TL;DR: My brother's cat adores my boyfriend but pees exclusively on things that smell like him. I'm trying to save both her living arrangement and his remaining uncontaminated possessions.
Meet Pebbles, my brother's cat and apparently a tiny criminal mastermind. She's been living with me, is doing great, and gets better care here than she would at my parents' house. I'd really like to keep her.
There's just one problem.
She pees on EVERYTHING my boyfriend uses.
His clothes? Pee.
His blankets? Pee.
A towel he used? Believe it or not, pee.
My belongings? Perfectly safe. Everything else? Fine. She uses her litter box like a normal, law-abiding citizen.
And here's the kicker: SHE LOVES THIS MAN.
She demands pets, seeks him out for snuggles, and acts like he's the greatest thing since canned tuna. Then turns around and pees on his stuff.
He doesn't even live here! He's over a few nights a week. My home is clean, he's clean, and apparently Pebbles has decided to charge him a biological occupancy fee.
It also seems to happen around the times we're intimate, which adds a whole new level of weirdness to this situation.
She's otherwise happy and thriving. I don't want to send her back to my parents, but I also don't want my boyfriend to have to store his clothes in the dryer like it's a high-security vault.
She has a vet appointment coming up to rule out medical issues, and I'm limiting her access to his belongings.
Has anyone dealt with a cat who adores someone but exclusively pees on things carrying their scent? What helped?
Because at this point, I'm just a landlord trying to resolve a very strange domestic dispute.