Hello, and thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 37 year old dominant man looking for a genuine, long term, monogamous relationship with a submissive woman. I'd like to find someone who shares my interests, values commitment, and wants to build something meaningful while incorporating a healthy D/S dynamic into our relationship.
Here's a little about me, what I'm into, and what I'm looking for.
Physical:
I'm a 37-year-old white male, 6'0", 185 lbs, brown hair, green eyes, average build. I'm clean, circumcised, drug and disease free aside from 420.
Sexually:
I'm naturally dominant and have experience with both D/S dynamics and long term relationships. I enjoy taking the lead, but I also understand that a successful dynamic is built on mutual trust, respect, communication, and clearly established boundaries.
My interests include, in no particular order: bondage, light impact play, orgasm control, degradation, rope play, tasks, consensual forced orgasms, edging, wax play, and probably a few others I'm forgetting.
I'm open to exploring new things with the right person, provided we're both comfortable and enthusiastic about them.
I'm not interested in poly/open relationships, abuse, coercion, cheating, extreme pain, or total power exchange (TPE).
I also take sexual health and safety very seriously. I get screened before each new partner, provide proof of my results, and expect the same in return. This is a firm boundary for me.
Day to day Life:
I'm college educated, gainfully employed, financially stable, a homeowner, and a dog dad. I'm very goal oriented and have worked hard to build a comfortable and stable life for myself.
I enjoy spending time with friends and tend to be the host or organizer of most social gatherings. Despite that, I consider myself an introvert. I'm equally happy spending an evening at home watching a movie or playing video games.
I enjoy movies, gaming, and TV shows, although I'm not much of a reader. I'm also pretty handy and can fix just about anything. I'm independent, responsible, and generally have my life together.
I have a sarcastic sense of humor, appreciate playful banter, and don't take myself too seriously. That said, when it comes to my responsibilities, relationships, and commitments, I take those very seriously.
What I'm looking for:
First and foremost, I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, long term relationship with a submissive woman.
I'm not looking for casual hookups, occasional play partners, an open relationship, or anything involving additional people. No judgement, it's just not for me.
While kink and sexual compatibility are important to me, they're only part of what I'm looking for. I want a genuine romantic relationship that includes affection, companionship, intimacy, shared experiences, and the possibility of building a future together.
Ideally, I'd like to find someone who is naturally submissive, enjoys having a dominant partner, and wants to incorporate those dynamics into a committed relationship.
My preference is for a D/S dynamic that primarily exists in the bedroom, although I'm interested in incorporating some elements into our everyday lives as well. Things like occasional tasks, playful power exchanges, and other mutually agreed upon dynamics can be fun, but I have no interest in controlling every aspect of my partner's life.
Outside of those dynamics, I want us to be equals. Two independent adults who respect each other, make decisions together, and build a life as partners.
Communication is especially important to me. I'm looking for someone who can openly discuss her wants, needs, limits, and expectations. Someone who understands that trust and respect go both ways, regardless of our roles.
I value loyalty, honesty, emotional maturity, affection, and the ability to laugh together. I want someone who is comfortable being herself, has her own personality and interests, and genuinely wants to be part of a committed partnership.
I'm looking for a genuine, monogamous relationship where kink enhances our connection rather than defines it. I want someone I can laugh with, confide in, spend time with, and eventually build a future with. The D/S aspect should be something we both enjoy, not the foundation of our entire relationship.