Destruction: Cutting/ripping clothing as part of the "violation" fantasy

What I'm Seeking:

A partner who:

Craves the intensity of realistic resistance play

Can maintain the "no" while actually meaning "yes"

Understands that safe words are sacred and will be respected immediately

Wants to explore the edge of consensual violation

Is emotionally resilient enough to process intense scenes afterward

My CNC Philosophy:

The beauty of CNC lies in the paradox: we create the illusion of non-consent through meticulous planning and enthusiastic agreement. The intensity comes not from actual violation, but from suspending disbelief within a container of absolute trust.

I enjoy scenarios where I 'break in' to a partner's space, physically overwhelm their resistance, restrain them, and then use their body according to my desires while they struggle against me - all within pre-negotiated boundaries.

My Approach:

I require detailed pre-negotiation including:

Specific scenarios and triggers

Physical limitations and health considerations

Safe words (yellow/red) and non-verbal signals

Aftercare needs and recovery time

Hard limits that will never be crossed

Hard Limits:

No actual non-consent, no permanent marks, no blood play, no scat, no pee, and absolutely no crossing of safe words.

If you're drawn to the intensity of realistic CNC scenes and understand that the most intense consent happens before the scene begins, message me with your specific interests and experience level. You must be between the ages of 18-30. Don't bother messaging if you don't fit that criteria.


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 19 '26

In Person FTM4FTM/AFAB in ATX or central texas NSFW

2 Upvotes

My hope for this post is to find someone who will do a misgendering and/ or cnc style scene with me in person. I’m very confident and happy with my gender expression, and have no intention of doing this outside of a kink setting, this just seems fun.
(For amab trans women/nonbinary/ gender fluid I am open to playing with yall but I’m terrified of pregnancy so no anal/vaginal penetration, no exceptions. Absolutely NO CIS MEN will be considered for this post!!!)

Hi there! Im a 27yo (He/They) trans masc nonbinary dude, I’m a switch but ideally looking for a dominant, I’ve been on T for just over two years, and im post top surgery with no nipples. My main kinky loves are bondage, sensory/pain play, and humiliation; but I’ve got a lotttt of kinks and I’ve got a lot of toys and a good amount of experience and am always looking for more of all of those. (More detailed info on my pinned.)

If this post is up feel free to respond to it even if a lot of time has passed, I’m a slut and love having kinky fun. (I’m open to non-misgendering or cnc things too, just let me know in the DMs right off the bat so I know what to expect)


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 19 '26

Online 39 FTM4A fag slave looking for online abuse NSFW

18 Upvotes

Looking for sadistic Tops (any gender) who want to wreck my asshole, torture my clit, and humiliate me.

Anal/throat only. Also into piss, enemas, orgasm denial, cnc, pain & violence in general.

No misgendering, no straight dudes. I am a bear/cub, so if you want some androgynous uwu softboi, look elsewhere.

Right now I'm abusing my asshole... Tell me how you'd damage it?


r/Punishmenthookup • • Aug 16 '26

Online 36 M4FTM Dominant look for slaves NSFW

8 Upvotes

36 year old dominant sadist looking for slaves for online painplay and degrading. We can play together but I also have an FTM slave that would like to dominate you too. So if you are down you will be taking instructions from both of us and be treated as such. If you’re interested send me a message