I saw a post on Facebook of a woman complaining a 33 year old guy is dating a 22 year old and calling him a “predator”. I notice feminists overuse that word and apply it to two consenting adults. Like what is their cutoff on what they think is a predator or not?

Men do the hard work that keep countries moving:

-mining

-Plumbing

-Electricity

-Construction worker

- Police officers

-engineers

- Etc

So those TikTok where feminists say they want all men dead is just stupidity. If all women stopped working society would be dead too. Both men and women complement each other hehe.

David Lloyd sparks equality row by excluding men from spa areas in its gyms because some women feel uncomfortable

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16211821/David-Lloyd-sparks-equality-row-excluding-men.html

If you look at the age gap discourse, the core issue according to the usual suspects is ''power imbalance''

they will say something like ''oh but old men have more life experiences and maturity and this creates power imbalance''

So why is that a bad thing?

''because it increases the likelihood of exploitation''

Ok so for arguments sake, lets assume this is true

So if this is the case why arent the usual suspects showing extreme vitriol towards other relationship dynamics like, heightgap, financialgap, statusgap, IQgap?

A huge power imbalance exists in a relationship Where the woman is 5'4 and the guy is 6'5

A huge power imbalance exists in a relationship where the man is a millionaire or an E-celeb and the woman is making minimum wage

And yet what you see is, the same usual suspects encouraging women to seek such relationship arrangements. They get told by society to seek ''666'', regardless of who they are and where they stand. They are told to ''never settle'' and always look up

Why? Because all of these directly benefit women and cater to their interests. Suddenly the high probability of exploitation in an imbalanced relationship becomes a non existent issue. Suddenly we have to consider ''biology'' and become nature understanders

But if a man lets say is an older adult or middle aged and wants a beautiful young woman to have sex with or marry as a wife. Now suddenly hes a ''predator''(no proof whatsoever)

Now we have to look at ''power imbalance''

Now we get lectured about how ''evil'' power imbalances are blah blah blah blah

This is systematic misandry

https://www.sharedparenting.org/

I know that guys are reasonably mad about getting screwed out of your kids. Support the National Parents Organization (NPO). They are making real headway into solving this. This year, they got Louisiana & Mississippi to join the 50/50 custody presumption (A-tier states as designated by the NPO). Change the map so that all the states will sign up. As of now there are 8 A-tier states:

1. Kentucky
2. Florida
3. West Virginia
4. Missouri
5. Arizona
6. Arkansas
7. Mississippi
8. Louisiana

This is a way to take action. Do it!

Saying that outloud is going to sound crazy, but it is very difficult. I don't know how many of you have tried complaining about discrimination as a man or sueing, but it is like nobody believes you when you say that the women are actively keeping you down and infringing on your rights as a human being. I personally have made two attempts now to fight for my own rights, and it's like everyone just shrugs at you or scoffs because you tried to legally defend yourself as if quietly saying, "Why don't you just 'man up'?"

We've quietly become second-class citizens in a world that we built. It's hard enough for men to fight for custody or when you settle out property during a divorce. You can barely even make it when a woman decides to act crazy and claim you laid hands on her with zero witnesses or evidence. You have to be so wary and self-conscious around women nowadays that you're more at peace away from them than existing even within earshot of them because it has gotten to the point where a woman's word is like a tyrant saying, "Off with his head!" and everybody cheers as you get your reputation slaughtered.

I often find myself just being assertive, neutral, and giving them the stiff arm. Stay away from me if you're not my partner. We have to literally act like assholes to keep them from taking advantage of us otherwise they will trample you and pick you apart.

Thats my opinion. Many men complain that when they become vulnerable with women ,those women react negatively to it. Wich I have no doubt they do but dont forget that us men also love to mock other men when they are emotional. Im not saying u should cry all day lol but sometimes if u have something going on u shouldn't fear talking about it to a close friend ( weither male or female). I feel like us men are mostly the one who have created this unwritten rule about men being emotionless and are the one perpetuing it

Recientemente alguien hizo una publicación en r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates, en el que dicha persona tomó algunas capturas aleatorias y sin contexto de este sub, dichos comentarios del sub ya están eliminados y me parece bien por los moderadores.

Justamente yo estoy ahí y si bien estuve de acuerdo en que la misoginia no debe fomentarse, creo que dicho post hizo mas mal que bien. Al final termino yéndose mas por el tipico mantra que utilizan las feministas diciendo "Ves, por eso la gente piensa que el MRA es un movimiento toxico", solo porque algunas personas hicieran algunos comentarios, es un manera que no tolero porque echa mas para atrás nuestros esfuerzos y algunas personas lo compartieron en espacios misandricos. Y termino sonando mas una conclusión White Knight de retórica feminista que uno en el que de verdad trate de buscar crear conciencia para mejorar el movimiento.

De ahí los ejemplos de comentario que dio los únicos que tenían algo de apoyo era uno con 131 en el que decía que "Las mujeres usan sus emociones en vez de su cerebro", y otro con 31 upvotes que nose bien de que era. Es mucho o no lo consideran tanto. Que opinan?

Solo espero que la gente pueda tener criterio, intentemos no sonar sexistas ya que actualmente estamos en una posición muy controversia en el que un comentario malintencionado pueda frenar bastante la imagen del movimiento.

No hay mejor forma de apoyo que demostrar lo malo que es el argumento del otro lado que mostrarnos mejores que ellos en nuestro discursos y evitar toda forma de discriminación.

Solo espero que TheTinMen no sea el ultimo espacio seguro para hombres lejos de toda retórica feminista y discriminación que me quede.

feel like the male gender role in some ways was almost as good as it was ever going to get around the eighteenth century and it begun to degenerate in the victorian era and has ever since pretty much.

The constantly heard cry from the female side is that women can do all the things men do...to which the outcome being the prevailing thought women were somehow unable to do the same things... I think wires got crossed, it's possibly not that women can't do the same, it's that men didn't WANT them too... speaking from my own point of view, I'm not interested in partnering with a masculine female (largely irrelevant I know)...sure they can do everything men can, it's just men possibly don't care...we are a selfish bunch, both sexes I mean, these days especially in sports there's a big push for women's leagues for all sports... however, has no one noticed that in our little world money and profitability comes first, if it don't make money then it generally doesn't happen...is it fair? Nope, does fairness mean anything except to a human? Nope.. just one more thought, perhaps women can try coming up with something of their own instead of brow beating boys into letting them play one of their games... women are the incubators of human life and they want to expose that amazing capsule of existence to the physical trauma of something like Aussie rules football or something?... Yes dear.

Or you let them do it by themselves? Haha just kidding. Me obviously I do it. At work and at home too. I dont think It's abusive toward us men to use our physical strength to help women out. As long as they say thank you and arent abusive lol. It actually feel good tbh.