r/EuropeFIRE • u/TheGardiner • 12m ago
Feeling a bit trapped in a gilded cage…
This will undoubtedly be called out as a humblebrag, but after getting encouragement from a few people in this sub, I’ve decided my desire for insight (and maybe reassurance) is greater than my fear of reprisals. There’s also no one I can really talk to about this in my every day offline life.
Having said that, I will still preface this with the acknowledgment that I am in a very good position, and I fully understand that.
Me: Mid 40s, no kids, rent an apartment with my gf in a low to medium CoL European capital city.
Assets (as of EOY):
- €1.6M cash in a private lending fund generating 7-12% net per year. (Happy to explain this in a DM if someone cares, but let’s take it at face value for the sake of this post.)
- Businesses generating approx. €400-500k net per year. Most of it is passive income, but it comes with a caveat of only being viable for another 2-3 years, after that it may goto zero or cap out at say 100k per year. Her income is not significant.
- Other businesses at different stages of development. I am mostly a strategic investor or angel investor in these, future upside or downside uncertain at this point.
Zero debt, live in a rental. Drive an old car. We pay around €800 a month in total for rent/bills (our landlord is a friend and offers everyone in the building below market rents in exchange for everyone getting along, and being a good fit) and our yearly spend in general including food and vacations and everything is around €25-30k at the absolute most.
The high income is relatively new to me, and as such, the invested money was close to zero five years ago…it’s all happened pretty quickly, and it can be over pretty quickly. We cook a lot and save a lot and in general our expenses are low.
I feel weirdly trapped in a gilded cage though cause the housing market here is insane, but I also don’t want to rent forever. We’ve experienced meteoric rises - higher even than the average - and I’ve missed out on entering the market when it was reasonable. The type of property I would want to live in as an update to the rental is also extremely expensive (overvalued imo) and the available stock is just quite low to begin with. Also, because of the way I have things structured, most of the business income flows into the fund, so I have little on paper personal income, which makes a mortgage difficult or impossible. After another year I should have enough dividend history to allow for a mortgage, but I’m not sure. Sacrificing the fund money to buy a property (and forfeit the excellent interest) seems like a really bad idea. Property I’d be interested in starts around €1M and goes to about €2.5 before it gets truly ridiculous.
So I feel stuck and like I’m just getting older every day, and I want more. Is it just a matter of sucking it up a couple more years and then buying something on a mortgage when I have the required income track record?
