So… In case some of you haven’t noticed, we had a bit of a flame war spin out of control here this past week. Accusations were leveled. Insults hurled and a whole lot of he said/she said back and forth.

And all with no proof or anything to back up any of the claims made.

Fine. Whatever. We’re not wanting to re-litigate any of this. And the details of each dispute are unimportant for the purposes of this post, but the TLDR of it is that one person accused a mistress of ghosting them after accepting a deposit and upon hearing this, another member jumped in to sympathize by accusing another mistress who allegedly failed to deliver on a shippable item of being a scammer. Several other people chimed in about this as well. Then one of the mistresses in question got involved and things escalated from there. The same pattern continued in another thread involving some of the same posters.  We got private messages from both sides of the dispute promising proof to back up their sides of the story, yet we received none. How do you moderate something like this?

We decided that since no one provided us with any evidence to back their side of the story up that the best thing to do was to just take the threads down.

This sub was not devised as an agency for settling disputes like these. One of the accusations involved a shippable mail order. This thread has nothing to do with that. We’re about in person irl full toilet sessions. We understand that some mistresses offer things like videos and shippable in addition to irl services and we allow them to post here with certain limits, but we in no way endorse their products. In fact, we don’t endorse anyone or anything being offered by the users of this sub. We’re strictly an informational resource. And yes, information on who is scamming who is important to have, we can’t just take people’s word for it.

The moderators of this sub have neither the time, nor the bandwidth to run quality control, settle disputes and deal with he said/she said back and forth flame wars like this. We don’t make any money from doing this. We’re all volunteers who have a passion for this fetish and want to make the world of scat a better and more accessible place for those who share our passions. Not the BBB of the mouth-shitting industry.

If you got scammed, ghosted, ripped off, or even if you just had a bad experience. We definitely encourage you to share this with the community so that other may benefit from your experience, however, we have to be fair to everybody and if you’re going to accuse someone of being less-than honest and upright in your dealings with them, please bring the proof or we will have no choice but to take your post down in the interest of neutrality and fairness.

A lot of people probably don’t want to hear this, any time you’re dealing and making purchases with a private, anonymous entity on the internet, as opposed to a vetted website like FemScat, there is a very large amount of Buyer Beware that comes with the territory.

And while it sucks when you get scammed (we here definitely have been through the same and feel for you), we don’t exist to seek justice on your behalf. We’re not that kind of place. 

We’re just a simple sub where people who love to shit on other and people who love to be shit on by other people can find, meet, and interact with each other. Let’s keep the mess in the sessions, not in the sub.

Lastly, we want to remind everyone here to remain civil in their interactions with one another. No name calling, insults or blatant disrespect will be tolerated – either here on the sub or in members’ DMs. We will remove any posts where we see people hurling insults at one another. If we receive credible evidence of a member harassing another member in the DMs, they will be penalized up to and including a lifetime ban depending on the overall situation.

Thanks for reading this and thanks for being a part of our community here! Let us know if you have any thoughts to add or suggestions to make in regard to all of this!

The Giant Beginners Guide PDF- HERE

u/AllThingsBrown kindly made a new PDF full of resources and information for getting into FTT, highly detailed with everything you could possibly want to know.

Here is what the PDF covers:
Disclaimers - Affordability - So You Have a Scat Fetish - Why See a Professional? - Overcoming Fear - Scat Spectrum - Fantasy Versus Reality - Cost - Escorts Vs. Dommes - Lexicon/Vocabulary - Where To Find Full Toilet Providers - Reaching Out To Dommes - Establishing a Line of Communication - References - Closing The Deal - Topping From The Bottom - Payment Methods - Incall vs. Outcall - Hotels - Dungeons - Showing Up Intoxicated - Poppers - The Session Itself - Consumption/Eating - Health Risks - When She Can't Go - The Pig Space - The Chaos of Defecation - Giving Up Control - Surrendering To The Moment - After Care - Addictive - Legality - FOSTA/SESTA - Safety - Scammers - How to do a reverse Google Image search - Overcoming Shame - Falling In Love and the Stigma of Paying - Sex Workers Are People Too.
PDF HERE

Key Community Resources-

• The Giant Guide for Full Toilets (PDF)
• The Big List of Full Toilet Mistresses
• List of Shippables sellers from u/NukesforCats
• How to afford FTT sessions
• The verification/Flair system

Add your own entries to the list/Get Verified-

• Add your own entries to the list of Full Toilet Mistresses
• Form for Mistresses who want to be verified
• Form for toilets who want to be verified

Report FTT Mistress or toilet/Write Anonymous Review-

• Report Mistresses for Scams or Negative Experiences (Please message Mods as well)
• Report Negative Experience with toilet
• Add Anonymous Review of FTT Mistress

More Resources-

• Guide to not throwing up during/after a session
• How I got into the fetish, having sessions and making the community/list
• The link between ADHD/neurodivergence and FTT (Full Toilet)/scat fetishes
• Dominatrix explains why FTT costs more
• Bristol Stool chart for numbering shit consistencies
• Beginners guide for FTT sessions (old)

Big List of Full Toilet Mistresses by region-

• United States
• Canada
• South America + Caribbean
• Europe + Nordic
• East Asia + Oceana
• Middle East
• Submit your own entries