Bf says I taste bad…

[u/Kazen1Kura]

So for context me and my bf have been dating for a year. Normally I am super self conscious about receiving anything oral and always deny it. But my bf will insist and do it anyway. A few times he’s brought up about how I taste bad like piss.

Now I am someone who loves hygiene and body care, it’s like therapy for me. When he says this I try to take it into consideration and be extra clean but I just can’t see where he’s coming from. I have a wash for down there, i mostly eat clean whole foods, and i take pre/probiotics.

This time it hurt my feelings because before we did it I took an everything shower and felt so clean and pretty now all of a sudden he’s saying I tasted like pee. He doesn’t say it in a mean way. I made a joke about him not eating me like that when he was eating icecream and he went “I mean…the last two times it tasted like piss. I don’t know if you’re cleaning it. Clean it babe.” But i do? I’m not sure what to do i’m petrified of getting head now, I never want do it again. He’s apologizing profusely and saying he’ll never say it again but jeez now i’m scared.

He’s also done this by saying my breath stinks and my tongue is too white. I’ve never gotten butt hurt over this but I just don’t understand because I brush my teeth, floss, and have a tongue scrapper. Yes, my breath smells after eating fragrant foods or waking up in the morning or when i’m dehydrated. But his breath smells terrible too i’ve just never went up to him and said it.

I guess I just want advice is this normal? Should I be more receptive? I already have an intensive body care plan, what else can I do? He doesn’t even do half of what I do. He literally had 1 native body wash he used with his hands until I met him and changed his regimen so why is he so judgmental?

Dinner: Poke burrito with ramune soda!

**EDIT: So I use her fantasy box sensitive probiotic+ I use a wash because I work out a lot and I feel like it leaves so much sweat to use water. Should I try ditching the wash for a while and see?

[u/Porkie_Chop]

Lesbian here. He’s making shit up

[u/Peony907 → u/Porkie_Chop]

Former bisexual now lesbian, can confirm. Every man I ever was with claimed women didn't taste good. When I finally started dating/sleep with women I realized...they're all just losers. I have eaten all kinds of pussy including straight after the gym and never had a woman "taste bad." OP's dude is full of it.

[u/bacon_nuts → u/Peony907]

https://giphy.com/gifs/rBchbACpDbqAHLtqF7

[u/greenhairdontcare8 → u/Peony907]

Thank yoooou 😭😭 shit like this makes me so paranoid that I taste of piss or something else even though I shower regularly

[u/Tall-Mango4759 → u/greenhairdontcare8]

I once had a girl under my tongue and I did taste/smell pee for a few moments. What did I do? I paid no attention to it because I really liked her and I was extremely in the moment. It so happens that when people get turned on they ignore quite a few things that might make them stop if they weren’t turned on.

I didn’t feel any different about her after, and we went out for a few months after that.

It’s not the end of the world and it sounds like OP’s bf doesn’t even like her.

[u/sillysnowbird → u/Tall-Mango4759]

straight up if i had a DOLLAR for every time i kept going on a man (or woman) despite encountering a /taste/ either soap or personal, and they never knew about it, id be able to pay my bills this month. this is insane negging from a man who doesn’t like women, or at least this woman.

[u/queerjesusfan → u/Tall-Mango4759]

And like sorry if it's gross, but you're literally licking the same spot where pee comes from. Sometimes you might taste something initially, especially if she keeps her pubic hair. It's not that big of a deal, especially if it's only once in a while. I've never not enjoyed going down on a girl for this reason

[u/Peony907 → u/greenhairdontcare8]

Truly unless you have a medical issue of some kind going on down there (STI, UTI, BV, etc.) I promise you probably taste just fine girl😘

[u/Lychanthropejumprope → u/greenhairdontcare8]

My dude went down on me after I got off a seven hour flight. I warned him but it didn’t stop him haha

[u/Fantastic_Trainer365 → u/Peony907]

Hell yes girl!!!

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[u/delcolicks9 → u/Peony907]

THIS PART coochie actually taste great post-workout imo. And exertion sweat isn't smelly anyway like nervous sweat (hate this btw) and the different parts of the body that sweat, all smells(probably tastes) different too- Workout or endurance sweat only smells bad if it sits for a bit (at least overnight).

AND WHY THIS DUDE SO INTIMATELY FAMILIAR WITH WHAT PISS TASTES LIKE IF HE DON"T likE IT, LOSER

[u/StupendusDeliris → u/Peony907]

HONESTLLLYYYY, the most I’ve ever tasted is ridiculously salty after a gym session. Otherwise puss puss taste like puss puss?

[u/roheezy → u/Peony907]

lol unreal

[u/Lovelipgloss13 → u/Peony907]

Dude is actually a closeted gay and feels resentful haha

[u/Peony907 → u/Lovelipgloss13]

Nah, straight men are regularly very weird and hateful toward women. Assigning blame to gay men is not the vibe.

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[u/Lychanthropejumprope → u/Porkie_Chop]

He probably doesn’t know how to eat the kitty

[u/Kazen1Kura → u/Lychanthropejumprope]

i was wondering this like is he not use to it? He’s inexperienced but i’m not he’s my 3rd partner but i’ve never had this issue.

[u/Prinncesss → u/Kazen1Kura]

The fact that he’s inexperienced says it all. I think he has the wrong perception of what the 🐱is supposed to taste like.

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[u/innersunshine → u/Prinncesss]

I didn't see this comment until now but I said the same!

[u/alex_islex → u/Kazen1Kura]

That’s your answer. He’s inexperienced in what vagina should smell and taste like. If you’re really concerned, ask your gyn to smell your 🐱. I’m sure it tastes and smells normal aka a lil pungent

[u/Lychanthropejumprope → u/Kazen1Kura]

I was thinking your hygiene is fine but he’s negging you because he’s insecure about his skills. Has he ever made you orgasm from him eating you out?

[u/Tall_Wonder_913 → u/Lychanthropejumprope]

Asking the real question

[u/JadeSpade23 → u/Kazen1Kura]

You should ask him why he's such an expert on what piss tastes like...

[u/fashion4fun → u/Kazen1Kura]

Replying to your Edit: yes ditch the wash!!

Also - taste/smell yourself and see what you think!
Also also - IF you do smell/taste “off” then get tested for BV, and the most common cause is your bf

[u/anon_simmer → u/fashion4fun]

He doesn't use shampoo and conditioner in his hair so i doubt he cleans his junk properly either. Ew. 🤢

[u/eresibae → u/Kazen1Kura]

I still don't see it as a good reason. I'm also a lesbian and even on my first time going down I thought it was gourmet. I was nervous as hell but i still found it delicious 🤷🏼‍♀️ he's trying to make you insecure

[u/Inky_Madness → u/Kazen1Kura]

Having bad breath means he likely has stuff like tonsil stones - that makes everything taste bad. He needs to up his own hygiene and health game. You are fine.

[u/hypnotic-aquarian → u/Kazen1Kura]

Bro thinks that coochie is supposed to taste like rainbows and sunshine 💀

[u/CompetitivePraline62 → u/Porkie_Chop]

This reminded me of that story where the guy told her she always stunk as a way to keep her in her place. His dad did it to his wife, so the son did it, too.

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[u/ketoandkpop → u/Porkie_Chop]

God bless you lesbians for weighing here 🙏🏼

[u/Cultural-Map-6410 → u/Porkie_Chop]

Literally came to say this. Also I bet he's the one who smells lol

[u/Midgetrails → u/Porkie_Chop]

Literally haha

[u/Zelylia → u/Porkie_Chop]

Very much this, I've had a lot of partners and literally the only genuine bad experience was when the person at that point hadn't showered for nearly a week 🤣

[u/Wolvii_404 → u/Porkie_Chop]

Bi women and yup, he is! If really she did taste like pee, it would last like the 15 first seconds and the taste would be gone and he wouldn't care.

[u/queerjesusfan → u/Wolvii_404]

And 15 seconds is being extremely conservative. If I've ever had that happen, it's gone basically immediately. Like sorry, you're putting your mouth on genitals! Sometimes it happens!

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🤌🤌🤌

[u/roheezy → u/Porkie_Chop]

jeez you lot are not helping at all

[u/Particular-Owl2446 → u/Porkie_Chop]

Also lesbian here, is he?

The only time a woman has tasted or smelled like pee was when there was pee.

It is possible OP is not cleaning herself properly and not knowingnit. Or peeing in the shower or right after the shower, etc.

It sounds like her hygiene routine may not be the cleanest. Soap and water!

[u/LandryTheRaccoon → u/Particular-Owl2446]

Bi person here. If you think men wash little pee remnants off before bjs you are wrong. Pee comes out of the urethra. There will be pee there unless you wash every single time before hooking up. Sometimes you are in the moment.

[u/Particular-Owl2446 → u/LandryTheRaccoon]

I never said they did. Men can taste and smell like pee as well. Usually they don't. Just like usually women don't.

Women have a lot more folds to be cleaned properly than men do as well. Lingering pee smell and taste is much more common in women than men.

I dont know why Im getting downvoted for sharing. None of us un here know OPs hygiene and been up in her hooha.

[u/LandryTheRaccoon → u/Particular-Owl2446]

She doesn't wanna do oral and he insists and you are giving him the benefit of the doubt, that's why you are being downvoted.