r/FlexinLesbians • • Feb 04 '25

‼️ ATTENTION, ATTENTION ‼️

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Ladies, gentlequeers, and stealthy lurkers—welcome to Flexin’ Lesbians! So glad y’all stumbled in here, whether by intention or via an algorithm-induced gay awakening.

It is time, once again, to update our pinned post. Especially since we now have over 40,000 members (holy flex, y’all are absolute units) and continue to grow. So let’s lay down some ground rules before things get too chaotic.

🏋️‍♀️ Who We Are🏋️‍♀️

This subreddit is for women who love women who love to flex. And by “women,” we mean anyone who identifies as such. We do not care what gender you were assigned at birth. Let me say it louder for the people in the back:

IF YOU IDENTIFY AS A WOMAN, YOU BELONG HERE.

Yes, the name is Flexin’ Lesbians, but we welcome all queer-identifying ladies.

  • Lesbian? Hell yeah!
  • Bisexual? Absolutely!
  • Pan? Get in here!
  • Any other glorious flavor of sapphic? You’re home, baby.

Oh, and if you’re not currently in a same-sex relationship? Still welcome. We’re not here to check your dating history like a lesbian IRS. If you’re part of the community, you belong—whether you’re dating a woman, single, or accidentally swiped right on a man that one time in 2016 (it happens).

If you love to flex and work out (or simply appreciate those who do), you are welcome here. This is not up for debate. If you think inclusivity is ruining your “lesbian space,” please take your concerns to a mountain, a cliff, or the nearest large rock—and go kick it.

🚨 Now, THE RULES! 🚨

1️⃣ Follow Reddit’s content policies. If you don’t, the Reddit overlords will smite you before we even get the chance.

2️⃣ Be cool or be gone.

  • No hateful, threatening, or creepy behavior. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.
  • THIS INCLUDES TRANSPHOBIC COMMENTS.
  • If you’re about to argue semantics over who ‘counts’ as a woman, save your breath. This is a flexin’ sub, not a philosophy class.

(Exception: If someone is doing something dangerous in their workout, please notify a mod so we can handle it. We’re here to flex, not snap spines.)

3️⃣ No nudity.

  • This is NOT porn sub.
  • If your pic is on the spicy side, mark it NSFW. If it’s too spicy, it will be removed.

No accounts that post in NSFW subs, or pornographic photos, or advertise Sex work.

• ⁠Mods have the final say on tags and posts. Argue with us, and we’ll just add another plate to our deadlift.

4️⃣ Keep it flexy.

  • Your post must be related to working out or showing off those hard-earned gains. If it’s just you looking hot with zero gym context… flattering, but not the place.

5️⃣ No ads.

  • No promo posts for products or services unless a mod gives the green light. Your discount code for questionable protein powder is not welcome here.

6️⃣ No catfishing.

  • Post your own photos.
  • If you’re posting someone else’s (with permission), make it crystal clear in the title.

7️⃣ No minors. 18+ to post.

Breaking any of these rules may result in a temporary or permanent ban. Breaking Reddit’s policies? That’s getting reported faster than a gym bro curling in the squat rack.

🔥 Final Thoughts 🔥

  • Be kind.
  • Be safe.
  • Be smart.

Hype each other up! Comment, compliment, and support your fellow swole sisters, jacked gentlequeers, and beefy babes. We’re here to lift—both weights and each other.

This is the internet—people will look, upvote, downvote, and message you. If anyone harasses or threatens you, block them first and then let the mods know.

And finally: Mods have the final say. If we delete something, don’t fight us—we work out, too. Now, go forth and FLEX, YOU GLORIOUS AMAZONIAN WARRIORS!

🏆 This concludes my TED Talk. Thank you for coming, and don’t forget to stretch


r/FlexinLesbians • • 10h ago

Arm Flex Proud of my progress

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64 Upvotes

Step by step, day by day. Consistency is key. It's easy to say but really hard to do. Glad I'm finally sticking with it


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4h ago

Arm Flex Still early days but how am I looking?

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19 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 23h ago

My arms look good?

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344 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3h ago

Questions Is it a good back routine

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I do pull up and t bar row for 2 sets on an upper lower split. I have around 8 exercises per session and im exhausted after each. Should I add more stuff for the back ?


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Thought I looked good in this light

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183 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Back Flex Back day best day

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117 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Arm Flex Finally noticing some muscle

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40 Upvotes

I’ve always had skinny stick arms. Lately I’ve been putting in a lot at the gym. I felt like my muscles were really pumped today at the gym today. But now looking at the picture I feel delusional lol. Gotta love dysmorphia and the brain worms


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Arm Flex The goal is not skinny…

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732 Upvotes

The goal is your grandma thinking « this is not very lady like », when I’m more jacked than the boys 😂


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Questions Mascs in locker rooms

29 Upvotes

I’m very masc and I refuse to go into the gym locker rooms. How does everyone else deal with this?


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Arm Flex Upper body

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62 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

SHOULDER FLEX 🔥🔥🔥 Chest day. Heavier lift.

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61 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Signs of an outside worker

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190 Upvotes

Im like how yall get these back photos to not show tan lines. Forget it. Now I see why they call em rednecks 🤣.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Arm Flex Posing is difficult y’all

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194 Upvotes

Would love a good posing class/coach but my gym is tiny af🥲


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Been lurking for a while, figured I'd finally post something here

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231 Upvotes

Please be nice lol.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Off to start the new week

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267 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Arm Flex Really starting to love flexing and posing with a good pump

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33 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

AB FLEXXX Oblique Twists

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24 Upvotes

Gives you a great cross hook if you like to box. But it also really helps give a literal corset for your spine.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

AB FLEXXX Pre-workout

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233 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex Biceps and back

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213 Upvotes

I'm starting to see some growth in my biceps. Getting enough protein and eating enough overall definitely matters. I've included a back photo.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Getting stronger each day

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106 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

starting to see progress in my arms

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54 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Gym Souvenirs from the US

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Hi Folks!

I'm from the EU, going on a trip to the US. Will land in Detroit, and will visit Toronto, New York and Washington - I'm looking to get some gym related souvenirs from this trip.

Are there any queer gym brands worth checking out? I do crossfit, so anything would be useful, maybe apart from lifting shoes. Shirts, shorts, singlets, belts or bands, you name it. I'd just like to have sth that would remind me of this trip in the gym.

Help a dyke out!


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Leg Flex Hip Thrusts 90lbs 3 sets 9-12 reps

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41 Upvotes

Home gym. So I take a 50lbs dumbbell and stack 2 20lb ankle weights on top. 🦵 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💋💋🙏

The shirt well just a non profit I support ahha.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Arm Flex Sat sharms day

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42 Upvotes

something slight 😸