Bf says I taste bad…

[u/Kazen1Kura]

So for context me and my bf have been dating for a year. Normally I am super self conscious about receiving anything oral and always deny it. But my bf will insist and do it anyway. A few times he’s brought up about how I taste bad like piss.

Now I am someone who loves hygiene and body care, it’s like therapy for me. When he says this I try to take it into consideration and be extra clean but I just can’t see where he’s coming from. I have a wash for down there, i mostly eat clean whole foods, and i take pre/probiotics.

This time it hurt my feelings because before we did it I took an everything shower and felt so clean and pretty now all of a sudden he’s saying I tasted like pee. He doesn’t say it in a mean way. I made a joke about him not eating me like that when he was eating icecream and he went “I mean…the last two times it tasted like piss. I don’t know if you’re cleaning it. Clean it babe.” But i do? I’m not sure what to do i’m petrified of getting head now, I never want do it again. He’s apologizing profusely and saying he’ll never say it again but jeez now i’m scared.

He’s also done this by saying my breath stinks and my tongue is too white. I’ve never gotten butt hurt over this but I just don’t understand because I brush my teeth, floss, and have a tongue scrapper. Yes, my breath smells after eating fragrant foods or waking up in the morning or when i’m dehydrated. But his breath smells terrible too i’ve just never went up to him and said it.

I guess I just want advice is this normal? Should I be more receptive? I already have an intensive body care plan, what else can I do? He doesn’t even do half of what I do. He literally had 1 native body wash he used with his hands until I met him and changed his regimen so why is he so judgmental?

Dinner: Poke burrito with ramune soda!

**EDIT: So I use her fantasy box sensitive probiotic+ I use a wash because I work out a lot and I feel like it leaves so much sweat to use water. Should I try ditching the wash for a while and see?

[u/CostWest8752]

Exactly, it makes me sort of tremble to know lots of women only rinse their genitals with water 😖 and then spreading the misinformation so even more women only use water is crazy

[u/SassySashaLuv → u/CostWest8752]

I've washed mine for as long as I can remember. It's that with my ass & the rest of my body. What we don't need to do is clean inside 😬

[u/CostWest8752 → u/SassySashaLuv]

Exactly!

[u/SassySashaLuv → u/CostWest8752]

Right. It's terrifying that people aren't practicing proper hygiene because they're associating our self cleaning with the outer parts lol.

[u/Happy_Arachnid_6648 → u/CostWest8752]

I came across a post on IG where some comments were saying you shouldn't use soap on your butthole. Any time i come across a soap vs no soap post (which is entirely way too frequently) I get the ICK. Never thought I'd see the day people are debating about using soap to wash their ass.

[u/CostWest8752 → u/Happy_Arachnid_6648]

It’s really disgusting out here 🤢

[u/Brief_Isopod_5959 → u/CostWest8752]

I really hope people aren’t just washing with water bc if that’s the case I can only imagine the stench coming from them (and no I don’t mean up inside the vagina)

[u/CostWest8752 → u/Brief_Isopod_5959]

Yeah it’s crazy!

[u/Brief_Isopod_5959 → u/CostWest8752]

Mind you, I know some people are more susceptible to yeast infections etc. but there are absolutely mild and natural soaps out there for those that struggle! I know a girl I went to college with literally smelled awful and felt so bad bc you could tell it was coming from down there. It was a hard conversation to have (for another friend bc at the time, I didn’t feel confident enough to have that discussion or like I didn’t want to make her feel bad 😩)

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