r/DirtyPenPersonals • • May 15 '24

Mod [Mod] Welcome! Here's the things you need to know NSFW

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Welcome to /r/DirtyPenPersonals!

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r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 8h ago

Kinks [F4M] 2000s porn was so much better, do you agree? NSFW

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Hey there. So this is going to be a bit different to my usual sort of posts, I’ve been on here a little while now so you way well have seen me post before. Anyway I’m Emily, I’m 18, and I have a bit of a porn obsession. I know, nothing out of the ordinary right? But it’s a bit more specific than that. I have a thing for 2000s porn in particular. I know I’m the wrong generation for that, I wasn’t here when a lot of it was made. Sorry to make anyone feel old haha. But it’s just so much hotter to me than a lot of what’s made today.

Partly I think that only fans has sanitised it somewhat, there’s less stuff from companies anymore and a lot of women are doing it themselves. This is of course great, I wouldn’t want anyone to be mistreated or anything which I know happened, but I do feel the scenes just aren’t the same. A lot of the ones back then seem more real, rougher, nastier if that’s the right word. A lot of the scenes being in a poorer camera quality also appeals to me for some reason but I’m not sure. Everything being 4K and perfect now just takes me out of it somewhat.

I’m aware that most people who like porn from around the 2000s, are gonna be considerably older than me, as you’d be grown up when that porn was being released. This is totally fine, I love older men much more than guys my own age, sorry if that offends anyone but they just know what they’re doing, are better to talk to, more experienced, and there’s a taboo to it, which I love honestly. What I’m trying to say is don’t be afraid to message me if you’re older, I love it, this isn’t to say guys my age can’t message me, but priority goes to older guys for this.

Whilst this post isn’t specifically about this, if you’ve seen me post before you’ll know I have a bit of an obsession with group sex. Particular a woman, or women, outnumbered by loads of guys. Like blowbangs, gangbangs, you get the idea, often leading to a bukkake or gokkun. Back in the 2000s there were a lot of scenes like this released, and they were so fucking nasty it’s so hot. If you’ve heard of covermyface you will know exactly what I mean. These are some of my particular favourites, and I would love to discuss them so much, as well as many others. If group sex porn isn’t your thing, this isn’t the main point of your post so you can still message me, but you’ll definitely go the front of the line if you do like it.

I’m definitely into the rougher side of things, obviously nothing where anyone genuinely gets hurt or anything, but some of the scenes from back then were definitely more on that side than they are today, which also appeals to me. If it’s your thing, by all means mention it.

So I know it might not be entirely clear what I’m looking for as I have been rambling a bit. I’m looking for a chat, a chat about 2000s porn, our favourite scenes, the kind of porn we love, and just take it from there. I have so many favourites and fantasies related to this, I’d love to do porn, and feel I was born in the wrong era, so would happily discuss this too.

Anyway if 2000s porn scenes get you going, then this is the post for you. Tell me your age when you message and put some effort in at least. Poorly written, one sentence responses suck and turn me off. I’m not asking for an essay at all, but at least make it clear you read this and are able to be somewhat literate.

Kinks are 2000s porn, big cocks, big tits, gangbangs, blowbangs, bukkake, gokkun, interracial, spanking, choking, hair pulling, slapping, tit fucking, facials, swallowing, cheating, legal age gaps, degradation, vaginal, anal and much more I can’t currently think of.

Hard limits are scat, gore, vore, death, animals, vomit and underage.

Look forward to hearing from you guys!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 8h ago

Kinks [F4M] The blowbang competition! NSFW

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Hey there, I’m Georgiana, an 18 year old blowjob obsessed girl, and I’m sat here with my friend Karina, same age as me. She’s been my best friend for a long time and we have no secrets, hence she knows about all my filthy kinks and hers too. We are both originally from Eastern Europe if you are curious about our names. Anyway if you’ve seen me post before you’re probably very aware of my kinks for sucking a lot of cock, and being shared by multiple guys. Anyway we both have these as some of our biggest fantasies so we’ve come up with an idea that we’d love some of you guys to discuss with us and see where it could go.

So we can be quite competitive, as much as we are best friends, a bit of rivalry like that can be fun. What better way than to mix this in with our hottest sexual fantasies. So we both love sucking cocks, especially big, juicy ones, with big balls full of cum, and we both really want to try multiple guys at a time. So… why not try a blowbang competition? If I have to explain what a blowbang is then this really isn’t the post for you, so don’t come at me asking, if you really don’t know do your own research. But anyway, for the rest of you, we’ve decided we want to each have a bunch of big cocks, split between us, maybe a line each, or a circle, we can discuss that. And then we have a competition to see who can suck our cocks dry the quickest. First to empty the balls of all of our set of guys wins. Sound fun?

Another way to do this could be we suck all of the cocks together and then kneel at the end, and one by one each guy cums on the face of who they felt was the best cock sucker. Most loads to the face wins, sound fun too?

As for what the winner gets, other than to gloat in the face of the other while jizz drips down us, that can be discussed. We have some ideas but I’m not going to go too far into them now, as to keep something for our conversation.

As for the kind of guys we like, older, we both are definitely daddy’s girls and have a kink for older men. Big cocks as I mentioned earlier too. The bigger the cock the more fun we can have with it in our mouth. Guys who cum huge loads. I know I haven’t really mentioned the cumming part much, but we are both huge cumsluts. In our mouths, on our faces, on our tits, we love it, the messier the better, interracial can definitely be hot too so feel free to incorporate that into the conversation.

We want to chat about this only, not actually play anything out so please respect that.

Also by no means necessary but anyone who wants to chat about or send blowbang related porn, instantly goes to the front of the line. We love that stuff, it’s where we got this idea from in the first place.

We aren’t against it going beyond blowjobs at some point, and being a full gangbang kind of thing, but don’t push that to start with, again if we click, things will likely go in that direction.

Kinks are blowbangs, blowjobs, face fucking, big cocks, facials, bukkake, swallowing, cum on tits, big tits, tit fucking, big cocks, interracial, legal age gaps, spanking, choking, hair pulling, dirty talk, cheating, and much more.

Limits are scat, gore, vore, animals, blood, death and underage.

Make sure you include your age in your message and put a little effort in. We don’t ask for an essay but at least wet our appetite, not just a poorly written one line response. The


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 25m ago

Connections [M4F] - 50M, I want to hear about your cheating, your kinks, your fantasies. NSFW

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It is time to tell me you secrets.

Im looking to hear about what you haven't or won’t tell people irl. These are the sexy thing you haven’t told your best friend so think you could never tell them

Did you cheat and can’t tell anyone? Tell me about why you did it, what you like about it would you do it again?

Do you have a crush you can’t tell anyone? Why not, he probably already knows

Do you have a kink you can’t tell anyone. I bet it sounds fun, we can talk about how fun it would be

I will go first, when I travel for work, I have posted ads online to offer free massages with happy endings to married women. I meet them in the lobby for a drink to get to know each other. Then we go upstairs to my room where she strips down and covers with a towel like at a massage parlour. I will use massage oil and massage her head to tie, slowly getting closer and closer every time I massage her upper thighs……. you can ask me how that ends if you want.

Do you just need something off your chest. Don’t be weird with this one Nothing illegal

I’m going to ask questions about it. We don’t know each other you can be honest. What do you want to get off your chest? You may as well tell a stranger on the internet. it is the smart thing to do

Not looking for anything illegal or against Reddit rules


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 37m ago

Connections [M4F] Sexual experiences that have shaped us NSFW

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What are the sexual experiences that have shaped who you are today? That’s what I’m inviting adult women to chat with me about.

Whether your experience is a treasured memory, a cautionary tale, a risqué adventure, or even a shameful episode; whether it was a one-off, a phase of your life, or it became a lifestyle for you, I’m here for it!

It’s not your everyday event that you can still vividly remember many years later. The first blowjob I ever received was in the darkened backseat of a car my best friend was driving. It was a classic ‘hold the moan’ situation, and a repeat occurrence over a year or two, every time my best friend was driving me and my girlfriend around the city. Maybe he was aware of it, maybe not — we never talked about it. But him being in the same car while it was happening certainly added an edge!

What’s in it for you here? To quote Seneca, “There is no delight in owning anything unshared.” Sharing with me is an opportunity to increase your delight in having had these experiences, to relive them, and to explore the feelings and kinks that remain with you as a result of your experiences.

I’m an experienced interviewer and an active listener, and I will ask you insightful questions to make your retelling experience hotter and more fun, perhaps even therapeutic.

So if you’d like an empathetic conversation that’s all about you, I look forward to your chat request! Or ask for my Discord.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 1h ago

Connections [M4F] 47 West Coast US. Any curiosities or desires for unusually large ejaculations? NSFW

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Tall, fit, professional guy here with a real thing for delivering unusually large ejaculations. And yes, I actually do produce a lot. I also have a few personal techniques I use to maximize the experience and make it even more intense.

What I like most is the mix of anticipation, visuals, and shared chemistry that comes with a big, messy finish. One of my biggest turn-ons is ejaculating on a woman’s body; facials, chest, back, or wherever the moment takes us. I enjoy the excitement of it, the reaction, and the fun of exploring what feels hottest for both people involved.

I’m looking for confident, open-minded women who are curious about big cumshots, already enjoy them, or just want to talk about what turns them on. Maybe you like the idea of being covered, maybe you’d rather watch, or maybe you’re not sure yet and want to explore the topic first. I’m open to hearing your preferences, turn-ons, hesitations, and ideas.

If you’re into the idea of a big, messy finish, I’d love to hear from you. If you have any favorite scenarios, preferences, or questions, feel free to share them. I’m happy to keep the conversation easy, playful, and direct.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 1h ago

Connections [M4F] Searching for Sizequeens NSFW

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There is just something very sexy about a woman who enjoys a bigger cock. I think it might be the fact that they know how to treat it well. Every sizequeen I was with made me cum harder than anyone else. Luckily, I was blessed with a cock on the thicker side, so I haven't let any down in real life. I'm not as long as I would like to be (since it seems a lot of men are Reddit are massive), but I'm happy with what I have and know how to use it.

It seems that some sizequeens on here tend to only want massive, which sucks. It's really wild when you talk to someone and they want like 9 inches and above, which seems wildly unrealistic, but hey, it's not my fantasy, so I can't judge. I always try to find women who want a thicker one over longer, anyway. Don't get me wrong, I'm plenty long, but I wouldn't say I'm a horse.

Even though I have a lot larger than a lot of men, to which I am very thankful for, I've always been interested in trying to get myself bigger. I use a cock pump almost everyday, I do jelqing exercises on occasion, and general stretching techniques I've found online. Pumping has helped the most, though it's only made me thicker, not longer, over the last year. I'm very excited to see where I can end up since, at least for me, it's been a permanent gain.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 1h ago

Connections [M4F] For The Love Of The Real, Genuine, Unfiltered BBW NSFW

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Hello you wonderful BBW people!

Today, I want to kindly, excitedly, and passionately offer something that I honestly feel that I don’t see enough around, both IRL and in places like this, especially in relation to bodies that are honestly and realistically heavier/curvier/fatter/voluptuous.

How often has the same old circle been explored? You click that enticing, salacious prompt, and you’re floored by the deliciously sexual language, topics, or scenarios. However, the moment that you really get into things; boom.

Pressure.

Pressure to preform, pressure to be something you’re not, pressure to share your body, pressure to write embellished monologue after monologue about increasingly inflated sexual reactions, just to remain engaged with a chat partner that, more likely than not, is interested in some porn-ified version of you within their own mind- as opposed to the real you. The moment your sexual arc ends for the current session, now that extra pressure sets in from the other side.

Then you turn outwards, IRL.

Pressure again.

Pressure to look a certain way, behave a certain way, talk a certain way- all related, once again, to preconceived notions of your body and the infinitely paradoxical cycles of what the mainstream thinks of “curvy women” this year.

What I want to offer here is something of an oasis, a rest-stop- a sensual, low-pressure, excited, real, genuine palette cleanser.

I don’t want pornified scenarios. I don’t want you to diminish, change, embellish, or dramatize anything about who you are, how you look, and how you feel as the most genuine sexual and passionate expression of yourself that you can be.

What I want is \*\*you\*\*. I want the stretch marks. I want the jiggles. I want the saggy, massive, heavy breasts with the south-facing nipples. I want the belly that rounds out every top you wear. I want the positively obscenely thick thighs, chafing then insides of your old XXL leggings. I want the cellulite. I want the thick arms, the calves, and the round cherubic face. I want what really turns you on, off, and everything in between. I want to celebrate YOU, in any way you are comfortable sharing!

This is intended to be a splash of sexy, passionate, excited cold water that you can return to whenever you need- there is no expectation of continued long, obligatory monologues or preconceived notions.

All I ask is that you be as genuinely excited and eager to match this electric energy I feel- and let the sparks fly between us!

I truly hope to hear from you!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 2h ago

Connections [M4F] White man looking Desi women NSFW

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Where I live there is quite a large Indian community. I've worked with them, and have multiple friends And wow, your women are amazing, and I've always wanted to play.

I've been told by both white and Indian men who have told me not to be fooled by their innocent looks. But once they get into the bedroom they are the most fun you'll ever have.

They are very willing to please, and of course be pleased, and they have the nicest skin. You all look amazing and I'm dying to know if you taste as good as you look.

But unfortunately for me, in my circles everyone is married. (I'm divorced myself). It's good that their husband can't read my mind. Didn't your mom teach you to share your toys? (Just kidding ... Mostly) I just love teasing and flirting with the wives. I'm a good cook and always find myself in the kitchen with the wives. That little embarrassed smile when something risque said (when her husband isn't in the room)i or maybe we brush a little too close to drive me wil)

Of course I don't have any real objects to a married woman, it hasn't been much of a barrier before. I have been a bull for a white couple before, and to be honest a couple of times it was just her decision. (Wink wink)

So back in topic: if there are any Desi women who would like to chat please send me a message

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r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 2h ago

Connections [M4F] 31M | Good conversation, bad influences, questionable intentions? NSFW

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I like women who are curious, funny, unpredictable, and can turn a perfectly innocent conversation wildly inappropriate without missing a beat.
I’m 31, currently wandering around Scandinavia, and have a terrible habit of asking questions I probably shouldn’t.
I’m an open book and honestly love hearing about the weird shit you have gotten yourself into. I’ve got plenty of questionable stories of my own, so let preemptively agree on a judgement free zone I tend to get along best with people who don’t take themselves too seriously and aren’t afraid to say what’s on their mind.
A little more about me (these post length requirements are getting out of hand), I spend too much time and money inventing hobbies that I have no business in. Cars, cooking, lifting, tattoos, metalworking, you name it. I’m also the kind of person who goes from having a completely benign thought to spending two hours researching something ridiculous because Im definitely just running around this planet completely undiagnosed.. I love people who can introduce me to something new, challenge my opinions, or just make me laugh at something weird and unexpected.
I’d rather trade ridiculous stories, get to know each other, flirt a little (or a lot), and see where things go.
No plans to meet, no pressure, just some fun with a stranger who might become a little less strange.
Tell me something interesting. I’m nosy as hell


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 2h ago

Connections [M4A] Looking for sex Chat or rps NSFW

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Hello there! I am a 20-year-old (soon to be 21 this Sunday!) male who resides in the north Germany
I am not only seeking a RP partner but someone I also can have dirty chats with almost everyday.

I have almost no limits. No special type of Girl that i like = idc if u chubby, skinny nor Race as long as we vibe. And i can be very kinky.

About me:
I‘m 1,87m tall (donno in feet tbh) German and Turkish, love to hit the gym, do gaming and am a little nerdy so we could also talk about non sexual stuff if you like

So don’t be shy, be urself and just dm me, i‘ll respond to everybody. Only thing important to me is that you say when u cannot chat and don’t just vanish from this app

When you dm me tell me something about yourself, like ur age? Name? Where your from? Ur body type if u like too or maybe even ur kinks i‘d be more than happy to get to know you, rp with you, sext with you or just have normal chats maybe even include what type of conversations you want to have, i‘m a good listener too!!!

So see you soon and i‘m thrilled to chat with you😘


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 3h ago

Kinks [m4f] looking to chat about cuckolding/hotwife lifestyle and experiences NSFW

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Hey, im looking to chat with someone who is into the same ideas as i am. Which is basically cuckolding/hotwife lifestyle , or open relationships.

Let me explain what kind of ideas im into. I like the idea of having a relationship with a girlfriend so strong, that we decide sex with others is ok. And we wanna have fun with it. For me personally its hot if my girlfriend would end up finding someone else to fuck, that is preferably different than me, bigger , stronger or whatever. The whole thing is mental in itself i think. So for me it would be hot to think there is someone getting of to my girlfriend, and my girlfriend is being satisfied sexually too, even if not with me.

Its not something i have tried out really intentionally Irl yet but its for sure something i will be into in any of my next relationships for sure.

So its not something that i wanna do one time only but something we got going on for us for a while.

I really like the idea of gf taking charge on it, and really getting into whole cuck and hotwife gamerole. More specifically dominating or teasing me in a way the she gets “better” sex with others, like actually preffering it over sex with me, perhaps even trying to cage me, deny me from sex or penetration at all costs, humiliating me in a way that i get to eat her pussy afterwards someone else finishing inside it, help her get ready for dates with other guys and sfuff like that. Teasing me with words. But like also helping me get off to it by sending videos, or making me watch. Making me more and more desperate for her. To the point of doing crazy stuff to get into my mind about it, like going off Bc for her bulls, or letting them cum inside while ovulating, or considering even getting bred by one of them.

But knowing its all just part of relationship and stuff, love and games. Just for the sake of fun of it. )or not hehe.

So if thats something u are attracted to and would love discuss or talk lets chat. If you already had some experiences like that im down to chat aswell. Even if you do it but cheating and not open to your partner, im still curious to talk. Anyone is welcome

Im m31 btw , Europe! Not my first language so sorry for grammar!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 3h ago

Kinks [F4M] Busty black teen craves a bukkake! NSFW

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Hey, I’m Jasmine, I’m 19 years old and I’ll be up front about who I am and what I want. Might sound a little blunt but fuck it. I’m a black chick with big, black natural tits, and a big, round, juicy black ass. All natural too. I’m in good shape, not overweight or anything and keep myself nice and fit, I was just blessed I guess. Anyway I’m a little drunk and very horny so I couldn’t help but post my biggest fantasy right now. I know it won’t be for everyone but gotta shoot my shot right?

So, I was watching this porn earlier where a load of hung, usually older white guys gangbang busty black teens like me, and then cum hard all her face. It’s a pretty old site, and hasn’t updated in many years but once I found it, it’s just really fucking hot and I can’t get enough of wanting it done to me. I can give you a link to it if you like. Big, hung, older white men, me sucking them and being fucked by them and then when they can’t hold back anymore, they shoot their huge fucking loads all over my face, getting that warm jizz in my hair, dripping down onto my tits. I know I’m being very forward with this but like I said I’m a little drunk and you don’t get what you want if you hold back right.

Definitely looking more to chat about this for right now at least, as I’m a little too out of it to write a story or anything, but if you’re an older guy who loves the idea of me getting fat loads of cum over my face from a bunch of older huge white cocks, then I’m definitely what you’re looking for. And yeah I have a bit of attitude, particularly after a few drinks. If that’s a problem then yeah again I’m probably not who you’re looking to talk to. Lmao sorry it’s hard to put this into a coherent paragraph, but I think you get what I’m trying to say.

So as I’m sure is very clear I fucking love interracial, as well as older men, with big, thick, girthy white cocks with huge hanging cummed filled balls. I love cheating too. I couldn’t give a fuck who you’re with, if you wanna take part in a group of guys who wanna cum all over my face then it doesn’t bother me whatsoever, it’s a fucking turn on if anything. My mouth, my tits, my pussy, my ass, are all open for business, but I definitely want most of the cum on my face by the end. I also don’t want just 1 on 1, I want a decent amount of guys so if you wanna discuss a 1 on 1 thing you will get ignored however much you beg for it. Just making that clear so don’t start crying about it.

Anyway if you got through all that, and are still interested then send me a message. Put a little effort in, tell me your age, what you liked about my post, and don’t send a poorly written one liner. Doesn’t need to be long by any means, but make me want to reply to you.

My kinks are bukkake, facial, interracial, raceplay, gangbangs, blowjobs, big white cocks, big balls, older men, spanking, choking, hair pulling, slapping, cheating, vaginal, anal, tit fucking, big black tits and ass, legal age gaps and more.

Limits are scat, gore, vore, death, blood, animals and underage.

So, time to message a drunken busty black teen and give her what she wants. 😏


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 9h ago

Connections [F4M] Public nudity and orgasm denial the viscious cycle! NSFW

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I'm a 19 year old female college student, and I'm hoping to discuss my specific kinks with others to expand my ideas!

Some of my background before I continue, I grew up in a reserved household. When I was 16, I made an errant google search and discovered BDSM. It was at that point I learned that I was a submissive. Upon continuing my research, I narrowed things down a bit.

So what kinks did I narrow things down to? Well as you can read from my title: Public nudity and Orgasm denial.

Point of order: my kink is public nudity not public play or flashing. But wait you say, is that not just exhibitionism? No its not. Because you can get naked somewhere in public and be hidden from view. The risk is still there but its not showing off persay.

How did I discover public nudity exactly? Specifically, I encountered several Chinese exhibitonists that would challenege themselves with a timer to see how long they'd be willing to stay naked while just out of sight. Sadly, these girls are quite difficult to find if you do not know how to look for them. You have to know one all ready and then find them usually on X or Reddit and then you "can" find others.

How does orgasm denial figure into this? For me, I found it drives me. It makes me more brave and willing to do the public nudity. I call it a viscious cycle; the horiner I am the more I'm willing to do the more I do the horiner I get!

What exactly have I personally done so far? No much to be honest! The main things I've done is "safe" public nudity; things like naked in a changing room or a bathroom stall. But I'd love to get new ideas on where to go and what to do while there from someone else.

That's why I'm here hopefully I can find someone to help me with that!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 3h ago

Connections [M4F] Looking for a Term Partner – Smut‑Heavy World‑Building with Cheating, Power Plays & Taboo NSFW

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Hey there Im Zen ! ,

I’m on the hunt for a dedicated writing partner who loves to dive deep into explicit, smut‑filled narratives while crafting a rich, immersive world that feels alive beyond the bedroom. If you thrive on expressive prose, love to let your characters breathe, and aren’t afraid to explore the darker, messier corners of desire, let’s create something unforgettable together.

What I’m After

- Term‑length collaboration – steady, reliable exchanges that let our story grow organically.

- Sm‑ut‑heavy scenes – raw, detailed, and unapologetic sex that drives the plot as much as the emotions.

- World‑building – a fully realized setting (modern slice‑of‑life, or whatever we dream up)

- Core Themes – cheating, shifting power dynamics, everyday life turned erotic, and taboo situations that push boundaries.

- Open to Dark Kinks – CNC, dubcon, non‑consensual play, and other edge‑play elements are welcome if they serve the story and characters. So , Im looking for someone with A passion for vivid, sensory writing !

- Reliability and enthusiasm for long‑term storytelling—no ghosting, just steady, exchanges. Im a pretty chilll rp partner id like to think , so I wont push for responses either. Just be communixative !

If You’re Interested

Drop me a message If you're comfortable with what you've read !

Let’s make something sinfully good—together.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 10h ago

Connections [F4F] I want to live vicariously through you NSFW

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So I’m a married woman and that isn’t going to change any time soon. Most of my girlfriends are also married and I don’t think any of them would understand this so here I am.

I’m looking for a sexually active woman. I don’t care about the age too much. I don’t care if you are also married or if you are in a long term relationship or maybe you’re single. So long as you are at least trying to have some sex lol.

What I’m looking for is to be able to live vicariously through you. I’d like to hear about who you’re fucking, how it’s going, how’s the relationship, etc. maybe it’s just the latest tinder match and maybe it’s your husband or somewhere in between. I’d also love if maybe I could help you decide which guy to go out with or what outfits to wear. Part dirty diary and part that girlfriend who you know won’t judge you for anything and might even push you haha.

I want this to be a real thing, not fake. I get that these things may take time and I understand that. But hopefully we can have fun in between the important bits.

Guys shouldn’t message me but if you do I’m going to expect way more from you. Be warned.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 4h ago

Connections [M4F] Do you fantasize about watching your husband/boyfriend with another guy? NSFW

1 Upvotes

It's such a "guy thing" to fantasize about watching two women making out and fucking, but have you ever wanted to turn it around? Wouldn't it be so sexy to finger your pussy while you're encouraging your husband or boyfriend to play with another guy? I mean, you've pegged him a few times, and you both love anal play. Wouldn't you love to watch him suck a real cock, and pound another guy in the ass? Especially while the other guy is going down on you and moans while he takes a load in his ass.

Hi there! I'm 48 (although I don't look or act it) and I'm super bi-curious. Mostly, I fantasize about bi-MMF threesomes where the woman is so fucking excited to watch her partner and another guy explore. There's something very sexy about sucking a cock with a woman, and sharing cum and creampies and everyone stuffing big butt plugs and toys in each other. I'll warn you, though... I'm an anal slut and love big toys, so I'm kind of competitive! It would be so much fun to have a long-term friendship with a couple, where we're comfortable hanging out in various stages of undress, showering together, and playing and touching and fucking. Let's try all of the permutations, including you pegging us both and going back and forth between our holes while we stroke each other's cocks!

Let's chat if this is something you've thought about, or maybe it's giving you some dirty ideas! I'd really enjoy hearing your ideas and fantasies.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 4h ago

Connections [F4A] Pregnancy Fantasies NSFW

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Heya! I'm Sara, mid-thirties, short, curvy, and while I've had these urges for as long as I can remember, the ol' biological clock is really going wild right now. I can't stop fantasizing about being very very pregnant.

Lots of people seem to share breeding fantasies, focusing on the act of impregnation, but what I'd love to chat about is more the state of being pregnant. The changes in my body, having to adapt to carrying a belly out in front of me, my (already very large) breasts getting even bigger and heavier, laden with milk. It's always just seemed to me to be such a sexy way to be, such a strong expression of fertility and womanhood, like those neolithic stone figurines of fertility goddesses. I'm already kind of built like one, so the idea of having a belly to match just seems natural! I feel like by the end of the pregnancy I'd wish that I could keep my big bump permanently!

Are you a woman who feels the same way, who yearns to have a bump that enters the room before her, to be full of new life, and feeling so sexy doing so? Or maybe you've lived it and loved it. Or maybe you're a guy (or girl!) who just finds pregnancy attractive, and wants to share your enjoyment of it with me. If any of that applies to you, I'd LOVE to hear from you!

Big-belly hugs,

Sara

P.S. just to make sure that you've read this, guys, DON'T mention "breeding" me in your first message. It's the state of being pregnant that I want to focus on here. Same goes for being excessively dominant right off the bat, overtly misogynistic, or generally gross.

P.P.S. I hate that I have to say this, but if you're going to use AI to compose messages to me, just cut out the intermediary and have your fantasy with the computer rather than relaying its messages to me. I can tell what AI writing looks like and it's truly off-putting and unsexy.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 4h ago

Connections [M4F] Femdom, Body Worship, and Orgasm Control - and getting to know each other. NSFW

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Hello DP Personals - I’m Sam, M 30.

You’ve already learned my 3 favorite kinks by just reading the title, but obviously, those 3 interests can go quite deep. If any of them pique your interest at all - either because you’re just as excited by them as I am or just because you’re curious - I’d love to chat!

In terms of the actual conversation/connection I’m looking for - well, I’m truly looking for something conversational, including the different twists and turns a conversation between two people who hit it off may take. We may find we have some common ground in femdom scenarios or withholding pleasure, but I’d love to become casual friends, too. I’d love to hear about what gets you off then also hear about what you’re reading, what album you’re currently listening to on repeat, and what you think of that new movie.

Also, while I do love femdom, this post isn’t limited to dominant women. I’m plenty open to chatting with other subs about what makes us tick and share some of our favorite BDSM subreddits!

That leads me to my next point - sharing our interests (sexual or SFW) and learning about each other (while maintaining reasonable anonymity) would be the foundation, sharing porn, favorite actors, specific GIFs or images that get us going - those are the sorts of elements that can keep our conversations especially interesting.

While I’m at it - here are my kink and limit lists:

Kinks: Femdom, body worship, ruined orgasms, orgasm control, chastity, humiliation/degradation, SPH, spit, bondage, feet, facesitting, scent/sweat, and cum play. This is not an exhaustive list, and none of these are mandatory.

Hard limits: Anything to do with someone underage or an animal, DDLG, blood/gore, or race play. I may discover or remember I have other limits as we chat, but there aren’t too many.

If any part of this post interests you, regardless of how tangential it may be, please send me a message. Please do not message me unless you are 21+, and please note I stick to Reddit Chat for these types of conversations.

Please include your age and a name I can call you in your first message.

Thanks for reading!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 5h ago

Connections [M4F] CA/Online - Bikinis, Sundresses, and curves - what's not to like? NSFW

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Summer is sadly slipping away from us at this point. But one day it will return, and with it, outfits will once again change from sweatpants and jackets to leggings and tank tops. And that means that two very special items come out as well - the sundress, and the bikini, of course. And even though it's not the season right now, we can still talk about our love for these, right?

Sundresses - perhaps the most perfect thing out there. With its bright colors, tight top, and flowing bottom, it is the perfect thing to wear to most occasions. To work, to the park, to a date, and it is so easy to put on (or take off, for that matter). Why struggle stuffing your thicc thighs into skinny jeans or stuffing your boobs into a shirt when you can just slip on one of these instead?

Bikinis - this is basically lingerie that is acceptable to wear in public, right? With just a thin piece of fabric covering what most never get to see, it's almost like you might as well be naked. They leave so little to the imagination, and yet, are so alluring and enticing. And don't get me started on the way a nicely endowed woman fills one out. Even some straight women can't help but look.

I am in love with sundresses and bikinis, but I want to find women who feel the same way. I want to find others who enjoy how thicc and "well-endowed" gals look in them. Maybe this is you, or one of your friends/family. The way the dress flows around curves, exposing thicc thighs, huge boobs, and if the wind is just right, you might get a glimpse of even more. Even when girls are walking, wide hips rock and flow the dress around.

Let's chat about this - what are some of your favorite styles of sundresses? What about bikinis? Favorite types of women who wear them? Other stuff I like to chat about/share includes general sex lives/history, MFF threesomes/group play, girl/girl experiences (especially if it was a first time), outdoor, and nudity/exhibitionism. If any of this interests you, send me a chat!


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 8h ago

Kinks [F4F] Waking up to another woman on my husband and unexpectedly huge loads. NSFW

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So there's a few things I love.

Sharing myself and my husband with friends, a really nice thick dick, and stupid amounts of cum inside me and on me.

In particular, this idea popped in my head a long time ago, and I'd love to discuss it and the kinks I have above. Maybe more if I get into it.

My husband and I are not monogamous, although lately it has been that way. The idea / fantasy that popped in my head is waking up to the sounds of a different women having sex with him. That hazy, sort of "ughhh" feeling when you get up after a long sleep, and then realizing the plaps I've been hearing have been from some young thing riding him beside me.

I'm not exactly a cuckqueen. I enjoy partaking in sex with friends and don't really enjoy any of the humiliation aspects of it. But I do enjoy seeing a friend on top of him....

Along with this, it comes to something I've discussed before - taking unexpectedly huge loads of cum, and being woken up by having a man cum in me or on me. As much as I love that, I don't get it often. There's too much of a rush to get ready for the day to find time.

Anyways. If this intrigued you let me know. There's a lot of things I could go on about. It's a bit frazzled and piecemeal but that's my headspace in general.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 5h ago

Kinks [F4A] I'm sick of trying to act any different, I love titfucking NSFW

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I love feeling a hard cock between my tits. I love feeling hot loads of cum coating my cleavage. I love when that moan of pure bliss escapes your mouth when you feel the tight warmth between a huge pair.

I love titfucking. I've gotten more than my fair share of desires met just by flaunting my massive cleavage, I can get a drink at the bar with as little effort as a simple tug of my top. I've had whole groups of friends help me move for free because I let them all fuck my tits when I was moved in. Having a huge pair is incredible and I'm tired of pretending like I'm supposed to cover up or not use them. People notice my tits before they notice my face, I bet more people recall my latest top than they do my eye colour. And honestly? I love that. Let me use my natural gift to get ahead in life. What's better than having someone else basically jerk themselves off using your body and still get all the praise, money, and presents you want? It truly is a blessing and I intend to use it as much as possible.

Want to shower me in even more praise? Want to hear more of my stories? Please do send me a chat. Envious women also welcome.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 5h ago

Connections [M4F] Even amazing parents need some lust and excitement in their busy lives NSFW

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I've finally got the lunches packed, teeth brushed, and the last kid off to school...but is there any time or energy left for a quickie?! I'm a normal (super) dad who works his ass off for his family and would love to chat with a normal mom (or wife) who still feels sexy and lusty even after a long day/week/month/year(!) locked inside with kids.

We might have dis ney songs filling our days, but some of us parents still want nudity, naughty whispers in our ear, fingers sliding over sensitive nooks and crannies, and hot breath on our necks at night. But that's the catch, isn't it?...there is rarely time or energy for any of that these days. We search for lust that is so hard to find when families, jobs, and no sleep cloud our brains. We want it, but our SO might not this week...or this month...or this year(!). Do we try to coerce our tired partners one more time? cheat? or pour another glass of wine/coffee and look for those titillating orange envelopes to tickle our fancies?!

I've found a quiet moment to myself while WFH and after my mountain of life's chores have been completed, and I want to chat with you, that sexy woman I know exists under the patina of crushed Cheerios. The hook: the magical keyboard provides the anonymity to be thrust into dirty whispers and lets you be the hot erotic girl you still feel like on the inside without all the work. You are sexy, and I need a hit!

(Super) Moms and dads need to be told they are attractive, wanted, and above all have an outlet to discuss all the naughty thoughts that flash through their heads. Everyday fantasies quicken our pulse...I want to hear what is making you think lustful thoughts today, thoughts you can't share with friends or partner. See a hot dad or mom at the park? Want to explore kink or another bedroom? Lets have an honest conversation where our libidos can run wild. I love getting turned on, and I know you do too.

My no fly list: underage, non-con/rape, gore/toilet, being called "daddy" or daddy play


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 6h ago

Kinks [M4F] Cheating from a woman's perspective? NSFW

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Hello,

I’m genuinely interested in understanding cheating from a woman’s perspective. Not the usual judgments or moral debates, but the real thoughts, feelings, fantasies, and experiences that women actually have around it.

I’m open to hearing and listening to anything you’re comfortable sharing. Your thoughts, opinions, fantasies, kinks, or maybe even past experiences with cheating. Anything on your mind. Even sharing, hotwife, being with other men if that fits for you.

And a provide good chance for those people who might not get a opportunity to be open, honest or talk about something taboo like this.

There will be absolutely NO judgment! I just find it hot and interesting to understand how people feel and think.

If you’ve ever thought about it, fantasized about it, done it, or just have strong feelings one way or another, I’d really like to hear from you. We can keep it light, go deeper or just chat. Whatever you’re comfortable with.

So message me if you are interested in chatting.

Thank you.


r/DirtyPenPersonals • • 6h ago

Kinks [M4F]- What do black (or white) women think about the popularity of white women with black men? NSFW

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Hi! I’m a 34yo, 6’2”, 165lbs, white guy. I travel a lot for work and have lots of downtime to chat! I’m strictly looking to chat. I am switchy but tend towards subby. I love raceplay, interracial, facesitting, cuckolding/cheating, bbc, breeding, pregnancy, ass worship, ass play, bi, and lots more. Only real limits are gore, illegal.

Now to the topic of interest…

There’s nothing more taboo and beautiful to me than a black man with one of our white women. It fills me with envy, awe, and an insatiable urge to masturbate.

As the title says, I recently started to get curious about what black women think about “BNWO” and the overwhelming popularity of black men and white women. I am a white guy myself and of course love BBC, BNWO, and white women who prefer black men. Being on Reddit for several years I’ve noticed that there are countless black and white men who love the fetish and probably as many white women who do too. But I don’t really ever see any black women who want to discuss their thoughts on it. Do you also find it an appealing fetish? Do you despise it? Has it made you resent white women? Has it made you idolize white women?

I’d primarily love to hear from black women on the subject and discuss it more! I would also be open to white women or women of other ethnicity who are interested in the subject or something adjacent.

ASL in your first chat message!