So I accidentally made one of these happen. My old church had a "youth church" at the college, and at one of the weekly events they had a program to send a nice note to anyone in the local church, could be anonymous if wanted. Welllll my roommate was pursuing a girl way, way out of his league who had no interest in him... And I knew if a gal who was interested in him. So even though we'd tried to convince him this was a much better idea, he refused...
So I was a bit annoyed and thought maybe he'd just talk to her if I wrote a nice note in her name and sent it to him. But then (I acknowledge the assholery now) I wrote a note as him and sent it to her! Signed it as them and everything. They HUNG OUT, GOT MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN. Did not see that coming, we just wanted to help him not be so obsessed with his original crush!
You wanted him to stop pursuing a girl because you thought she was out of his league? I'm glad this ended up being a happy ending and all, but you come off like a huge dick.
Yeah, like I'm expecting to hear that OP originally ended up dating the girl his friend originally was trying to pursue for awhile shortly after this accident. Plus Username fits.
It's great that there was a happy ending, but no one tries to prevent a relationship for no reason, and rejection isn't really a reason.
The one that really sucks, is when people know you are interested in a girl, and they start pursuing her, or dating her. With zero intent to be in a serious or long term relationship, or the ability to be in a serious or long term relationship.
I didn't want to bag on the guy, but... He had zero, and really negative, shot. With one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. But he'd keep taking her to lunch, and doing her math homework, and she was right out of high school and didn't know how to say no other than give hints that she wasn't interested. Like he... He was not going to get many chances to date anyone, period. Some physical features were not in his favor.
For real. In my experience, religion is a huge equalizer. Plenty of “10/10” women will marry “beneath” them because of the guy’s devotion to their god.
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u/marceldia 5h ago
I like the sentiment of nice people meeting each other but it puts people in an awkward position under false pretenses. I don’t know, seems off