I wfh and my wife is stay-at-home. On the rare occasion she goes out with a friend, she keeps updating me on everything she is doing, almost minutes by minute. I'm like, "Leave me alone. I'm trying to play this game." Lol.
Yeah we very rarely do it, our kids are still pretty young and we guilt ourselves about any time not spent outside of work as a family. But every single time one of us has a reason to do it that forces our hand, we have the conversation after about we should do this a little bit more often.
I wfh and my wife is currently a stay-at-home mom. She hogs the living room TV, where my "office" is situated. I need her gone so I can watch what I want, lol.
Right. And like if you showed up and gave me a kiss on the head that's fine. But like what is he going to hang out for the rest of the week.... I wouldn't care. I love him. He's my best friend. But I would feel personally offended and upset for all the other girls who did not want my husband on the trip. That would be just fucking rude and weird... Like I'm sad I can't bring him on girls trips. He's my bestie... I don't really care if he's there. It's about the other people too!
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u/Fus_Roh_Dayumm 13d ago
Married 10 years. You couldn't pay me to crash a girl's trip. That's prime ME time, too.