r/NJr4r • • Sep 14 '26

Check out our newest safe space NSFW

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r/NJr4r • • Dec 22 '25

Extreme Measures - New requirement to post. Please read! NSFW

46 Upvotes

Due to an extreme uptick of bots and scammers on the community, I have added a new step for user's to post or comment on the community. You will now be required to confirm you have read our rules by following these steps:

Step 1: Read the rules in the sidebar of their sub.

Step 2: Submit your acknowledgement. You can do this by clicking on the "Read The Rules" option in the main menu of the subreddit by clicking the 3 dots (...) as seen in the screenshot below! (Alternatively, you can click the 3 dots (…) on the comment made on your post)

If you are having issues, please send us a Mod Mail by clicking here!

Sorry for the added security - gotta keep the community safe!

Thanks.

-DLF


r/NJr4r • • 22m ago

41 [m4m] Old Bridge. New to this but very horny. Looking for some quick car play or whatever this afternoon. NSFW

• Upvotes

41 m here I’m so horny I can’t take it anymore. Looking to either get sucked or jerked or I suck and jerk cock. It would have to be quick. I have to get home to the gf. She has no idea. Dm me if interested


r/NJr4r • • 5h ago

M28 m4m bergen county bottom hosting for a top NSFW

2 Upvotes

Looking for now


r/NJr4r • • 2h ago

20 M4F Gloucester County - looking for some experience NSFW

1 Upvotes

I feel like I’m missing out. I’m 20 and have barely any sexual experience. I’m trying to change that. Someone please help


r/NJr4r • • 6h ago

41 [M4F] #Bridgewater - neglected dad would love some attention for his birthday NSFW

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I'm a stay at home dad, love my life and family.

But it's been \\\\\\\*forever\\\\\\\* since I've had real attention paid to my pleasure where I didn't do \\\\\\\*all\\\\\\\* the work. Not looking to change anyone's situation, let alone my own. Just want some skillful attention paid to me and my pleasure.

5'10", 230lbs, brown curly hair, blue eyes, beard, dad bod, 6c


r/NJr4r • • 7h ago

50 [M4F] #FlorhamPark - Looking for older woman who can't get enough of breast play NSFW

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I love long, slow breast worship, sucking, licking, gentle biting, groping and squeezing until they're sensitive and aching. The idea of nursing for ages turns me on so hard, bondage around them, oil, teasing until you’re dripping... all of it.

Looking for a woman who is genuinely into this, not just using it as a quick stop on the way to fucking, someone patient who wants to spend real time focused on your chest. IRL


r/NJr4r • • 13h ago

28F4M Tuckerton NSFW

3 Upvotes

Looking for a BWC, I’m black, a little chubby…
Looking for someone around my age. Dom/gentle dom.

ASL on first message please


r/NJr4r • • 6h ago

CNJ 26 [m4f/t] looking for head this weekend - can’t host NSFW

1 Upvotes

Figured I’d give this a try, lowkey open to anything! Can send more details when we chat :)


r/NJr4r • • 7h ago

31[M4F] Jersey City NNJ NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for something chill but real. Not looking for a relationship, just good vibes, chemistry, laughs, and a little passion. No pressure, just seeing where the vibe takes us. I’m a 31-year-old Black male in Jersey City, usually around North Jersey and NYC . Please be ready to verify, no games, no fakes, just real vibes. If you’re cool and open-minded, let’s see if we click.

31\[M4F\] Jersey City NNJ


r/NJr4r • • 7h ago

41 [M4F] #Woodbridge - Make out & breast play NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a woman who's interested in some breast play & intimacy. Ideally we start with chatting over drinks or coffee. If we feel like we vibe well, we head back home. Not looking to play games & willing to meet soon. Let me know what you're looking for. Looking forward to chatting.


r/NJr4r • • 8h ago

35 (M4F) North Jersey Married For Sugar Baby NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to have some fun with and spoil message me


r/NJr4r • • 8h ago

35 (M4F) North Jersey For Kinky Fun Piss play NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to have some fun with and explore new things. lets chat and see where things go. don't be shy


r/NJr4r • • 8h ago

33 [m4m] Galloway - Looking for a dominant guy to chat with tonight, meet up tomorrow or Friday. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Kinda inexperienced- I've taken a cock (in both mouth and ass) a couple times by now, and have absolutely loved it, but I want to go bigger. I've never taken a really big cock, and I want to make a friend who could help me with that. Someone who outsizes me, at least (I'm about 5.5 inches, here).

I'm white, bearded, masc, about 5 foot 8, 175 pounds. Live in Galloway, near Atlantic City.

No married dudes please.


r/NJr4r • • 8h ago

23 [m4m] hudson county latino college twink looking for DL friends:) lets chat and get to know each other! NSFW

1 Upvotes

stats: 23yo latino bottom twink 5'9 155lbs slim/toned

DL ONLY

i've been wanting to suck dick for the first time!


r/NJr4r • • 8h ago

M4M - Monmouth - 41m Looking for a fwb NSFW

1 Upvotes

Mwm would like to start with giving a hj the first few times. Am interested in more, but need to develop trust. I am married and am looking for something regular, not a one time thing. Please be somewhat local, give or take 20 minutes

I go to the gym weeknights and sometimes weekends. That's usually the best time for me to meet. Weeknights would be around 8:30-9pmish. I can come to you, can't host

Stats - 6 ft tall. 255 pounds, built like a lineman, very strong. Have pics to share. Lmk if you're interested.


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

Westwood nj, Bergen county, 30 m4T NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking to swap 🧠


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

Bergen county m(30)4t nj NSFW

1 Upvotes

Bergen county nj 07676 dm me looking for mutual 🧠


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

20 m4m cnj/nnj car play NSFW

0 Upvotes

fit looking for a fit white guy 18-22 to suck and see where it goes. can travel and down for car. dm me with stats


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

40 [M4F] Morris/Sussex- you don't have to choose vanilla anymore. What flavor are you choosing first? NSFW

1 Upvotes

If you're like me, you think vanilla is great, but you need something more exciting sometimes. I'm finding myself craving something new and different, and I'm open minded to a lot of new things. There are some flavors that I've tried before and I miss, and maybe some new ones I'd like to try, too.

Flavors I've tried and love: rough stuff (including spanking/impact play, face fucking, hair pulling, choking), public stuff (I've taken this pretty far), restraints and blindfolds, teasing and edging (giving it, not getting it), partner swapping

Flavors I want to try: fisting (only tried it once), ass eating, somno

Flavors I don't like: male on male, feet, bathroom stuff

Open minded to age, race, body type, partner situation/discretion, etc. We'll meet in public first, obviously at an ice cream shop.

Which flavor do you want to try first?


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

M24 M4F central Jersey GF broke up with me. Looking for revenge sex. 6’3” and girthy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Gf cheated on me and broke up with me. Looking for some fun down for anything M4F


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

M4T Bergen county nj 07676 NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking to swap n swallow dm me


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

30 [M4F] #Somerset county. Tired of scrolling? Me too NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, 30M here. I’m in a dead bedroom that’s basically turned into a roommate situation at this point.

There’s no physical connection or spark left.
Looking for someone I can bullshit with on a daily basis and actually look forward to hearing from someone I’m always checking my phone for. Not trying to blow up anyone’s life, just want a real connection. Someone I can just bullshit with all day and be someone’s best friend while also getting freaky behind closed doors. I’m a nerd, I love computers/ IT, building legos, playing video games, and watching football.

If this piqued your interest at all and you want to talk to a 5’10 athletic guy with tattoos, come say hi


r/NJr4r • • 9h ago

M looking to give long term DL head - Elizabeth NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for DL/Married man to suck and swallow long term. If you enjoy always getting swallowed hmu


r/NJr4r • • 10h ago

43 [M4F] #NJ #Morris County - Intellect and ambition for beauty NSFW

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No, I’m not hideous, but I am covered in fur and some may call my behavior behind closed doors beast-like. Let’s both be real for a moment. There are things we both want in a partner which others might say are shallow or old fashioned. But we own that. The question is what are we going to do about it?

You crave an ambitious, intelligent man. You may even have been called a gold digger but you’re really just misunderstood. Being dirt poor with the right man is better than being comfortable with the wrong one. I crave a woman who works as hard on her appearance as I work on my mind and career. I take care of myself but if my body looked like my mind it would be in underwear ads. Where should yours be?

We both believe traditional gender roles are the ideal but other things still matter. Compassion, emotional intelligence, respect…especially respect. We’re still here for some kind of relationship. I’m open to something short term with the possibility of long term. I am emotionally available and have done the work.

I’m also very kink friendly (including BDSM) but I’m fine keeping it spicy vanilla.

I’m built like a bear: hairy, masculine, with a trimmed salt and pepper beard. Divorced and ENM with a proven vasectomy. Personality wise I’m rational, passionate, and driven. An entrepreneur. Sarcasm is my native language and “Dark Dad” describes my sense of humor. Oh and I prefer to be outspoken and blunt.

~A