r/FTM_SELFIES • • May 21 '19

MOD POST: Please let us know if you’re made uncomfortable by other users.

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Recently we were messaged by a user who let us know they were approached by another user who found them via this sub. This person asked for feminine pics of the user and made them uncomfortable. We have blocked that person from this sub but I’m posting to make sure everyone knows - if you are approached or made uncomfortable in messages, comments, direct chat , etc - please let us know. The intent of this sub is for AFAB folks who are transitioning (whatever that means to them) to post selfies of themselves - and while it’s not necessarily harassment to let someone know you enjoy their photo or compliment them, this is not a hookup subreddit and it should not be treated as such by anyone. We want everyone here to feel comfortable being themselves and sharing content harassment free.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3h ago

Hey I'm new to Reddit. 😁 Looking to get into the community with my fellow transgender brothers! Been on T for 8 (almost 9) months now! (:

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2h ago

1.5 years on T. Post top surgery. Progression of theatre headshots

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 15h ago

Do I look my age? 29

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 11h ago

Went blonde recently!

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Two weeks post op double incision and feeling so happy in my body 🫶🏻

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Passing Help 4 months on t as of today!! i'm getting real happy with these results and can't wait for more changes for the next years (*ˊᗜˋ*)

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also chest acne is making me surprisingly euphoric lol


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Passing Help Help with passing?

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I feel like I have a girl face especially when I shave what little facial hair I have (I look like a discord mod if I don’t). Also tips for chest hiding during hotter weather for someone who can’t bind due to health issues?


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Found this old drawing I made of my ideal masculine self // me back then vs today

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Do I look trans? or cis

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i’ve tried using really bad angles aswell to have me looking at my worst 😂 I’m pretty confident of how I look now, but idk if I look trans. my height most definitely gives it away anyways but i’m curious if just my face does


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 1d ago

Living that corporate life

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32 Upvotes

I‘m usually more the jeans and t-shirt/hoodie type, sometimes I wear a polo to work and most of my spare time is spent in gym clothes. Today I had an appointment with our CEO though - how‘d I do?


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

[NSFW ACCOUNT] And here I am again used the flash this time. I think I like it NSFW

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 2d ago

Feeling Off Today

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Holidays always bring out a weird mood.

About three months in now. Hormones have me really up and down.

It's hard to make the journey a positive one when you live by yourself. I'm trying. Sometimes I wish I could wave a magic wand and be done.

I'm sad people think I'm strange, or dangerous before they get to know me. I'm sad when I say my real name people act surprised.

I wish there was more support for people like me. It's difficult watching my friends struggle. And I can't help, I can barely help myself some days.

I'm still figuring out who I am. There's so much in me that I can't express with the body I was born with.

On the inside I'm standing tall, but outside I'm avoiding being stared at too closely. I want to sound like me, I want to look like me, I want everyone to see what I see. It feels like a huge weight on top of an already heavy pile.

I think about the poem If by Rudyard Kipling a lot. On what it means to be a good man. It's beautiful, but almost impossible for any one person to obtain.

Still, I guess the idea is that you're supposed to try.

It's gonna be a long road.

Have to dig deep, I think.

(Hope everyone else out there is having a better day than I am. Wishing you well. ~Arthur)


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

5.5 years on t :) 20yo

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Passing Help Cutting hair short?

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Looking for advice, I’ve been thinking about cuffing my hair short for a while. ((If you search ‘mod cut’ on Pinterest something like that!))

I’m hitting the passing help tag because I would be thrilled if a shorter haircut made it even a little bit harder to clock me but I’m sort of worried the shorter haircut would make my rounder face more apparent and do the opposite 😅 what do you guys think?


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

3.33 years on T

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Now vs 3.33 years ago. What a difference!


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

Hanging out with my cat before work :) (he/they)

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 3d ago

1.5 years on T!

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Began on a low dose. Starting to feel frustrated/at a stalemate with the process. Any advice for coping in early transition?


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

:)

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

One year and 6 months on T (next month top surgery) yippieee

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Open for any tipps for too surgery recovery. Especially people with keloid. I had a breast reduction shortly before I started T and have pretty intense keloid scars. They will get cut away with my top surgery however will most likely develop again. If anyone has a similar experience, I’d love to hear about it 🤍


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

Finally feeling at home

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46 Upvotes

FTM 21, currently a little over a month on T. I’ve never been happier and im finally starting to see myself in the mirror. This is the first gender euphoric picture I’ve take since my transition.


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

hey

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

The difference a couple years can make

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70 Upvotes

2 year on t and a lot of hours in the gym 😂 but feeling more confident in my skin

Even though I still get misgendered sometimes


r/FTM_SELFIES • • 4d ago

Hope the day is good to yall 🙌🏽

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r/FTM_SELFIES • • 5d ago

5.5 years on t

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143 Upvotes