3y+ hrt, post too surgery and I'm 21. In person I've been passing consistently but some people (mainly other trans folk) can tell.

I got some advice here to get rid of my piercings and get some better fitting clothes.

First are most recent pics. In slide 3, I think the thighter shirt makes me look small and makes my hips more obvious.

Slide 5 and 6 are from my last post. 7 and 8 are from a party this summer. And in the last two i recreated a pre-T selfie

Looking for honesty.

I had DI top surgery when I turned 18 and never looked back. I am in my 30s now and, despite having a tattoo, still worry that everyone is staring at my scars when shirtless.

Are they obvious and apparent? Please be honest.

During the last month i got asked my age by two seperate guys who do not know i'm trans and they said that i looked older due to my "beard." They were probably just being nice, but i never got anyone guessing older before.

Its bit unatural for me to speak in English, I believe its bit lower when I speak in my native language, but nonetheless I been wondering if its finally passble for fully male voice?

Before I started T I did had a bit of a low voice (doing on this app it said 125hz, I compared videos and I hear a change too), usally I didnt get clocked but people did comment that it was bit high and so on.

Do I finally sound like a 19yo cis dude or should I work on it more?

(Im aware I sound bored reading but thats just my curse I cannot speak fast 💀)

i look so feminine even with shorter hair. i didn’t really think my haircut read as a lesbian cut but lmk. I work out and i wear a binder. it’s kinda cheap but i have a smaller chest. I think most people just see me as a stud. which is a step to becoming more masculine but I want to be seen as male. Im kinda short and have a higher voice but i want to focus on my appearance as I get on T.

anyways, how do u think i can pass more?

So i’ve gotten a pretty bad top surgery. My surgeon fucked my nipple placement and size so it basically stopped me from being stealth. I’m saving up to get them removed eventually but i need a solution in the meantime.

Would i pass like this? The scars are still there ofc but if i drew on or ordered fake nip tattoos would i be able to pass better? are the tapes weird?

I workout a lot so i could always say the tapes are for some kind of an injury.

I'm stealth and pass 100% of the time to strangers as far as i can tell. photos are some candid, some sick/tired, some posed. 18, 7 months on T, 3 months post top surgery. my questions are:

- would stretched ears hurt my passing? would they look good on me?

- do i pass better with or without glasses?

- what haircuts would look good on me? i usually get a short fade (either 3mm shortest or a skin fade) with the top mid forehead length.

- how's my passing in general? anything to improve other than time on T?

I just got a new haircut today, I really like it! I feel like I look a lot more masc.

I just got new glasses a couple weeks ago and was nervous to get my haircut, ended up wonderfully!! Pictures are After Vs Before with my grown out permmed hair.

Getting a new haircut at a barbershop on saturday + test in january + gym membership + sharp cheekbones + female voice (ggs) -> need dressing tips, from which brands can I buy okayish quality and cheap for a jobless college student shirts that are Boxy. what haircut should I get so I don't look like a masculine woman? Right now I'm thinking mod cut. Also glasses do not make me pass but they're cool as hell and with Test it's not going to make such a difference. I wish I could wear my jeans lower but my hips are too wide for all jeans I own to wear them there so yes my leg silhouette looks clocky

Help!! How more man!

Uhh, been feeling pretty dysphoric. Im pre- T and sadly not old enough to take it yet, or at least not able to take it without a parents premission; which isn't happening any time soon. Any advice?? I think(I've been told at least) my mannerisms are pretty fine but its just i have such a soft and high pitched voice which sucks.

Do i pass as a trans guy or cis guy?

I pass in public all the time except for today where I got confidently misgendered by a classmate which isn't really helping with the brainworms. I tried to include mostly snipes and pictures I look bad in for the fairest judging. I don't think I pass but I get called he him almost always so idk.

For some weird reasons, I can't add photos by the timeline.

But (obviously) the first 2 photos are me today, then there are 2 photos in which I've taken out one of my cartilage earrings, then the 5th is me with 7 piercings(3 nasal piercings 4 earrings), then there is me only 1 mouth on t and hadn't gotten into piercings.

And the final 2 are me with 6 piercings, I put those two here just to show that I always care about passing as a stealth straight guy. But it still took me a long while to take out some of the piercings. Some of the prices I have to pay I guess.

I'm not the kind of guy who immediately knew I was a trans man. I first became aware of my sexuality, so for a long time I thought I was a lesbian, and then I convinced myself that I was non-binary because admitting wanting to be a guy was just morally wrong for me. Throughout all that time, I forced myself to embrace all queer cultures, and I used to discuss queerness all the time. I still agree with some of them and support most of them, I keep in touch with my queer friends. But man, life's been wild because even if you think that's too scary and I've got enough, it just won't stop.