r/MycoplasmaGenitalium • u/CurrencyBig2781 • 16h ago
Success Story My story after 2 years free of MGEN!
Hello friends! I've been meaning to post this for 2 years now and am at a place where the trauma is of the past and can post this with a clear headspace. I wanted to share my story to bring some hope upon this community after clearing for Ureaplasma and MGEN.
MY STORY...
I'm a gay male and I was positive for Ureaplasma Urealyticum at the end of 2023 through a penile swab test, doctor gave me azithromycin to clear it. Symptoms were discharge, frequent urination, and burning. Symptoms went away and I thought I was in the clear and didn't know how stubborn this bacteria really was at the time.
Early 2024 comes around and I'm in a relationship where my symptoms start to come back after a few weeks of sex. After multiples tests and doctors, come to find out it is both Ureaplasma and MGEN. I'm prescribed azithromycin again and tested negative two weeks later (was a false negative and the test was incorrect).
I started getting a worried feeling that it did not clear a few weeks later, I test again at a different clinic and it was positive. Was given doxy for 10 days for my partner and I.
Finally April 2024 and I test again just to find out I still have both Urea and MGEN. This threw me in an anxiety loop which led me to find this subreddit. I was having so much anxiety that this would never clear and my partner and I would never have comfortable sex again. I felt very confused and it took a lot of research on this subreddit and talking with my doctor to see best course of action. She went off the CDC website (which no other doctor thought to do) for MGEN.
\Penile swabs were the best way for me to get my results for MGEN. For some reason, it would be negative occasionally in urine PCR, even when doing the test first thing in morning. I do advocate for swabs for men also, but that just based on my experience.*
Summary and what worked:
NOVEMBER 2023: Azithromycin (failed)
FEBRUARY 2024: Azithromycin (failed)
MARCH 2024: Doxy 10 days (dailed)
MAY 2024: Doxy 12 days+ azithromycin (cured Ureaplasma, failed for MGEN)
JUNE 2024: Minocycline 21 days + azithromycin (MEGN negative at the end of July, follow up in August for second negative test)
\Made sure to rest a lot on mino (was super dizzy) and avoided dairy as it can make it less effective. I added the azithromycin just to give me peace of mind that it is more effective (though, not sure if it did anything lol). I was prescribed moxi before the mino but refused to take it, I only would have if the mino didn't work.*
\ My partner and I did not have any sex (only made out) until we were both 100% cleared. He also had to force doctors to give him a swab for his anus.*
Disclaimer: I was able to get a longer dose because my doctor made an error when putting in the minocycline order which then allowed me to get an extra week... I got lucky because she was very resistant to it but after reading this subreddit, I knew I had to take matters into my own hands and trick the health care system just to make sure I was clear of this infection. My advice would be that if your doctor is hesitant, just get antibiotics from them then go to another doctor to prescribe you more antibiotics so you have a longer dose (if this is a possibility for you).
Overall...
You will be okay. It took me 9 months, and I can look back at that time in 2024 and think on how much I grew with being more health conscious and being on the other side of that anxiety. I can also go through this subreddit without being triggered by peoples experiences. I know I am saying this subreddit helped, but I would also say it did bring up a lot of anxiety too reading stories and thinking I would never get cured. PLEASE HAVE BOUNDARIES WITH WHAT YOU CONSUME HERE. I would start to interact only with success stories to see what antibiotic regime would help other and go based off of that. Now being on the other side, I can read all stories and give my input to help others who are struggling with this.
I am single now and always test for it still as part of my routine testing. I still get a little anxious when testing, but I know that's just a trauma response.
The most annoying part for me was getting the proper antibiotics and getting the proper testing done. Many doctors believe it is simple to get rid of but anyone who is positive with this NEEDS to take the proper antibiotics and dosage to clear this.
Lastly, everyone has different experiences. What works for some, wont work for others. You just need to be patient, rest your body, and ADVOACTE FOR YOURSELF. This taught me that if your health is on the line and no one is taking it seriously, it is your job to do so especially since we're financially, mentally, and physically paying for it (especially financially with the US healthcare system, if I'm the one paying... you better give me whatever the fuck I want). It is okay to be annoying and make them give you what you want!!!!!!!!!!
Through it all, I had to remember to have fun too. The time I would spend with loved ones and doing activities I loved made me remember the importance of life and would quiet the anxiety for some time. I refused to let it take over my life once I was clear with it and it really changed my relationship revolved around illnesses and what is and isn't within my control.
I send you all love, you got this!