I was rewatching some of the earlier seasons and realized how much Francescaâs speech after Johnâs death echoes things weâve already heard from other Bridgerton characters.
First, Simonâs speech to the Queen when he asks her to allow him and Daphne to marry without waiting for the banns:
«âBut in so removing it, we found something far greater. We found friendship. [...] But with Daphne, Miss Bridgerton, conversation has always been easy. Her laughter brings me joy. To meet a beautiful woman is one thing, but to meet your best friend in the most beautiful of women is something entirely apart. And it is with my sincerest apologies I must say it took the prince coming along for me to realize I did not want Miss Bridgerton to only be my friend. I wanted her to be my wife. I want her to be my wife.â»
And then Francesca, after Johnâs death:
«âIt is quite something to spend your entire life feeling like you are somehow out of place. And then to meet someone who understands you before you even say a word. Someone whose singular qualities match your own, whose kindness makes you feel warm. Who can read your mind from across a whole room. John was more than my husband. He was my truest friend.â»
I think the parallel is really interesting because both of them describe their spouse as someone who became their best/truest friend. Simon talks about how easy conversation is with Daphne, while Francesca describes someone who understands her without her even having to speak.
And I actually think Francesca takes that idea even further. Simon says that finding his best friend in Daphne made him realize he wanted her as his wife. Francesca says that John was not just her husband he was her âtruest friend.â
It also fits Francesca particularly well because her relationship with John is so heavily defined by understanding, quietness, and being able to exist together without having to perform or explain themselves.
But thereâs another parallel that I find even more interesting.
When Anthony tells Violet that he doesnât want to risk falling in love because heâs afraid of experiencing the heartbreak she went through with Edmund, Violet tells him:
«âLosing Edmund was the most difficult time of my life. I would still choose the life I had with him each and every time and I would undoubtedly feel the same pain I felt all over again if I had to. Because real true love is worth it.â»
And after Johnâs death, Francesca essentially expresses the exact same sentiment:
«âAnd I may ache at present... but, the good John brought into my life, that bond, that understanding, love far outweighs any pain I feel right now. I would not change it. For anything. To my husband.â»
This one really gets me because Violetâs point to Anthony is basically âthe fact that love can end in unbearable pain does not make the love itself not worth having.â
And Francesca, after actually experiencing that loss herself, reaches the exact same conclusion.
Violet: I know how painful losing him was, and I would still choose that life again.
Francesca: I know how painful losing John is, and I would not change what we had for anything.
So in a way, Francescaâs speech feels like the continuation of Violetâs philosophy of love. Violet tells Anthony that she would willingly experience the heartbreak again if it meant getting the life she had with Edmund. Francesca tells us that even though she is aching from losing John, the bond, understanding and love he brought into her life outweigh the pain.
And I really love that the show gives Francesca her own version of this idea rather than making her love story look like Violet and Edmundâs.
It's a different kind of love. Same belief that it was worth it.
I just think it's a really beautiful bit of thematic continuity in the show.