Not tryna attract some hypergamy, weirdo dudes. But i really wish i could just walk outside w a bra and trousers on

[u/r_a_hoe]

sounds stupid, sounds insane, but esp when its so hot and humid outside i wish wearing just bras was normalized and wasnt made into a huge deal

especially since we ARE a naturally humid, hot and burning country on the equator for goodness sake. Why do womens bodies HAVE to be sexual. Sometimes i just want my tits out without someone wanting to be creepy, a perv, or gooning to it because its comfortable

Thank you for listening to my ted talk.

[u/Loud-Shake-7302]

hypergamy imeingia aje na free the nips?

[u/Ababegottatry → u/Loud-Shake-7302]

She should search the word before pasting it here.

[u/famous-infamous-one → u/Loud-Shake-7302]

Imebidi nikupee award, ati free the nips.😅

[u/runnerboy254 → u/famous-infamous-one]

Yeah, that's a whole movement on social media .esp instagram

[u/kenyannqueenn]

Hypergamy? I’m confused

Anyway just wear a bandeau top

[u/r_a_hoe → u/kenyannqueenn]

I'll look it up

[u/Historical_Peak2745]

You're not alone in feeling that. A lot of women in hot countries feel the exact same rage. At home, on your balcony, at the beach with friends who get it, more and more people are just choosing comfort anyway - sports bras as tops, bralettes, less coverage because why suffer?

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Historical_Peak2745]

Thank you 🥹🙏

i would wear all of those outside IF AND ONLY IF kenyan men wouldnt make a big fuss over it and the aunties wouldnt be one step away from calling me Malaya 💔

[u/Flower8480]

hypergamy is the tendency of women wanting to date men who are of a higher status

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Flower8480]

Yeah, it's kinda a false theory bc most WOMEN marry within their class anyways 😭

Plus it was made by redpillers and they pmo istg

[u/6footbarefoot → u/r_a_hoe]

It is not false because it happens. It doesn’t need to apply to most women to be a thing. If it applied to everyone we wouldn’t need to coin a term for it.

[u/runnerboy254 → u/r_a_hoe]

LoL

[u/GroundbreakingPie565 → u/r_a_hoe]

hypergamy/hypogamy is not gender specific

[u/No_Interview_324]

I always say that if Kenya was a nudist society I'd be a nudist 24/7

[u/r_a_hoe → u/No_Interview_324]

SAME-

I wish bodies were just bodies 😭💔

[u/Flaky-Metal446]

You're right about the climate thing too. So much of what's considered "proper" clothing here wasn't designed for humid, 30-degree-plus heat. It was imported. And then women are expected to be covered, layered, not too tight, not too loose while guys can walk around shirtless after playing football and no one blinks.

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Flaky-Metal446]

LITERALLY THE ONLY ONE WHO GETS IT-

[u/Pristine-Ear-1192]

I think you don't know the meaning of hyper gamy

[u/Ababegottatry → u/Pristine-Ear-1192]

I second you

[u/Key_Artist7969]

Bro it's sooo hot, kwanza jana😭. I just want to wear shorts and a light shirt.😭😭

[u/Left_Situation6653]

No way men here saw this, mind you these fvckrs walk around shirtless when they want, and decided ouu, lemme compare a woman having her chest out to me having my d** out😪😒...

[u/GroundbreakingPie565 → u/Left_Situation6653]

okay walk without one! Whats stopping u?

[u/r_a_hoe → u/GroundbreakingPie565]

bros acting like societal consequences DONT exist.

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Left_Situation6653]

I'm dying inside bc I specifically said not to attract perverts and redpillers but here we are 😭💔

[u/Loud-Shake-7302 → u/Left_Situation6653]

please do. when you do, send us a pic and we'll support you

[u/Left_Situation6653]

It's almost as if you attracted all the perverts here over speaking something sooo soo many women wish they could do, men are disgusting fr

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Left_Situation6653]

Yoh, you get me 💖

[u/Jazzlike-Sherbet803 → u/Left_Situation6653]

You mean Go wasn't perfect when he created men?

[u/Asaph-Suleiman]

Hakuna mtu amekukataza, ukitaka unaweza tembea bila bra pia.

https://giphy.com/gifs/Q8OOs80Hb5Bj1qNA1d

[u/SubstantialGas6730]

Sometimes I wonder whether women experience temperature differently, at least that would explain their obsession with nudity

[u/runnerboy254 → u/SubstantialGas6730]

Wakuje hapa watuambie

https://giphy.com/gifs/F2tywIO6ee3oVCrgLJ

[u/hocuspocus202]

I'm lost...hypergamy means what in this scenario /context???

[u/OmeletteLovingLlama → u/hocuspocus202]

I don’t think she knows the meaning of the word. Just throwing around a trendy term.

[u/r_a_hoe → u/hocuspocus202]

those like redpill dudes, yk

search it up

[u/hocuspocus202 → u/r_a_hoe]

Hypersexual ? Hypergamy means something different

[u/6footbarefoot → u/r_a_hoe]

“Search it up” while being completely wrong is crazy

[u/Mountain-Loquat-7428 → u/6footbarefoot]

Not a single cell is working in her brain.

[u/Sure_Entrepreneur790 → u/Mountain-Loquat-7428]

😂😂😂😂

[u/mooo_fasa93 → u/r_a_hoe]

https://giphy.com/gifs/ji6zzUZwNIuLS

[u/New_Empire254]

What a man can do a woman can do better. Tokea bila ata iyo bra uone venye tutakusapoti

[u/Mountain-Loquat-7428]

Who is stopping you?

[u/Sharp-boy1]

Wueh 😂let me take a sip💦

[u/Puzzleheaded_Cod7863]

That has nothing to do with hypergamy

[u/Individual_Stop_2410]

My problem is that I don’t want to wear a bra, and when I’m walking around my building compound I don’t wear a bra. Even when Airbnb guests give me a bad look - I will not be shamed on this land I pay for gaddemit

[u/r_a_hoe → u/Individual_Stop_2410]

u get it 🥹

[u/Working_Art1611]

u/r_a_hoe Tokea vile unataka bana we've seen it all.

[u/twinkle_little_star8]

If you all dispose them bodies then it won't be sexual.

[u/CarFreak777]

Traditional masaai women used to walk with their tits out no problem then the colonisers came and told us tits were a sin, shame.

Change starts with you. If enough women do it will become normal but you won't avoid that early stage of creeps.

[u/runnerboy254]

I feel like this is a ragebait post, but I'm gonna engage anyway.

Let's be honest, if you were at a pool or at the beach, no one would care whether you only had a bra , swimsuit ..or no bra at all.

If we're being honest , anyone wearing a bra only in public where the other women have more than a bra on is attention - seeking. There are more options to wear on hot days before getting to the bra ..like crop tops , vests , open back dresses, baggy tees .. all these are more socially acceptable options you can try before stepping out in a bra

If someone wants attention, he/she should come out clearly. We will appreciate seeing what she's got if that's the plan . Let's stop blaming these things on the sun. The El Niño is already here 🌦

[u/Left_Situation6653 → u/runnerboy254]

You're the rage bait comment on a totally normal post

[u/runnerboy254 → u/Left_Situation6653]

I'm just saying it as it is , someone would only be ragebaited if hapendi kuskia ukweli

https://giphy.com/gifs/n4FCJYLldGPC95d4ku

[u/r_a_hoe → u/runnerboy254]

 "if you were at a pool or at the beach, no one would care whether you only had a bra , swimsuit ..or no bra at all." actually we would be... how many men say bikinis are bad and hypersexualized, how many women are told "they must cover up" on the beach. Infact, men can go topless and women simply... cannot

"like crop tops , vests , open back dresses, baggy tees .. all these are more socially acceptable options you can try before stepping out in a bra" yeah yeah the whole point of my post was TO QUESTION why those are the only socially acceptable options.

plus we still get told we're malayamaxxing in those clothes anyways (minus baggy tees)

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

What if men started walking with there dicks out?i mean these are just body parts right? Or even walk with boxers

[u/SiriusFoot → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

Notice hajasema kutemvea billa underwear, wewe ndye unapayuka

Hotdamn some off y'all are so stupid

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777 → u/SiriusFoot]

Bro haiombwi hivyo? Lol she didnt even complain kwa reply.plus notice i added walking with boxers

[u/SiriusFoot → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

Ndyo hii shida ingine ya madanda kama wewe, thinking everything revolves around sex

Kubali umesema ufala yaishe, diarrhearing here mbele ya watu. Eti what if men started walking with their dicks out,

[u/r_a_hoe → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

Yall dont even have to cover much, jus the dihh tbh

we gotta cover our CHEST and clihh

plus boxers and shorts r nearly the same so u cant complain.

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777 → u/r_a_hoe]

You wish you wouldnt cover your clih?

[u/r_a_hoe → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

nigga i never said that.

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777 → u/r_a_hoe]

You said you guys cover your chest and clih

[u/r_a_hoe → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

I JUST WANNA HAVE THE CHEST UNCOVERED NOT THE CLIHHH OMLLLLLL

I JUS WANNA WEAR BRAS OUTSIDE GODDAMNIT

[u/famous-infamous-one → u/r_a_hoe]

I JUS WANNA WEAR BRAS OUTSIDE GODDAMNIT

What's stopping you though?

[u/r_a_hoe → u/famous-infamous-one]

yk DAMN well societal consequences and more await

[u/r_a_hoe → u/[deleted]]

this mentality is EXACTLY why we're still a 3rd world country.

[u/mooo_fasa93 → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

... It would be fine? Maybe embarrassing for a couple of you? Women aren't like y'all...

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777 → u/mooo_fasa93]

Tell me more

[u/mooo_fasa93 → u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777]

I don't look at men's penises and go "yay, more". So if you all had them out it'd be more of "huh, that's kinda weird" and that's it 🤷🏿‍♀️

[u/GOLDBILLIONAIREE777 → u/mooo_fasa93]

Wow ..interesting

[u/5cott3]

U/ r_ a_ hoe😂

[u/r_a_hoe → u/5cott3]

read that out loud and slowly.