r/Libya • u/TraditionalWin6032 • 19m ago
Question Question for the girls
So, me and my gf broke up about four years ago. It didn't end because of hate or a lack of love or smthn... we still cared deeply for each other, but the circumstances were just too complicated.
Even though I know it might not be the best idea, we still follow each other on Instagram, and we watch each other's stories. We're both doctors, and today she had a major specialty exam in ophthalmology.
I really want to reach out, ask how it went, and wish her the best because I genuinely hope she did well. But I’m hesitating. I don't know if reaching out would come across the wrong way... especially since she didn't mention the exam to me directly, and I only know about it because I happened to look it up.
If you were in her shoes, how would you view this? Is it sweet that I still care and follow her milestones, or would it feel a bit intrusive?"