I’m 31, married, and heading to Vegas Alone for AWS re:Invent (Nov 30 – Dec 4). Looking to connect with a married woman (or another attendee) who’s open to meeting up, hanging out, and seeing where the chemistry goes.

Fun conversation, good company, and zero drama preferred. If you’re in a similar situation or just want some fun company while in town, feel free to say hi.

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I can see it in your eyes…

The conversation you were playing in your head for months, you couldn't get past the first line before being shot down by your husband. To add to the tension, your day at work wasn't the best either. You haven't eaten, and the traffic beat you up even more.

So, come here. I got you.

Let's turn the lights low, I'll put on your favorite scented candles, with a glass of wine. Let's put the record on (https://youtu.be/PbE6aLtvclY?si=vVhA96xs_Un3Cxcx) and you're going to place your hand in mine.

Dance with me.

Except, we are going to have a problem here…

I don't know what wine you drink. I could get you a vanilla scented candle, but you might be more into floral scents. And while I may have eight left feet, I'll still dance with you.

We haven't met, and that upsets me.

And while I dont know you, what I do know is that you're most likely a millennial; you take care of yourself; you put an effort in your clothing, because same. You enjoy salt n pepper hair, and you neither mind my tattoos, nor my height at 5’11. You're also emotionally aware, curious, and want to explore and be explored.

You also appreciate that I'm #notabot

I'd love to take you out on dates, as we escape our realities. And if you're also working in the financial district, I'm expecting lunch dates across the many cafes around.

Oh, this little thing? [Looks at his ring and grumbles, mostly to himself]. Of course, we both are married.

Come say hi. I don't bite - without consent.

:)

Hey,
I’m a 29-year-old fit, handsome Telugu guy living in Dallas. Though married life has lost its spark, my desire for real connection and romance hasn’t.
I’m looking for one special woman who craves secret, passionate moments long deep kisses, tender touches, whispered words, and the kind of intense pleasure that leaves us both breathless.
If you’re 21+, adventurous, and longing for a discreet lover who knows how to worship you, I’d love to hear from you.
Tell me what makes your heart race. Let’s create something beautiful and unforgettable.

I am not stranger to this like you, not my first rodeo but I’m hopefully someone is out there, i am looking for a long term real connection with someone not afraid of feelings. I am not looking for anything casual, or purely sex based.

Me:
• 36, Southern England (UK), Dad
• Hobbies include fitness, gaming, cooking and getting outdoors.
• Personality wise, I’m pretty easy going, sarcastic with a dryer sense of humour and a really nice person (self proclamation)
• HWP, Ability to WFH
• Good availability, not just a 9-5 situation
• Physically in decent shape, desi, groomed beard, full head of black hair, above desi average height.
• Not looking to blow up anyone’s life or change their situation.

You:
• 28+, Timezone I am open with
• Married or LTR (Duh)
• Good availability like me not a 9-5
• Not looking to keep it on Reddit after a connection is made.
• Open to feelings and a good communicator

If that sounds like something you’re looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

33M , 5'11", , 215lbs Hispanic, DDF in the Modesto area

Married 10+ years, and somewhere along the way the excitement just kind of disappeared. Nothing dramatic happened—we just got comfortable, life got busy, and eventually the relationship started feeling more like routine than anything else.

I miss that feeling of being wanted and trying new things that are not routine. Open to exploring with you.

If you just need someone to talk to or vent let me know.

I'm local to the area and in Modesto frequently, so I'm hoping to meet someone relatively nearby who's in a similar situation. Married, single, stay-at-home mom, single mom—it doesn't really matter to me. If you're looking for something discreet and aren't trying to turn someone's life upside down, we're probably on the same page.

We can meet up for lunch and see how things go from there.I'm open-minded when it comes to age and body type. Older women are absolutely welcome, from petite to mom bods are appreciated.

Married and seeking a regular and equally out going fwb around the area.
In downtown Monday to Friday’s so if you are too hmu. Especially Punjabi women, you ladies are freaking gorgeous.

You can drop me a message here and i’ll share a face pic on request. Not looking for drama just plain fun.
Cant host but i’ve looked up place around the area where we could go for some fun ;)

I can also be added on
Telegram: @haruki_cannon
OR
Signal: haruki_cannon.01

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37, 6ft, decent build, confident, discreet and I know how to give the same energy I get. \*notabot married

No rushing, no expectations. Just two people enjoying the tension, pushing each other’s buttons, and seeing just how much chemistry we can create through a screen.

If you like confidence, temptation and a little bit of trouble…

Go on. Message me. Let’s see how quickly we stop pretending this is innocent. 🔥

About me:
Working professional Married with kids in a dead bedroom situation. 5’10, HWP. Workout 4-5 times a week, good looking and still get a second look . Been told i look younger than my age. Can talk about finance, philosophy tech relationships , everything goes. Always up for some banter. I live in OC .

What i am looking for:
Someone married with kids, so you get it that we do have life outside. Have absolutely no filters when it comes to Speaking up whats on your mind no matter how unhinged. I am a good listener and promise you wont be judged or get unsolicited advice. I believe in fastest path to failure. If we are not meant to click you’ll know sooner rather than later so we don’t waste each other’s time. OPSEC is important. I am ok not revealing our identities until both of us are comfortable. Same goes for in person meetup.
Like what you hear? Send that DM. 😉

I have met few redditors online, but never got where i wanted to be or LDR didn’t work for my partner, so always decided to mutually end things. I am looking for a female partner, with whom i can develop a meaningful connection, talk anything and everything, be attracted to physically and emotionally, make her feel wanted and make myself feel wanted, appreciate and get appreciated and much more. Online only if you are outside of North America. Possibility of meeting IRL if you are in Canada or USA.

ABOUT ME

Physical stuff:I am 42, 6’2”, around 210 lbs, athletic build. I am not gym toned, i do not like gym i get my exercise from running and playing couple of sports that i like.

Married and not looking to change my situation

I am based on the east coast (Toronto) and am usually available through out the day and would like someone to talk to while i go through my work. (I might be busy somedays so need someone who understands what’s important for me as i would for you). Would love to build trust and comfort so that we can talk about anything and everything, listen to your rant about your day, discuss the positives and negatives, give the attention you need and take back the attention I deserve. I am basically looking for someone with whom I can be me and you can be you.

The Good Stuff:

I love to talk a lot, and i would expect the same from you.. i really enjoy an intelligent conversation, could be on any topic.

My love language - my biggest love language is quality time and physical touch

Kinky stuff:This is not what we would be discussing in our first conversation, but i thought of putting this here so that you know a bit about my other desires. I like some form of bdsm dynamic, and vanilla romance at times. You could expect me to be rough at times and be clingy at the same time.

With the right partner I would love to explore each other’s kink.

About you:

Physical stuff:You are well-groomed and takes good care of your health and fitness. You are smaller than me. Be 24 or above (Age is not a hard limit as long as you are mature and can have a good conversation)

Bonus: You are married and understand my situation. Respectfully.

The fun stuff:

Emotionally intelligent

looking for long term online only to begin with

loves to text or get on a call and have long conversations.

Clingy

you are ideally between 24 and 44 (No hard limit on age as long as you can have a conversation)

What i look for in you would be to include an adventurous, responsive personality, a good sense of humor, ability to hold conversations, strong intellectual sense, creative, and interest in all variety of kinks.

I do see lot of girls in here are not into video and pictures, i understand that privacy is important and i do not ask for videos or picture, but you might want to okay with getting on voice calls with me. And please do not be a ghost. If you need me time then just communicate and things will be fine.

I am okay with chat or DM on reddit, however, after talking here for some time, i would like to move to a more comfortable platform.

This was long, but if you are who i am looking for you probably at least didn't completely hate reading it, if that’s you, message me, if not, you should probably message me anyway, so i can fix you

I am 5 '7" athletic, Tamil. Married. I love to talk a lot about Tamil literature.. if you are into philosophy, that's an added bonus.

Being platonic is not enough and intimacy is certainly needed! DM for now.

A very simple 34 year old tech guy here. I am married, but looking to connect with someone who could be my friend :) I am well educated, graduated with a Master's degree. I have obsession with good pizzas, vada pav and I admire flavorful coffee, and also genuinely enjoy spoiling a wonderful women with thoughtful surprises, lingerie or treating you as priority. There are variety of relationship(meaningful too) we could make it work if things click between us. That is for later to discuss.

I expect this to be a very discreet setup, and I am looking for a wonderful and cheerful soul who takes good care of themselves. Let's chat if you could see yourself sharing a plate of vada pav or coffee or drinks with me (still discreet) :)

Hey there!
I am married and looking for someone to recreate the missing spark.

No pressure, I am transparent, open and emotionally intelligent and I will give you your space and attention that we both need.

I am not looking to change any of my situation or your. We will keep it discreet and respect each other times as we are matured adults. So why not give it a try?

Dm me if you are ready to reignite the spark.

I’ve always thought the best kind of conversation is the one that sneaks up on you. You’re just going about your day, and then you find a weirdly effortless conversation with someone. Suddenly, you find yourself checking your phone with a bit more anticipation than usual.

I’m 39, 5’8”, and athletic. I build software for a living, which is probably why I have a deep appreciation for things that are thoughtful, functional, and maybe a little bit clever. When I’m not staring at a screen, I’m usually resetting my brain on the tennis court, getting lost in a book that actually holds my attention, or watching a movie that doesn't feel like a waste of two hours. I like people who hold fiercely passionate opinions about things that absolutely do not matter.

To be completely upfront I’m married have one kid, but the relationship has drifted into a quiet, companionable space. I’m not looking to disrupt my life or yours, and I have zero appetite for drama. I’m just looking for a genuine, warm connection that feels natural, engaging, and a little hard to ignore.

Ideally, you’re independent, curious, and already have a life you enjoy, but you’re open to seeing where a good vibe goes. No rush, no heavy expectations—just two people enjoying the energy of a great conversation.

As an icebreaker, tell me: What is a book, movie, or song that you absolutely love, but would almost be embarrassed to recommend to a stranger? I’ll trade you mine.

Hey there! I'm a 33 - year-old dude from the Valley—on the Husky side, 5'7". I love BBWs, but I’m open to all body types, shapes, and ages (18+ of course). It’s all about the chemistry and vibes for me.

I’m DDF, recently tested, and a pleaser at heart. I can host halfway or come to you (happy to drive within SoCal/Central Valley). Currently attached in a long distance relationship.

Some things I love: video games, reading, sports (watching and playing), anime, being a dog dad, and naps. I’m kink-friendly, non-judgmental, and just looking for someone who’s chill and vibes with me, and guys, I’m looking for a lady right now. Please respect that.

If you made it this far, tell me your favorite show.

Happy to share pics on request.

Hey Ladies of San Fran,

I’m visiting San Francisco for a business trip next week and I’m hoping to find a partner for an affair. I’ve been searching for a while but haven’t had much luck. However, I’m not giving up. I’ve been keeping an eye out for potential partners when I visit other cities for work.

I’ll be in South San Francisco for the week and I’m hoping to find someone local or even someone who’s visiting during the same time. I’d like to meet up for a drink or two and then head back to my hotel room or your place. I’ll have a car so I’m willing to drive around.

I’m looking for someone who’s clean, safe, and fun. Discretion is a must as I’m married. I’m open to all races, but I’m looking for someone who’s attractive. I’d like to exchange some pictures or do a phone verification to make sure we’re who we say we are. I’ve met some fake profiles on here who just want to talk or lead me down a path of nowhere, so I’d rather avoid that and save each other time by being upfront from the beginning.

If you’re interested, send me a DM. I’m looking for some fun and excitement.

Looking to meet you for Coffee and Barach Kahi.

32, Married with a kid, 5’11”, 160lbs, Skinny fit. Love to cook, hike on the weekends and enjoy occasional movies/tv shows. Get in touch and let’s see where it goes from there.

I have been told that I give a good massage, if that interests you.

I am not looking for the kind of chats where we send a few messages and then never speak again. I want a lasting and very intimate friendship. Is there anyone that won't ghost after a few messages, seems to be a huge problem on here and I'm not the only one that has this issue.

I got married a few years ago, I thought I found the woman of my dreams, yet as soon as we got married she changed a lot, she is not the person I married. I'm in a tough marriage. I'm looking for an online friend who I can have a deep emotional connection with, where we can share EVERYTHING!

I'm also open to chatting to people who are not married but want to chat for whatever reason!

I'm open to women of all legal ages, a few people on here have sheepishly contacted me saying I'm a bit older or bigger or curvy, is that okay to chat, YES, I'm open to all women! Some women actually say as the first thing they say even before hi is, "I'm curvy" I want the connection more than anything else.

I am NOT planning to leave my wife so from the start I want to be clear this will only ever be online!

I m Married. Have a Kid. Dont want to change situations of either of ours.

Lets chat, exchange pics and find more things out.

Looking for someone who’s married and have a kid(s)

Age doesnt matter, if things align can meet in future.

Simple, straightforward communicator, not here first time.

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Married, Educated, attractive, 35 year old married guy here. Located in Central Valley, California. Clean and drug free.

Enjoy traveling, spending time outside, good shows, good food, good drink.

Workout on the regular and prioritize fitness/health.

5’10, 170 lbs, skinny/athletic. Would love to find a somewhat local connection. Not looking to change either of our situations. That said, ideally it would lead to something in person.

Let’s start off with exchanging pics and going from there.

Hey! I’m based in NYC, working in the city,near Times Square. I’m 6’ tall with a beard, married, and have been told I’m good-looking, fun, and a bit of a flirt. 😄

If you’re in the city and up for a coffee sometime, maybe we should meet and see if we click. ☕️

A very simple 34 year old tech guy here. I am married, but looking to connect with someone who could be my friend :) I am well educated, graduated with a Master's degree. I have obsession with good pizzas, vada pav and I admire flavorful coffee, and also genuinely enjoy spoiling a wonderful women with thoughtful surprises, lingerie or treating you as priority. There are variety of relationship(meaningful too) we could make it work if things click between us. That is for later to discuss.

I expect this to be a very discreet setup, and I am looking for a wonderful and cheerful soul who takes good care of themselves. Let's chat if you could see yourself sharing a plate of vada pav or coffee or drinks with me (still discreet) :)

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. Married and it has been over for awhile now. We're more of a roommate situation who co-parent. So I'm all in when it comes to meeting someone. I want to feel the butterflies and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being each other's cheerleader for our accomplishments. I want to be the first person you think of when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around. I'm not afraid of developing feelings for one another. 

I have a good amount of availability to talk majority of the days. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable. I'm looking for someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! Oh and having a big butt would be the cherry on top, haha I'm mostly kidding! As far as intimacy goes, I'm not in a rush to get there. I feel it's best for that to naturally happen. I know physical attraction is important in these situations. I do my best to stay in shape by working out consistently, whether that be weight training, swimming, or hiking. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures from the start!

Anyway, if you're missing having someone paying attention to you, making you feel good about yourself, and giving you the best virtual cuddles, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. I'm not too concerned with time differences. Hope to hear from you soon!