Humility & Meekness
According to the Bible, humility and meekness are distinct but closely related virtues that fundamentally shape how a person communicates and reacts to others. While the modern world often views these traits as signs of weakness, the biblical perspective defines them as controlled strength and an accurate assessment of oneself in relation to God and others.
Active Listening: Prioritizing understanding over one's own voice, as emphasized in James 1:19, which advises being quick to listen and slow to speak.
Gentle Language: Using soft words to diffuse tension rather than harsh language that fuels anger, reflecting the principle in Proverbs 15:1.
Constructive Speech: Avoiding boastful or unwholesome talk in favor of words that encourage and build others up (Ephesians 4:29).
Accountability: Embracing humility by readily admitting faults and seeking mutual restoration and forgiveness (James 5:16).
Humility:
• Definition: A modest view of your own importance and an absence of pride, arrogance, or self-assertion.
• Focus (Attitude Toward Self): It is an internal state of mind where you recognize your limitations, your dependence on God or others, and a proper realistic place in the world.
• Greek Origin: Derived from tapeinos (meaning low-lying or grounded, close to the earth).
• Key Example: Acknowledging that your talents, status, or success are not grounds to look down on others.
Meakness:
• Definition: Gentleness, patience, and a calm self-control—often described as "strength under control" (such as a powerful horse or a trained soldier acting with restraint).
• Focus (Attitude Toward Others and Trials): It is the external expression of humility when facing mistreatment, hardship, or authority without retaliating, seeking personal vengeance, or losing your temper.
• Greek Origin: Derived from praos (gentle, mild, or disciplined strength).
• Key Example: Responding to insults or difficult people with patience and a teachable spirit rather than anger or pride.
- Real Life Example:
- Humility -
Jesus Washing His Disciples' Feet (John 13).
Jesus—the Creator and King of Kings—knows the Father has put all things under His power. Instead of demanding to be served, He wraps a towel around His waist, pours water into a basin, and washes the dirty, dust-covered feet of His disciples.
What it shows:
True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Jesus used His immense authority not to elevate Himself, but to lower Himself into the role of a household servant to care for others.
- Meekness -
Moses Responding to Criticism (Numbers 12:3)
Moses is described as "more humble [meek] than any man on the face of the earth". Shortly after, his own siblings, Miriam and Aaron, talk behind his back and challenge his supreme leadership and authority.
What it shows:
Moses had the political and physical power to crush their rebellion or defend his pride. Instead, he kept his strength under control, stayed silent, and let God handle the defense and the judgment. Meekness is having massive influence or power yet choosing gentleness and patience instead of lashing out.
- Combining Both Humility/Meekness -
Jesus before his accusers (1st Peter 2:23).
The Gospel accounts of His trial, Jesus is mocked, beaten, and falsely accused. He has the power to call down legions of angels, yet He does not hurl insults or retaliate.
What it shows:
He exhibits both humility (submitting completely to the Father's plan to save humanity instead of protecting His own reputation) and meekness (holding back His infinite power in total self-control).
- Closing Exhortation - <Living out Humility and Meekness>
The closing exhortations of the New Testament consistently emphasize that humility and meekness are the definitive markers of a believer's conduct. These traits are not signs of weakness, but rather spiritual strength under control, shaping how believers interact with God, leaders, and the surrounding world.
Conduct Towards God: Humble Submission
Believers are called to position themselves in absolute dependence on God, recognizing His sovereignty over their lives.
Surrendering Care: 1 Peter 5:6-7 commands believers to "Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." Humility acknowledges that we cannot carry our own burdens.
Receiving the Word: James 1:21 exhorts believers to put away wickedness and "receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls." A meek heart is teachable and yields to divine truth.
Conduct Within the Church: Unity and Restorative Grace
Humility serves as the ultimate safeguard for peace, unity, and healing within the community of faith.
Prioritizing Others: Philippians 2:3 charges believers to "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves." This mirrors the mind of Christ, who emptied Himself for humanity.
Gentle Restoration: Galatians 6:1 instructs that if anyone is caught in a transgression, those who are spiritual should "restore him in a spirit of gentleness [meekness]," while keeping watch over themselves lest they also be tempted.
Bearing with One Another: Ephesians 4:1-2 urges believers to walk in a manner worthy of their calling, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love."
Conduct Toward the World: Peaceful Witness
When interacting with a hostile or unbelieving world, meekness replaces retaliation with a quiet, powerful testimony.
Defending the Faith: 1 Peter 3:15 tells believers to always be ready to make a defense for their hope, yet to do it "with gentleness and respect."
Avoid Quarrels: Titus 3:2 exhorts Christians "to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people."
Summary of the Believer's Daily Wardrobe
In Colossians 3:12, the Apostle Paul provides a perfect summary checklist, commanding believers to actively put on these virtues like garments every day:
[ CLOTH YOURSELVES WITH ]
Compassionate Hearts
Kindness
Humility
Meekness
Patience
(Prayer)
So let us be greatful and may we choose to do the right thing in which God has willed to us in Christ Jesus! We ask today, that God teach us how to love one-another and to turn away from evil in which corrupts our relationship with him. Amen!