I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Hi,

I’m hoping that there is a fellow work traveler or nearby neglected mom or just someone who wants a flirty and fun escape for a few hours. This could be just a drink and a laugh, although more than that would be great.

Life is good and I’m generally happy but home is all logistics: little affection, and years of a completely dead bedroom. I’m not looking to change any situation or judge anyone. I am looking for a spark and someone to explore with.

I’ll have a nice hotel room downtown and can host, but it would be great to meet in public for a drink or coffee to make sure we have that connection.

I’m looking for a woman who gets it: also busy, also discreet, and interested in something that has mutual attraction, respect, clear boundaries, and physical chemistry. I’m open to any age as long as you are enthusiastic!

I’m married, smart fun and work at a professional job that has me traveling a fair amount, I’m 6ft white 200 lbs with green eyes.

If this sounds exciting and fun, please message me \~

Traveling Business Exec seeks a fun evening filled with dinner, drinks and if we click a great connection.

Are you visiting Tucson for work or for a vacation? Would you like to be relaxed, rejuvenate or trying to connect with your inner self? I (M, 40s) am a certified tantra-reiki practitioner, offering rejuvenating sessions to the women visiting Tucson. Either in my place or I can come to you at your hotel or Airbnb. Discretion and privacy are maintained. Also offering sessions to visiting couples who has lost connections between themselves. Please contact for details and to schedule.

Are you a frequent flyer to Sacramento, CA? Are you Looking for a FWB while in town? Not looking for one time. Looking for someone whose travel to Sacramento area at least once a month. 🤭

I'm Latino, short king at 5’5, ~200 lbs (currently working on improving this), short black hair, and brown eyes with blue, round-framed glasses. Regardless, I expect absolutely no reciprocation—this is all about you.

Preferences: I love all women, colors (Asians and Latinas to the front of the line 🤭) and ages.

23, 118lbs, 5’7 tight smooth submissive fem bottom - i’d love to find a man who needs stress relief and wants me all dolled up with make up and in lingerie and show him how talented i am on my knees….. love to service and worship so lay back, relax, close your eyes and let me take care of you

into successful fit alpha finance bro white collar type men who need some stress relief and want to use a fem bottom after a long day of work - looking for guys in manhattan who are traveling

Coming to town for the week of 11/9. Let’s meet for drinks and see where it leads!

I’m 5’9” 195lbs, athletic build, nice looking

I’m outgoing, friendly, and can carry a conversation. I like traveling, concerts, beach, going on the lake, mountains, sports, breweries! I’m pretty active and like to exercise often. I like anything that includes getting outside, exploring, and having a good time.

Possibility of this being more than just a one time deal.

Let’s chat and build the tension prior to my arrival

Can swap pics early

I want to be upfront about the fact that the likelihood of us actually meeting is pretty slim. The idea of meeting a stranger from the internet is honestly a little spooky to me! I’m not new to having an affair, but the online affair world is new territory, and I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. So, if you’d be disappointed or frustrated if we don’t end up meeting while I’m in the city, I’m probably not your girl. That being said, there’s always that 1% chance, and I suppose that’s why I’m giving this a shot!
I will be traveling to San Francisco soon for a work event. I have a good life, and I think most people would be pretty surprised to find me here, yet here I am!
I tend to be drawn to calm, laid-back men with a quiet confidence. My previous AP was significantly older than me, so an age gap certainly doesn't scare me. I’m attracted to men who are successful and established in their careers, generally happy with their lives, and have a positive outlook. I’m not looking to be anyone’s escape or sounding board, just a happy little addition to your life. I don't do the overly attached, clingy thing well. But I have found I do have a lot to love to give. ❤️
If any of this resonates with you, send me a little about yourself! Age, career, hobbies, what makes you interesting, etc. I’d love to know a little about the person behind the screen!

Title is pretty self-explanatory I guess as I'm in a long-standing (> 5 years) dead bedroom situation. I'm otherwise happy but the last many years have just been lacking physical intimacy, for a variety of reasons. I'm routinely (~ weekly) in Baltimore for a day or two at a time and would enjoy finding someone local, maybe that's also in a similar situation, to meet up with and spend intimate time together with. Not looking to change my situation or yours so this would be more of a casual thing. I have a small apartment here too so could host our adventures. I'm white, tall (> 6'), in reasonably good shape, don't drink/smoke, am highly educated, and generally easy to get along with. If you're interested I'd appreciate hearing a little about yourself, your situation, and what you're looking for. Happy to trade pics with the right person too.

I’m in east Houston area but am happy to come to you
We can meet up for drinks first as a vibe check

Married(to a woman), discreetly Bi curious male and looking for another married(to a woman), bi/bi-curious guy with a similar lifestyle. Especially someone secretly craving to explore their bi side with total privacy and no pressure.

Ideally looking for someone athletic, fit, smooth(no facial or body hair), and well-educated/corporate. For me, it’s all about chemistry, confidence, and mutual attraction, taking things at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Good hygiene is most important.

I am an Indian man 6ft tall, 165lb, looking for a married white male. I am a well educated, white collar professional, clean, healthy, DD free, Non-Smoker, with very good hygiene.

Total discretion, honesty, and respect for boundaries are a must. Hit me up if you relate—tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Flying in tomorrow, the 16th and heading out on Sunday. I’d love to meet up, grab a drink and see where things go. Just a no-pressure situation where we can both just let go and have some fun for the night. Take a chance and DM, I promise I’m worth it.

Looking to meet anyone from 30-55, given I’m working with a dad-bod in progress I’d love someone in that range as well. No particular qualities other than a lust for fun and open mindedness.

Tall, fit, caucasian gentleman seeking a discreet encounter, or LT play with a mature woman that is smart and playful.

I prefer someone 30+ in age and fit.

Energetic with a passion for life, seeks fun people to meet and explore daytime or nighttime. I have refined tastes, charm, and an appreciation of other cultures developed through countless travels abroad.

I enjoy dancing, carousing, and laughter. Do you enjoy hiking in nature, good coffee, and/or crafted cocktails? Let’s do it.

Pics for Pics and you have an awesome day.

If you happen to visit Copenhagen, let me know! I'd love to show you around and grab a beer/wine. I can teach you some crazy danish words over a round of pool 😉

More about me:

-Caramel skin
-Tattoos
-Funny (the good kind)
-Copenhagen
-Discreet
-I don't really care about your sexual orientation. I care more about the vibe and chemistry ;)
-Bi

Hi!

I’ll be in Andalusia Friday through Monday. Seville first, then Jerez and Cádiz.

First time in this part of Spain, and I want to do it right: flamenco in Triana, or tapas hopping through the old town, a sherry bodega tour in Jerez, or maybe the beach (and surf) in Cádiz if the weather holds. All is fair game, let’s make the most out of our time together :)

Quick about me: blonde, blue-eyed, athletic build, I speak French, English, and some Spanish — enough to order sangria while we get lost in each other’s eyes (and my sheets?). Love spending time out in nature, meeting new people, traveling, art, sports.

I’ve had some good success on Reddit in the past — always a great time meeting up with like-minded Redditors who just click and get each other right from the start. I love building that anticipation too.
I’m looking for a local or a fellow traveler who’s down to show me around, share a meal, and make the trip better than it would be alone. I’m easygoing, curious, and happy to follow your lead on where to go and what to do, but more than happy to be in charge as well (I guess i’m a switch…)

Happy to share photos so we can make sure we click before meeting up.

If that sounds like your kind of trip, send me a message, would love to chat and figure out the rest together.

Wanting a little lighthearted fun? I am staying at a hotel in downtown Wilmington early next week and seriously craving a fun date (and more). About me: 5’10”, white, handsome and in great shape. I am flirty, witty, appreciate authentic connections, and more than anything, looking for a fun time. Please feel free to reach out if you’d like to grab drinks. I don’t have a type.

Married, 32, 6’1, tattooed, average/fit, and curious to see what kind of trouble Reddit might bring. 😂

I miss that spark. The flirting that starts innocently and becomes anything but. The cheeky messages, the anticipation, the physical chemistry and that feeling of knowing someone wants you just as much as you want them.

The kind of connection where you catch yourself smiling at your phone, looking forward to seeing each other and wondering what might happen when you do. 😏

I’m looking for a woman who’s confident, affectionate, playful and knows what she wants. Someone who enjoys the teasing and build-up, but also wants to turn that chemistry into something real. The intimacy, the excitement, the exploring and, most importantly, having fun together.

I’m not looking to change either of our situations or complicate our lives. We have our own worlds, and I’m not looking to disrupt them. I’m simply looking to fill that missing piece with some desire, excitement and a connection we can both genuinely enjoy.

Ideally, I’d love something ongoing. Not a one-off or endless conversations that never lead anywhere. Just two people with genuine attraction, mutual effort and enough chemistry to keep wanting to come back for more.

I’m attentive, affectionate, easygoing and enjoy making someone feel wanted. I appreciate good conversation, a cheeky sense of humour and a woman who can give as good as she gets.

Discretion, respect and clear boundaries are important. No pressure, no unnecessary complications, just seeing where the chemistry takes us.

Sydney preferred, although I regularly travel interstate.

If you’re missing that feeling of being wanted, desired and having someone you genuinely can’t wait to see again, perhaps we’re looking for the same thing. 😉

So, tell me, are you more trouble in person or over messages?

I've always believed that business trips are the best opportunities for a little extramarital exploration; there's free time in the evenings, no family or spousal responsibilities, a new city to explore, and a hotel room at the ready if things go well. I'll be in Taipei November 16-20, and I wonder if there are any locals or visitors who'd enjoy a little company, some flirting, and see what might happen from there? If that sounds like you, let's chat and find out.

My basic stats: I'm 47, white, 6'1", 190lbs, fit, educated, professional, married with kids, living in California, and have done this kind of things a handful of times before. There's a PG-rated body photo in my profile if you'd like to take a peek. Hope to hear from some like-minded travelers out there, and best of luck to everyone searching!

So I don't need an affair to complete my life. I'm reasonably content - good career and stable life . I have hobbies i enjoy, I have a good circle of friends and I've recently started exploring social meetups to broaden my circle, try new things, and connect with interesting people.

But a little chemistry, a little mischief, some delicious flirting, and someone who makes me grin at my phone like an idiot? Well, that might be worth making room for. 😏

I'm looking for a woman who's fun, confident, playful, independent and just curious enough to wonder what might happen if we crossed paths.

About Me

• 51 married , have a stable life and career. But craving the spark and chemistry that's absent.
• Tall ( 6.3’), dark. Full head of Salt-and-pepper hair, black eyes, clean-shaven, HWP
• Active daily to take care of my body and mind. got into pickleball recently, loving the exercise and community. do you play?
• lucky enough to have travelled quite bit (ask me what my latest destination was)
• Caring, kind, and chivalrous. I was raised to know how to treat a lady, and I haven't forgotten. 😉
• music : 80s + techno + ARR. Podcasts : mostly from NPR.

What I bring to the table:

• Good conversation, playful banter, and a healthy sense of humour.
• Discretion, maturity, and a genuine appreciation for the right woman.
• The kind of attention that makes you feel seen, wanted, and desired. Not just needed.
• Just hoping to find a connection that adds a little spark to two otherwise good lives.

You are probably

• Early 40s to mid-50s
• Married or partnered, so you understand the limits
• In Bay Area, or here often
• Smart, curious, and pretty clear on what you are looking for
• Interested in something ongoing, not a one-off

If you're thinking, "I probably don't need this either, but it does sound rather tempting..."

Well, look at that. We already have something in common 😉

Come say hello. Let's see if we can get that chemistry working before we worry about the other 0.5.

What's one little thing that can instantly make your day better?

Married dad looking for a fun discreet connection while I’m in town! Age gaps to the front of the line! Open to what the connection looks like, let’s see how we vibe and what comes next!

I have this idea…

What if we picked a race to run together? A 10K, a half marathon, or maybe even a full 26.2 if we’re feeling ambitious.

But the race is really just part of the story.
It starts with getting to know each other. Sharing our runs, motivating each other, celebrating the good days, and laughing about the tough ones.
Somewhere along the way, the conversations become about more than running.

Good morning messages, random moments from our days, playful teasing, flirting, and that little smile when a certain name pops up on your phone. Maybe eventually voice notes, pictures, and conversations neither of us wants to end.

And then comes race weekend.We pick a fun destination, make our plans, and finally meet. Dinner the night before, a little nervous excitement, some flirting across the table, and hopefully discovering the chemistry is even better in person.

The next morning, we lace up and run our race. We don’t have to be the same pace or even run the same distance. Afterward, we celebrate, enjoy some good food, relax, and see where the rest of the weekend takes us. Maybe the best part isn’t the finish line.

A little about me: I’m 6’0”, blue eyes, light brown hair, athletic build, and short stubble. I run, lift, stay active, and enjoy good food, great conversation, sarcasm, and a little playful flirting.
I’m married and not looking to change my situation or yours. I’m looking for a genuine connection that brings some excitement, anticipation, laughter, and chemistry into everyday life.

Physical attraction matters, but so do personality, humor, consistency, and someone who can keep a conversation going. I’d love to find a woman who enjoys staying active, isn’t afraid to flirt back, and likes the idea of building something fun together.

Maybe we start by sharing our next run and end up counting down the days until we’re in the same city.

So… are we running a 10K, 13.1, or 26.2?