Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.

I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.

• Rape
• Death
• Harm
• Violence
• Etc.

All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.

Expansion:

Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.

Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention

There's no strict limit over what types of advice can be sought; it can pertain to general anxiety over virginity, specific romantic situations, or concern that you're drifting toward misogynistic/blackpill lines of thought. Please go to r/SuicideWatch for matters pertaining to suicidal ideation, as we simply can't guarantee that the people here will have sufficient resources to tackle such issues.

As for rules pertaining to the advice givers: all the sub-wide rules are still in place, but these posts will also place emphasis on avoiding what is often deemed "normie platitudes." Essentially, it's something of a nebulous categorization that will ultimately come down to mod discretion, but it should be easy to understand. Simply put, aim for specific and personalized advice. Don't say "take a shower" unless someone literally says that they don't shower. Ask "what kind of exercise do you do?" instead of just saying "Go to the gym, bro!"

Furthermore, top-level responses should only be from people seeking advice. Don't just post what you think romantically unsuccessful people, in general, should do. Again, we're going for specific and personalized advice.

These threads are not a substitute for professional help. Other's insights may be helpful, but keep in mind that they are not a licensed therapist and do not actually know you. Posts containing obvious trolling or harmful advice will be removed. Use your own discretion for everything else.

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