r/ConnecticutR4R • u/That-Silver-9797 • 1h ago
28 [m4m] Bristol discreet looking to give head this morning. Can host for the right guy. NSFW
Dm
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/downlowfuck • Dec 22 '25
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r/ConnecticutR4R • u/downlowfuck • Sep 10 '25
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r/ConnecticutR4R • u/That-Silver-9797 • 1h ago
Dm
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Infamous-Act2612 • 1h ago
Sissy For Male (not trans, but i couldn’t put CD)
I need some help being trained by a straight verbal bully dom top. I can perform household duties and other acts of service on top of sex.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Sad-Tell-4725 • 4h ago
Send pics for the addy
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/themfeelsyo • 5h ago
36 year old single straight hispanic 🇪🇸. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke.
I like fit or thin women only. Single or taken. Good hygiene is important. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I value quality over quantity. Good vibes only.
Looking for drama-free fun. Not here to change anyone’s situation, but rather bring back those missing sparks.
I prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or sneak in through the back door.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Admirable_Bend_7538 • 9h ago
Hi 👋 35 married man in Milford. Dead bedroom and searching for some carnal release on the side. Ideally looking for someone local who's in a similar situation, but open to talking with anyone :)
5'11", 195lbs, white, bearded, clean/DDF, employed, educated. Open-minded and adventurous in bed. I have a nice cock, I love eating pussy, and I'm verbal/vocal (I make noise and I love dirty talk).
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Valuable-Peak8539 • 11h ago
This is TONIGHT only, I am in a relationship but have always had a cheating kink, I can host but for tonight only. Can exchange pics before we meet to make sure everyone is interested.
Message me or comment
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Snoo98106 • 11h ago
Hey!
I’m looking for a F who’d like to hang out, blow me, get eaten out, fwb type deal? Dm me if interested!
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/slickrickstik • 11h ago
I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Efficient_Way_5595 • 11h ago
26M, 5'7, 180lb, long haired latino here looking for casual encounters with an older woman or a straight couple. Very down to earth and open to new experiences. Looking for people 35+, especially into chubby/BBW. I am very interested in trying DP/DVP for the first time with a straight couple, or maybe even fun with a hotwife. Looking for people who can host. Have some pics on my profile, message if interested.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/MonitorCompetitive74 • 12h ago
37, discreet wm, 5'11. I'll be flying into CT Sunday for work and will be at a hotel in Waterbury. I'm normal and straight acting but I want to experience the role of a woman and what it's like to get passionately fucked. You must be discreet and ddf.
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r/ConnecticutR4R • u/ajmerino21 • 14h ago
Thinking about visiting tonight. Staying nearby. Pic on profile
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/luckykentucky1234 • 15h ago
Laid back, outgoing, attractive, nice guy in town tonight and looking for fun.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Ok-Raisin-2143 • 15h ago
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r/ConnecticutR4R • u/DomInRhody • 15h ago
I am 52 years old straight male living in Rhode Island. I am a military veteran who is currently back in school working on getting two degrees. I am Dominant and this is a large part of who I am but it is not everything I am.
I am at the point in my life to where I want quality not quantity in every aspect of my life, and that includes friends as well as people that I date. I do not want to date to just date I want to date with a purpose and end goal.
Am I perfect? Absolutely not, but the key in life isn't to find the perfect person, but to find the imperfect person perfectly.
Now that we got the basics out of the way.... Why am I here?
I have been in the lifestyle longer than I can remember and while there have been many downs there have been just as many if not more ups.
I am what you would consider a Soft/Pleasure Dom. I would rather love, care for, and respect the one that trust me to give themselves to me. That comes from respect. Respect to not abuse, take advantage, or misuse that to which is given.
What a lot of people do not understand that claim to be in the lifestyle is that just like any relationship it is always 50/50. Just because I am a Dominant does not mean that you do not have power in the relationship.
I am looking for my equal. What is my equal? I'm glad you asked. My equal is a female who is sweet, caring, loyal, fun, open minded, down to earth, submissive, is secure in who she is, and most important.... loves life. That one person that will complement me and vise versa. I am looking for something real which I know is rare now a days. I would like to find the person I can talk to about anything, have common interests, and be able to be who I truly am. I am not looking for a one night stand or be a place holder until they find something better.
I know that some of this is vague and there is a reason for that. Just know that I do not judge people and I look at the here and now and what someone's potential is.
If you got this far and you are at least slightly intrigued then please feel free to drop me a message. If not then I hope you find what you need and want in life.
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r/ConnecticutR4R • u/effyewseekaymee • 17h ago
Hopefully title and pic caught your attention if you're reading this. Honestly just looking for someone who's into golden showers,squirting, watersports etc and loves making a wet mess when fucking.
Open to fun kinky sex if that's not for you so feel free to shoot your shot anyway. Not picky in what you look like, especially if you're into what I'm asking for. Kinky enthusiasm is my only requirement!
Curious & inquiring minds feel free to DM.
No guys/couples please.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/martinriggs178 • 17h ago
Maybe you've thought about it, and talked together about exploring with a third person in the bed room? I'd love to talk about what you're thinking and what you have in mind. Thoughts / fantasy / scenes whatever it may be you're thinking about. Communication, respect and chemistry are important to me, and I'm looking for people who feel the same way. Ideally a couple with a sense of humor who can laugh as we chat and enjoy an evening. Within that, laugh at any awkwardness and have an evening full of great memories.
You'll hear/read me say this a thousand times and it is equally true every time: "your comfort is the most important thing to me." I'm not here just trying to sneak in an bang someone's wife. I want to take things and your pace and whatever you're comfortable with and want to explore. So with that, if we need to pause or stop at any point that's totally okay with me. I don't want to push or pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do.
Age is a factor, but specifically anyone 21+. I'm just a guest in your relationship for the evening, I'm open to most any dynamics, including orally bi(but not required), cuck/bull, maybe just watching you two enjoy each other, or we chat, you come to my hotel and we let the evening unfold in real time.
For me it's all about all three of us enjoying ourselves, and each other. This could be your first time, or experienced, good communication, mutual attraction, respect, and chemistry are what matter. Within that, we can also stop anytime and pause, or call it an evening. I'm here for the journey more than the finish line.
A little about me: I'm 34, 6'4" with a dad bod, easygoing, clean, hygienic, respectful, and drama-free. Again, I recognize with this, I am a guest in your relationship for the evening, so I want to discuss boundaries, expectations, and whatever else is on your mind beforehand.
If you've made it this far, here's the logistic bit. I'll be in New Haven Oct 26, 27, 28.
I would love to connect with a couple while I'm there. If we hit it off and there's mutual vibes, I'd be happy to meet in person first for a drink, coffee, or something low-pressure and see where things go from there. I have a hotel in and happy to host if the vibes lead us there.
If this sounds interesting, send me a message and tell me a little about yourselves. Happy to exchange sfw photos/ verify once we've chatted.
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/CTthrowaway989 • 20h ago
discreet, safe, no strings
direct message are open if you're curious or interested
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/CoupleofFuns • 20h ago
Hmu
r/ConnecticutR4R • u/Dapper-Tiger3348 • 22h ago