I'm 28M, 5'10", Hindu, from Rajasthan. I have a B.Com, PGDM in Marketing & Finance. I've worked in operations and customer service, and I'm figuring out my next career chapter.

I'm an INTJ-ish nerd into anime, J-pop, PC gaming, technology, cars, finance, and random deep dives into things most people don't care about. I love travelling and road trips (including Leh–Ladakh), and I'm working on my fitness. Vegetarian, no eggs.

Who I'm looking for:

A Hindu girl who's vegetarian and doesn't smoke or drink. These are important compatibility preferences for me.

Beyond that, I'd love someone who can be both my romantic partner and best friend. Someone to share stupid memes with at 2 AM, discuss life's big questions, plan road trips, exchange hobbies, and enjoy doing absolutely nothing together.

I value emotional maturity, loyalty, affection, mutual attraction, honest communication, and personal space. I want us to discuss disagreements rather than play guessing games. Independence matters; we should have our own interests while building something together.

Sexual compatibility, openness about boundaries, and long-term alignment on marriage, children, careers, finances, and family expectations matter to me, too.

I'm drawn to someone curious, playful, kind, independent, and serious about building a genuine relationship. You don't need to share all my interests just be someone I can connect with.

Not looking for perfection. Just someone who's right for me, and someone I'm right for, too.

What's your ideal relationship? What are you passionate about? And what's something you could talk about for hours?

Worst case, we have a nice conversation. Best case, Reddit gives us a ridiculous soulmate story

Hi everyone!
Giving Reddit a shot because the usual apps haven’t really been my thing.

Edit 1 : Request you to please avoid flooding my DMs without reading the entire post. Reach out in the Comments* section ONLY if you fit the preferences and with your details (same ones that I have mentioned here) instead of ‘Hi’ ‘hello’! Thank you :)

About me
28F
5’3” | 50 kg
Based in Navi Mumbai
Work in the private sector at a top-tier US-based company and well-educated
Good-looking, petite, and well-groomed

Personality
I’m extroverted, warm, assertive, modest, and deeply grateful for the life and people I have. Family and close relationships mean a lot to me, and I believe the quality of your inner circle says a lot about your life.

Lifestyle
I lead a fairly balanced life with a huge genuinely supportive and drama-free female friend circle. I rarely drink. I’m from a liberal Marathi family, eat non-vegetarian food, and while I’m not particularly religious or ritualistic, I happily respect family traditions when they matter to loved ones. I’d choose meaningful conversations over loud, performative socializing any day.

What I’m looking for
Age: 25-34
Emotionally intelligent and kind
Decent looking and non-obese
Based in Thane or Navi Mumbai
Atheist, Marathi, well-educated, well-read, modest and from a well-settled, affluent background (all absolutely non-negotiable)
Someone with his own identity, interests, and ambitions
Values peace (non-negotiable)

Comfortable with someone who drinks or smokes occasionally, but I’m not looking for a party-every-weekend lifestyle

Looking forward to meeting someone genuine.

Thanks for reading!

31, born and raised in North India, 16 when I moved and been here ever since. I go back to vacation because a part of me missing all of it, a lot!

I work in the Healthcare IT space as a Product Manager. Love my work but outside my 9-5, I have developed a passion for running. I've participated in two 5Ks so far, and plan on running more with the eventual goal to run a marathon. Covid taught me how to cook through FaceTime calls and YouTube so anything from Rajma Chawal to Karhai Chicken is on the menu ++ my roti spins when I am rolling the pin lol

Not a bookworm but I like to read. The Alchemist is my all time favorite and anything by Malcolm Gladwell. I also love watching shows and movies with some that I can watch on repeat.

I am a moderately religious Sikh guy, and I am looking for someone who is 27-31 years old. I am open to all religions but I would prefer it if I got to be with someone who is Sikh as well

I am looking for a serious relationship that can turn into something long term. My biggest request is that you have an open mind, like to communicate your feelings, and are driven in life. I hope you can cook as well and we have some interests in common but ultimately my hope is that we get to build something that both of us will be excited for.

Hi everyone! I’m posting on behalf of my brother, who is turning 32 this month. He is a Software Developer at Product based company, earning approximately ₹25 LPA.
A few details about him:

Height: 5’8”
Education: B.Tech in Computer Science
Location: Family based in Punjab; currently working in Bengaluru
Lifestyle: Vegetarian, non-smoker and non-drinker
Interests: Running, fitness and strength training

We are a family of four, and he values simplicity, family relationships and mutual respect.

We’ve been looking for a suitable match and would be happy to connect with like-minded families. If you know someone who might be a good match, please feel free to comment or DM me. I can share his detailed biodata privately.

Thank you! 🙏

Hi! I’m a 38-year-old Mumbai-based professional working in the corporate sector with a leading mobility-tech app. I’m career-oriented, value family and relationships, and come from a Marwari Agarwal background.

I’m looking to connect with someone who is professionally established, comes from a good family background, and shares similar values and outlook towards life. Ideally, I’d love to meet someone based in Mumbai or someone with a similar professional and social background.

I believe in building a meaningful connection based on mutual respect, compatibility, family values, and understanding. I’m looking for a genuine relationship that can eventually lead to marriage with the right person.

Happy to connect with someone who is on the same page!

Age: 24 | Location: Indiranagar, Bangalore

Height: 5'11" (an inch away from enlightenment 😢)

Religion: Hindu (open to Hindu/Christian; caste doesn't matter)

Education: BE AIML (2024)

Profession: SDE (Remote) | ₹8 LPA

About me

Born and settled in Bangalore. Career is going well, I'm debt/EMI-free and financially comfortable. Dad has done well in real estate across Bangalore & Chikmagalur, so housing isn't a concern.

I take fitness/health seriously , gym, swimming, eating well, meditation & mantra japa. I know Hanuman Chalisa by heart too (keeps the ghosts away 👻🤣). I don't smoke or drink.

I love bike trips with friends (bike-less currently 😭, Duke 250 next year), exploring food spots as Bangalore's unofficial food inspector, and chilling with my two cats.

I'm an introvert until I'm suddenly not. I'll randomly solo dance, own the stage, eat five introverts for breakfast, then return to my cave 😂. I'm also an outrageously terrible texter , infinitely better on calls/in person.

Looking for

A long-term relationship, not immediate marriage. I want to date, have fun, build trust/attraction, make memories and fall in love. If we're right together, I'd want it to naturally lead to marriage , ideally within ~4 years, but no deadline.

I've never dated or been in a relationship, so I'd ideally prefer someone who's also new to it. Figuring it out together sounds wholesome. Just a preference, no judgement.

Preference: 19–25, Hindu/Christian, preferably non-smoker/non-drinker and not heavily into partying. Kind, affectionate, emotionally mature & a little silly.

Life is suspiciously peaceful. Apparently my heart wants some wholesome chaos 😌.

If you think we'd vibe, say hi.

P.S. ChatGPT helped this terrible texter make his intentions readable 😭. Questionable life choices are entirely mine.

Honestly I have never seen north indian women having an interest in south indian guys but want an equal opportunities of south india. I have seen many western women (decent blonde women ) dating south Indian guys but no north Indian women date/marrying SI guys but same north Indians shout about how we should be united, We aRe OnE nAtION it feels like they only want economic benefits from us

There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)

Twenty one
Never dated anyone ( stick to the post to find out )
Final yr engineering
Dont smoke or drink
Vegetarian 🌱 ( wanna be vegan but chai nahi chhut rahi)
Kinda spiritual and believe in good karma and things
Idk what else to write dm ma puchlo haa hindu
What i am looking for
Yaar aesa kuch khas nahi ha bas good karma and all mai should believe ( yup i know its thoda cliche aur many times what happens ki galat logo ka sath acha hota ha )

Should not drink or smoke ( yup my preference)
Non veg works every one eat and fr its difficult to survive for veg people for protein and stuff

Why havent i dated
Tbh i wanted job first also kisi sa kuch icha nahi hui karne ki
Introvert ( fancy way to say socially awkward but haan ab i am better )
Thoda spiritual hona tha but ab har jagah ppl are dating toh haa its feel kinda lonely

Why not dating apps
Nahi hota merese bass

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Hey! I'm a 25M from Pune, looking to meet someone around my age for a relaxed coffee date. We can grab coffee, talk about life, share some laughs, and see if we vibe.

I'm into F1, basketball, and sports. No pressure or expectations — just good conversation and good coffee. 😊

If you're interested, feel free to DM me!

P.S. Your coffee is on me if we get along! ☕

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I'm not sure if this post will be removed or not, hopefully the mods will keep it..

I had poured my heart out in a post but it was removed because of a 2000 word character limit..

I get people have attention span issues these days, but I'll share the post as a link to my profile regardless.. in hopes that maybe the right one will click on the link-

https://www.reddit.com/u/StormestCalm7/s/9LuYo67VC0

Peace ✌️

Hey!

I'm 23M, living in Bangalore and working in tech. Most of my day involves solving problems that sometimes create three new problems, so I thought I'd try something different and see if Reddit can help me meet someone interesting.

A little about me: I'm around 6 feet tall, heavily built, recently started going to the gym, and still very much in the "trust the process" phase. I'm a bit of a nerd, enjoy music, movies and web series, good food, going out, and conversations that somehow start with something completely random and end up lasting hours.

I'm also someone who's never really experienced dating, which is probably a funny thing to admit at 23, but here we are. I'm not the smoothest person when it comes to meeting someone new, and I might be a little awkward initially. Once I'm comfortable, though, I can talk about pretty much anything.

I'd like to meet someone who's kind, has a sense of humour, and is genuinely curious about the person they're talking to. Someone with whom even a simple plan like getting food or going for a walk can turn into a good memory.

I'm not expecting some movie-style love story from a Reddit post. I'd just like to meet someone, talk without forcing it, see if there's a connection, and hopefully have a reason to look forward to checking my phone.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to DM me. Tell me something about yourself, or just tell me what your ideal low-key first date would look like.

Let's see if the internet gets one thing right for once.

26 F

For most of my life, I've never really had a big dream or a particular vision of what I wanted my future to look like. My parents have had a major role in shaping my decisions, from schooling and college to my career as a doctor and I've mostly trusted that things would fall into place eventually.

Interestingly, over the past few years, I've started to realise that what I genuinely want out of life might be a family of my own. Not necessarily a particular career or a specific lifestyle, but a partner to share life with and build something meaningful together.

My parents would prefer me to focus on my postgraduate studies for now. They've always made it clear that the final say in choosing a life partner would be mine, even in an arranged marriage, and they would also like me to find someone on my own. So, in a way, I'm caught between figuring out my career and figuring out what I want my personal life to look like. I haven't openly discussed this with my parents yet but like i said, its my decision so I'm holding off this topic till i find someone suitable.

I'm not entirely sure where this will lead, but I thought I'd put myself out there and see if I meet someone I genuinely connect with.

I'm flexible about career plans, and I'm open to figuring things out together with the right person. I'd rather find someone whose values and outlook on life align with mine than have every detail of my future already decided.

I'm hoping to meet someone who's also looking for a genuine, long-term relationship, with the possibility of building a family together.

Edit: to filter out my DMs I'm looking someone slightly older than me. 26-32 preferably I'm from kerala thought i should mention even though I'm open for flexible locations I'm Hindu and would prefer hindus as well.

Edit: im 5'3 52kg prefer taller guys 5'7 or above. Prefer guys who have a healthy to fit physique.

One feedback to the mods, have the posts listed once the verification is done, rather than listing and verification, only then we will have verified profiles rather than unverified profiles and please put a limit on karma as well. I think this would help to avoid scammers some what. Correct me If I am wrong this is what you have done in jodimilan[dot]com, where only after manual verification the profiles are listed for display.

Hey! I'm M 23 from Delhi NCR, 6 feet tall.

I've spent most of my time focusing on my career and personal growth, so dating never really happened for me. But hey, better late than never, right? 🫠

I don't really have an age preference. I'd rather connect with someone who's kind, humble, and considerate.

A little about me: I'm Hindu, vegetarian, don't smoke or drink, and hit the gym regularly. I'd say my physique is above average, but I'll let you be the judge of that. 👀

Personality-wise, I'm an overthinker, pretty emotional, and super caring. Thankfully, I'm also funny (at least in my own opinion), so there's some balance. Basically, a textbook green flag. 🙄

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to DM me. Let's see where things go!

I go gym, cook and chill. You can too cook and chill or just chill or whatever works for you.

I need the basics sorted

1. Guest comes home. Either the maid serves or I expect you to meet and greet the guests. ( I have seen girls where they bring in gender things here and say why should I) Your parents come mein khud khana banake khilaunga. But at times when people come there is just something where I want you to be a decent civilised human infront of them. This is a example. Such gender inequality things can be in more spaces. And if you have such gender equality views I would abstain from you. So I believe I have different areas where I need to do and you have yours.

2. No flirting / hooking up / you know it when you do things slightly offlimit. I don't want that. I will ensure the same at my end too.

3. I manage my money in such a way that it doesn't stay with me. So alimony is not going to work out for you in case you have such views.

4. I want you not be a housewife. I want you to have your own interests. Your own life career, hobbies. Because people without these need something for dopamine and that mostly ends with other males.

I earn decent. My parents have more than decent amount of money.

I love things with their basics sorted. As in instead of a fancy 30 lakhs car I might chose a great Toyota Etios.

Male 31, single/never married, working as software engineer in Toronto.

Open to: Single F or divorced with no kids, 27-34.

I am looking to settle down and marry. It takes a lifetime to know someone so we may never know what could happen but what I believe in is efforts and communication.

Looking for a girl who is open-minded and independent - knowing what she wants in life. Someone who appreciates and understands little things and moments in life. I know its super vague but no other way to put it either.

To keep this post short and simple - here's some things that I think will help you know me better

1. I love to cook. Its my way to relax. And I am good at it. Sharing food is the best thing one can do as a parson.

2. I love environment and always want to do something good for that. I don't celebrate diwali in a traditional way just to prevent pollution - just an example.

3. I love animals and very compassionate.

4. dang, I started this as a list but running out of options real fast! :D so yeah I am a very simple person, living a simple life.

What I am looking for 👀

1. A girl with dreams and hopeless romantic. if you are not, and still want to, sure, opposites attract you know? may be we can complete eachother instead of overflowing haha

2. Independent and open minded.

3. Good sense of humor.

4. Ability to introspect, accept mistakes and willingness to grow. Someone who can take criticism instead of being defensive, open to communicate and discuss instead of running away. I am asking that because I do the same.

No BS please, be ready to share pic. If we like, like to do video call as well.

whoever did this 2K words limit, damn! anyway, so hope to hear from the one! <3

I have recently posted on this sub a few days back, seeking my partner, that got quite a response in terms of comments & upvotes.

https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/P1sEyUgt2I

43,000 views on that post damm - a very active sub

But what's with this 75 people who shared my post 😅. Kya karna chahte ho. Mere liye ladki dhoondhe me help kar rhe ho .. toh thank you

Mere against plot kar rhe ho ki iska zindagi barbaad karni hai (scammers and fraudsters), toh tum kya nikal loge yaar mere jeb se 😆. I know ki waise toh bohot kuch ho sakta hai aaj kal.

Just sharing my random thought openly here 👍

Have a good rest of your day guys and happy long weekend. 😊

Looking for a Punjabi girl who wants a loving marriage, lots of affection, a warm home and a family of our own.

I’m a big, hairy bear who loves hugs, cuddles, kisses and being affectionate. I want us to be the couple that still holds hands, steals kisses and flirts years into marriage.

A little about me:

28, 6’1”, Punjabi Khatri, based in Punjab.
Non-vegetarian, but happy with a vegetarian partner.

Love the gym, swimming, cooking and lazy days in bed.

Rajma chawal, chhole kulche, pizza and homemade food are my favourites.

Drive a Thar and would love to go on little drives together.

What I’m looking for:

A family-oriented Punjabi woman who values marriage, affection, traditional family life and raising kids together. I lean traditional and want us both to feel loved, wanted and appreciated.
I have a soft spot for long hair, beautiful suits, boutique shopping and women who carry their curves with confidence. Fair and feminine (Milky Queen) is my type, but attraction is about the whole person too.

I’d prefer someone with a balanced lifestyle who values having time for family and each other. Being able to drive is a bonus.

I believe marriage should feel like having your own person in the world: someone who stands by you on difficult days, celebrates little wins and makes ordinary days special. We’ll stay close to our families while having our own privacy as a couple.

My ideal evening? You making rajma chawal, me kissing your neck and surprising you with a necklace I picked just for you. Then we eat, talk about our day and spend the evening in each other’s arms.

I want a wife who becomes my best friend, favourite person and the mother of our future kids. Someone who enjoys being spoiled and spoils me with love in return.

Hellllooo! 👋

P.S. (or should I say, prescript?): Please don’t text if you’re going to disappear after a few days or if you’re too busy to spare a few minutes for a connection to grow. I’m not looking for constant texting, just consistent effort and genuine interest.

I’m a 24M from India, working as a software engineer who somehow manages to spend equal amounts of time writing code and falling into random rabbit holes. Some days, I’m planning spontaneous road trips that I’ll probably take someday; other days, I’m binge-watching highly rated web series or going down another internet rabbit hole.

I enjoy conversations that wander from one topic to another, people who can laugh at themselves, and connections that feel natural rather than like a job interview. No rush, no pretending to have life figured out. Just honesty, curiosity, a little bit of effort, and seeing where things go.

If you’re kind, emotionally aware, can communicate what you feel, and think comfortable silence is underrated, we’ll probably get along.

So, tell me something completely random that still makes you smile years later. Or tell me about the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done. Who knows? Maybe we’ll end up planning one together. :)

28, Bangalore. Got a decent career, a bunch of hobbies, a questionable sense of humour and enough random facts to make you question why I know these things.

I love long drives with no particular destination, badminton, gaming, good conversations and occasionally doing absolutely nothing. I’m equally happy discussing the meaning of life at 2 AM or arguing about something completely pointless.

Not looking to rush into anything. Just hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. Someone to laugh about stupid things with, go on spontaneous adventures, share playlists, try random cafés and maybe build a life together someday.
Someone who’s kind, a little weird, emotionally mature, can take a joke and doesn’t mind some harmless banter. Bonus points if you’re the kind of person who gets excited about the little things.

I think the best relationships are just two people being absolute idiots together while still having each other’s backs.

Would be pretty cute if we ended up being each other’s favourite notification. :)

Anyway, what’s your most useless talent?

Hey! I’m 26M, currently in Boston and working in corporate. 5’10” (Hindu). Happy to exchange pictures once we’ve established we’re both real people

A little about me: I’m pretty grounded, respectful, ambitious about my career, and generally calm. I can be a little impatient when communication goes sideways, but I value talking things out rather than letting things build up. I’m also currently trying to discover a hobby outside of work, so suggestions are welcome

I’m looking for someone around my age or up to 3 years younger, who’s career-driven, empathetic, family-oriented, and values good communication. Vegetarian is a strong preference but not a dealbreaker.

I’m building my career and financial base in the US for now, but long-term I’d like to settle in India, so I’d want my partner to be open and supportive of that.
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me. Let’s talk and see if we click.

Hi Visitors! 👋
I recently took it serious to create AM profile on Anuroop.. and I really felt like I did pretty well writing about me! See if this interests🤭😅
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Am native from Pune and currently settled in Bengaluru.
I always thought I want the love of my life to come in my life in the exact manner as an apple fell on Newton's head, but hey, this is 2026. I'll have to take some steps! Isn't it. 😂
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So here is my way. Through Anuroop!
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✨ A few basics about me:
🎂 Age: 29
📏 Height: 5'3"
🕉️** Religion and Community: Hindu Brahmin
📍 **Native: Pune
🏡 Currently settled in: Bengaluru
💻 Profession: Developer in a Semiconductor organization
💰 Tax bracket: 25% 😭😂
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I am currently working as a developer in a Semiconductor organization. I do some stuffs around CRM and AI nowadays.
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I love travelling; my other part of mind is always thinking of what should be my next travel destination. I would love slow, unplanned, culture identifying travels. 🌍✈️
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I definitely like all household chores except dusting. Don't judge me for this please. 😂🧹
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I can cook good food I believe and always thinking of what amazing dish can I make when I get some time in Kitchen. Currently Akki Roti seems my best so far. 👨‍🍳
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Recently, I have started getting lil interest in Coffee and things. Espresso is becoming my new friend. ☕❤️
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I am here to seek a partner with whom I can match the vibe over a cup of Espresso or Filter Coffee or Aalyacha Chaha (Ginger Tea), anything. ☕😊
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And hey, I am bilingual. So Marathi pan chalel mattu Kannada idre nu channag irutte! 😄
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Maybe the apple didn't fall on my head, but who knows what a cup of coffee might lead to? ☕🤭

23M from Maharashtra, looking for a little plot twist ❤️😂

Hey! I'm 23, working in IT, a bit playful, and always up for good conversations, random talks, and exploring new places.

Looking for a girl aged 23–26 with whom I can be myself, tease a little, laugh a lot, and hopefully build something genuine.

Maybe we start with a DM and end up being each other's favourite person? 👀❤️