r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 9h ago

Ask How do I look and dress fruity?

12 Upvotes

I’m afab non-binary and more masculine leaning to neutral in my style, but I get called a “girl” or “lady” so much that I think people just assume I’m a tomboy. Not that there’s anything wrong with being that, but I want to play up my queerness a bit more in how I dress. I know it’s a bit easier for amab people to convey this with feminine accessories etc. I do want to start wearing more colour, as I love colour, but I don’t really have time to pile on accessories in the morning and also don’t want to get piercings/dyed hair which is often associated with the lgbtq+ community in general and nonbinary people.

Iris Olympia has an excellent YouTube channel with plenty of NB fashion content and tutorials, although their style is a lot more edgy and muted in its colour scheme than mine. I want to look a bit more “loud and proud” without spending an hour getting dressed. I love how people look when they’re covered in pride accessories and pins, but I find they just fall off or get lost if I try this :/

I am thinking of getting some more colourful clothing pieces, eg striped shirts, flannels. I have been thrifting and found a lot of the men’s clothing is very dark in colour, also maybe some polymer clay rainbow jewellery because that isn’t masculine or feminine to me.

Any tips?


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 1d ago

Everyday fashion Another outfit I love and another pic from today

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25 Upvotes

I love baggy jackets especially off the shoulder, i usually wear this with long shorts that go to my shins. Also im obsessed with my outfit today had to post another pic 😭


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 1d ago

Couldn't sleep so i got my outfit for tomorrow ready, how is it

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r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 1d ago

Ask How can I style this men‘s winter coat in a more gender neutral way?

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10 Upvotes

I only bought this last year before my egg cracked so old pic from last winter, but I still kind of like the captain Ahab-esque vibe it has in theory, only that it gives more captain AMAB right now.

Do you habe any ideas how I can style it in a more gender neutral way when it blocks out most of the rest of my outfit due to its size?

I‘d hate to have to buy a winter coat again this year when this one is still almost new.


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 1d ago

Struggling to find clothing style that's not goth

8 Upvotes

Pretty much the title. I feel like "androginous/nb" clothing style usually relies on alternative or goth like platforms, boxy clothes or corsets. It's a problem for me as an AMAB non-binary person that doesn't relate to the goth/alternative style because I don't feel I have the vibe to wear those. Anyone have any other reference of a different non-gendered clothing style I could think about?


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 5d ago

Weekend outfit new stockings arrived

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44 Upvotes

3x wearable gender euphoria for my thighs


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 6d ago

Ask Been out as enby since 2023 but been too afraid to really explore androgynous fashion. Any advice on where to start?

13 Upvotes

I’ve had a loooong gender exploration journey and have always been terrified of exploring more androgynous looking fashion because of my broad shoulders and tall (and large) figure. It’s hard figuring out what I’d look good in because I’m still struggling with weight loss and trying to find gender neutral clothing. I usually wear jean shorts and a simple graphic t shirt since it’s familiar and I know what to expect in terms of texture (AuDHD) but I want to expand a bit. Any advice is welcome.


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 6d ago

Ask What are these types of jeans called? baggy? straight?

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38 Upvotes

I am non-binary and wanting to go for this look. They look loose fit but aren't super huge on the cuffs.

One question I have is, would I have problems wearing them as high on the waist? I am amab, 5.9 feet from sole to scalp with a 28 inch waist.

Also it feels unlikely to able to get the exact fit, should I shop for 'women' pants?

How easy would it be alter a bigger fit?

Also planning to thrift so a couple of pointers would help.

EDIT: Upon closer inspection, I prefer the second pic.


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 7d ago

First post Butch4Butch goth bois enjoying our favorite time of the year in our matching aesthetic

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66 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 7d ago

Image Trying new outfits for work

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21 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 9d ago

Everyday fashion I think my partner said that I look gay AF (positive).

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58 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 11d ago

Everyday fashion Eh, I’m bored.. also went to grab pizza in this outfit😪

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102 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 13d ago

Weekend outfit outfit for garden work

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46 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 12d ago

Pride Festival Outfit Question

4 Upvotes

Hi, soooooo tomorrow I have a pride festival to go to. I’m usually a clown core non-binary. I’m going with my sort of supportive mom but uhh... We’re in a conservative area…. And there’s always protestors. Obviously the biggest target is the most obnoxiously dressed. Sorry I type like I do. I have been taken to the ground by a protestor before and still have bruises. I’m just kinda scared. Also I’m only a year into being non-binary so it’s a bit. I just don’t want to get attacked again. It was very brutal. Also I’ve had a lot of things thrown at me at drag shows. Advice? I’m open to anything why I should or shouldn’t, no hate, no ads. Any hate and ads will be deleted.


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 13d ago

Mod Post partner subreddit

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just an information, we have also created a new smaller subreddit, called r/DistinctiveFashion . It's created for non-gender-specific fashion, gender-neutral & androgynous fashion. You are welcome to take a look, join or post there. Have a nice day!


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 14d ago

Make-Up Bird inspired makeup (Part 7): Red Avadavat

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59 Upvotes

Previous birds are Pigeon, Great Horned Owl, Scarlet Macaw, Common Grackle, Peacock and Pileated Woodpecker.

I’m finally back after a month long summer stay in my home country! (I didn’t take my makeup set there).

I wore this outfit and makeup while going out yesterday, and I love the way it looks so much. It’s actually the first time I wore one of these bird inspired makeup looks to the outside, instead of just putting them on at home and taking it off after I’m done with the photos.


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 14d ago

Ask looking for suggestions for nb/amab wedding guest clothes

9 Upvotes

My partner and I are both nonbinary and AMAB, and we’re looking for clothes to wear as wedding guests that feel a little more enby than traditional men’s wedding wear—without being super expensive.
We’re having a hard time figuring out where to shop, especially because I’d love to find places that are size-inclusive and have options that work well on AMAB bodies. We’re interested in softer silhouettes or outfits that play with gender in fun ways.
For other nonbinary/AMAB folks who have dressed for a wedding: where did you shop? Are there any specific websites you’d recommend?
Happy to provide more info if that would help!


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 14d ago

Image MY NEW JEWLERY

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10 Upvotes

This is some stuff I got for free!!! This makes my gender feel so affirmed and I have no idea why!


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 15d ago

Fit of the day, feeling euphoric!

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23 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 16d ago

Everyday fashion New vest! Gotta get/make some patches and some more pins for it now

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30 Upvotes

I also gotta figure out what to do with the sleeves I cut off of it. If you have suggestions let me know!


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 17d ago

Everyday fashion First fall fit check

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52 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 17d ago

Weekend outfit I've got vibes with this fit

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25 Upvotes

r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 17d ago

First post Today I went to local ‘second hand’ to take some clothes to make my self elegant gentlemen( last one just for fun)

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37 Upvotes

Not what I want it actually but I still look pleasant for my self


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 17d ago

Ask Would this be fit for my body?

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7 Upvotes

Hello,firstly i wanna clarify that I'm biologically a male who's nonbinary,and i'm tired of wearing baggy clothes and embrace my skinny body in a more feminine way rather than hiding the features in my body

yesterday,when i asked my sibling how i could style something like this for my body,she told me its specifically designed for the female body anatomy and then she proceeded to send me different pictures of ribbed long sleeves on male models which made me a bit upset since they looked like vintage 90s shirt for men.

so i wanted to ask you guys,would this shirt be fit for a skinny person without a females anatomy?


r/Nonbinaryfashion • • 18d ago

taaall grrrl

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yesterday on the train, omw to a friends' queer wedding party