Bit of a rant.
I can't stand this fucking place.
Dallas has some of the kindest, coolest people I've ever met but the entire metroplex feels like a liminal space thrust upon me by a vengeful god. I'm tired of having to drive an hour round trip to do goddamn anything. I'm tired of every strip mall on the interchange clusterfuck highway system being the same 6 restaurants. There's plenty to do and most of it is so far away it's not worth doing. Why the hell would any sane person spend an hour and a half on these suicidal maniac driver ridden highways to hang out with friends for two hours? That's a horrible value proposition.
Every corporate center is the same 10 distribution centers copy pasted in a big grid, with the same lifeless concrete and ugly ass pebble walls that remind me of those bean-shaped pools from the 70's. Are you allergic to windows? What is this, an architects take on what a low budget Bollywood version of Office Space combined with Blade Runner would look like?
I've never lived in a place where anyone gives a shit what irrelevant tiny town you live in. Oh you're in Flower Mound? Frisco? Grapevine? Irving? Little Elm? Waxahachie? Why the hell would I care, if I walk 30 feet in any direction I'm in a different town. No, I don't want to hear about how your "historic downtown" with 8 buildings in it is better than the other 30 historic downtowns. No, I don't want to drive 40 minutes each way to go to some random brewery where I can drink $10/cup piss water and pass 6 identical strips of BJ's, Portillo's, and Chick-Fil-A's in the process. Fucking hell.
Don't get me started on the "wow, great food scene!" people either. The food scene here is great if and only if you're willing to go on quests that rival the journeys taken in Tolkien books to get there and pay $20-30 for the experience. Stupendous. If you're working a miserable dead end job you hate with no time on your hands your options are the same 10 places every time. Fucking BOGO corporate slop bowls from Chipotle and Velvet Taco paired with $15 "artisanal" burgers and $40/pound BBQ meats that taste like they were made by someone with long-COVID who lost tastebud function a decade ago and never noticed.
Lastly, good jobs? Good work? Where?! I moved here expecting opportunity in my field. It was never true and especially isn't now that tariff scares have completely fucking killed my industry. How exactly is $16-20/hr office work "good" when I can be a cashier at fucking Buccees in bumfuck nowhere and earn more than that? I managed half a billion dollars in inventory for a Fortune 500 company and the only opportunities relegated here are dead-end entry level bullshit jobs with no career advancement opportunities unless you want to be an underpaid, dead-eyed middle manager until you retire at 65 70 75. I could make more money delivering Xanax and granny's heart pills as a medical courier in Iowa than I can working for any of the companies that have bothered to call back here.
So, where's the opportunity? Where's the low cost of living? Where are people finding these high 5 figure low 6 figure jobs? How do you handle getting to the things you actually do like without the absurd commute time making you want to be committed to a facility?