Hi! So i recently started dating someone and we quickly figured we’re both into some stuff. Now, the problem is I don’t know how to teach him or bring up the part where i want a 24/7 dynamic. Doesn’t even have to be like full on d/s but I’m a brat and i would love to get a punishment. When he spanks me as soon as i say I’ll stop being a brat he stops spaking me. I want a punishment. I WANT to be scared of him, just a warning and i should be scared but in a good way yk? And idk how to bring it up or even explain it..

My Mrs has taken to weekly maintenance spankings and I don’t think that is fair! I can be good good good, then her phone reminder goes off and I’m bent over and reminded of my place with a cane. Like bruised butt reminded.😭

She says it’s what I need. I say it’s credit and I should get a “get out of jail free card”

I need a brat council ruling!

Fellow brats… I’ve been thinking… when I’ve had daddy dom’s in the past… I realize that my bratty behavior was usually a result of daddy ignoring me… or being mean to me… or trying to beat me in a video game that I was clearly better at 😋 and all I was doing was speaking my truth when I told daddy that he needs to pay more attention to his babygirl… and he needs to be a “good boy” and stop being so mean… and he sucks at video games 😋 and boy did I get punished good 🤤

But the punishment made me happy… because daddy gave me all his time and attention and made sure that i was taken care of properly… and other times daddy was so sweet and gave me exactly what I asked for 🥺 so is that the most bratty secret ever??

Are we only bratty because daddy didn’t listen to us? And once daddy started listening to babygirl that’s when the brat transforms into a good girl? 🤔 hmmm maybe it’s just me but it’s hard to be bratty when daddy is giving me all the attention because it’s overwhelming how sweet and kind he is 🥺

My \[ever so gentlest\] dom is requiring me to utilize my ability to think.

My brain says, ’pero like what do I want?!’

I genuinely feel like i need a reference sheet for this because idk where to begin and when i do begin …It seems like the bar is on the floor? lol
Basic human decency, care and protection as a woman in this world shouldn’t be the only things on the list but they are the first to come to mind.

I see him as a really good human being. For this reason, I expect him to be himself. He can be an asshole at times, but so can I. And we both know that about each other. But we’ve spent so much time in therapy that I genuinely believe we know how to talk to each other through it or take a break until we’re able to gather the words. I expect from him all the things that got us to this point in the relationship - the mutual doting, surprises of favorite movies, snacks, dates, adventure, or the occasional safe thrill. Maybe sometimes more? I’m a woman with expensive taste and a fire moon, after all. I need spontaneity, but he’s never failed or lacked in that arena. Rarely will I require or desire less. Maybe, who knows? I let my own priorities slip on occasion ..

I expect him to show up. When we first dated, we spent our mornings + evenings together. If he doesn’t have the energy to continue something or uphold a standard that was set, I don’t expect him to bend over backwards for me (maybe ;)) but I do want him to feel comfortable to have the talk. I do expect him to be careful with me. I expect him to take his \[quality\] time with me. Recently he was at work and paused just to deliver me flowers AND chocolate and it was really nice. He stood there while I ate it (._.)
Things like that I could get used to and occasionally expect but he should know it wouldn’t be an all day/everyday requirement. I expect monogamy. I expect for him not to entertain others, this includes flirting and especially sexual activities and play. If we’re in a relationship, the things you do for me - shouldn’t be done for anyone else. . I have a famous quote framed that says, if you do for me what you do for everyone - what do we have left for us?’

I expect communication and encouragement. He’s damn near a drill sergeant at work, and sometimes I genuinely need that. I realize that that’s my own work, but a little acceptance and encouragement from ya man-dom never goes bad. I expect accountability and hope it’s a bond we can share reciprocally between each other. I expect him to be present, especially mentally and spiritually, and especially when we’re spending time. Hence \[quality\]. And I want him here physically when he can be. I expect depth. I expect reciprocity and for him to let me know when he’s not full \[metaphorically speaking\].

I expect evaluations often, because relationships are a two way street and I have ADHD. I might be in the woods by the time I realize I’m slipping…
If there are things he or I need to get off of our chest, things we’d like to see one another commit to or improve on \[individually or as a couple\], the evaluation space would be when that should occur.

I’m sure other doms require this. I’m a newbie, how often should we do evals? Am I reaching as a sub? Will remove if not allowed.

Male, tamer here. I've been with my brat for 11 years now, so keep in mind we're talking about a long term relationship.

We have a pretty healthy dynamic. Many interesting rituals, the balance between her brattiness and her well behaved persona is great. Our dynamic is mostly TPE and we both grew as individuals quite a lot due to that. I do have difficulties after we have a real fight tho.

The way I see it, having me as her tamer is a privilege, and to be fair so it is for me having her as my brat. I care for her and foment her personal growth. After we have a fight where she's unreasonable beyond being a brat I find it hard to get back to the dom space. My reaction is to want to be isolated for a day or so.

Any tamers experiencing the same? Or, if you are a brat, how does it affect you when you guys get into a real fight, how does the aftermath work?

Holy shit faeries, it’s been a whole MONTH since we’ve last talked 😭 probably longer in other subs. I’ve missed you guys! Definitely an appreciation post today! :)

Daddy & I’s one year anniversary is coming up this Thursday, 10/15!!! All the snapchat memories of when we first met are coming up, it’s so emotional 🥹🥹 I cannot believe it’s been 1 fucking year y’all!!

**ONE YEAR WITH THE LOVE OF MY FUCKING LIFE!!!**

**ONE YEAR WITH THE BEST DADDY IN THE ENTIRE WORLD!!!**

This man means everything to me. I didn’t know it was possible to find someone so perfect as young as I am. Someone so perfect for me. I didn’t think it was possible for me to even be in a healthy relationship, I almost accepted the fact that people are just shitty, especially in relationships. A hopeless romantic thinking real romance and love exists only in books. I am so lucky that he proved me wrong. Daddy is an amazing man, partner, parent, brother, cousin, friend. He is such an inspiration when it comes to… everything. He is so smart, so creative, so PATIENT. He pushes me to want to be better every, single, day. He’s the loudest one in my corner and he motivates me constantly. He never lets me forget who I am. Sometimes my brain tries to convince me I don’t deserve him, but i *KNOW* I do.

I hope everyone gets to experience what we have. & do not get me wrong, we are not a perfect couple. We are constantly learning and growing. But everyone deserves to be loved, cared for, seen, heard, adored, appreciated, just like Daddy does for me. It breaks my heart to see some of your stories about your Doms and how they don’t respect your mental health, boundaries, autonomy, sense of self, etc. Nobody deserves that (unless youre just a horrible person, karma is real people).

All my past partners were abusive, my father was abusive, I didn’t have great examples of healthy relationships growing up; I am living proof that you will find the person for you. You do NOT have to settle. Continue to be better and do better. Not for other people, but for yourself. I believe in every single one of you.

To celebrate Daddy and I are going out for drinks, then a luxury theater. We miiiight do something during the day, it’s just not planned yet! I do have to get the last of his gifts the day of too! I would say what it is in here, but I know he looks at my posts sometimes. Soooo def gotta be quiet on the creek.

IM GONNA ASK HIM TO PEE ON ME AGAIN 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛 we’ve been quite busy lately and i miss subspace 😩

I hope everyone is doing so fucking well.

- JC 🧚🏾‍♀️🌟🥰

So a 1-2 months ago sir put me on an orgasm ban so for 3 weeks straight it was all edging and no cumming. Anyway ban was lifted and fast forward to tonight. Since I saw Sir yesterday been horny as hell yes he did make me cum but needy slut apparently…

So tonight I was like why not get one of my dildos out and fuck myself…

PLEASE TELL ME WHY

No matter what I couldn’t cum. Sir has fucked with my brain that much I couldn’t cum from fucking myself it was like a block. Yet yesterday it was easy enough for me to hump his leg and cum 🙄🙄

So now I’m annoyed by the realisation I can’t cum without him. Horny and frustrated and won’t be seeing sir until Friday 😫😫😫

So last night I was chatting with my Daddy, sending him little video snippets of me casually rubbing (allowed) while we chatted, when I sent him a video of me actually fingering myself (just for, like, a second!!) which is NOT ALLOWED. And I texted “oops, I slipped.”

This was clearly unacceptable behavior. He got me to admit that I was simply seeking attention, so he gave me the task of writing “good girls use their words. brats act out” 30 times… in 5 minutes. If that sounds impossible, it’s because it was. Which was 100% the point.

I only got through 22 lines in the allotted time - 8 short. So then I owed him 8 1-minute videos of me naked and kneeling, holding the paper I’d written my lines on against the wall with just the tip of my nose. And if I failed a try, the next video had to be 2 minutes long.

But the issue is, punishment makes me so GD aroused. I was dripping when I was writing the lines. And by the time I got in position to hold the paper to the wall, it was taking everything in me not to rub, which would have made my task nearly impossible and also was not really in line with the spirit of the punishment.

But I couldn’t help writhing ever so slightly, brushing my clit back and forth on my comforter. I only fully failed once, but I got close many times, and afterwards I was an absolute dripping MESS - and I couldn’t do a thing about it!

I sent the videos to my Daddy, he is very proud of me for how well I took my punishment.

But goodness knows when he’ll let me cum again…

Let's add some fun. I was just wondering if a song were still used as a way to show how people are feeling or if it is just a thing of the past

Okay so my Domme has turned me into a bit of a spoiled princess. I am rarely denied and even if I am a few bats of my pretty eyelashes and she caves right in and I get the orgasm that I want.

So yesterday we were hanging out and I was getting so horny. And being the whiny bratty whore that I am, I wind that I was horny, but instead of fixing it, my dom just laughed at me and said what did that I want them to do about it.

Well, obviously, I wanted to be touched and fucked so I could have an orgasm so what kindly said as much well maybe demand is probably the better word but who can complain me I’m a spoiled Princess. It’s not my fault and I told her as much said it’s not my fault that I’m spoiled.

And she told me that it was cause I’m just such a pretty little whore for her which of course made my pussy needy.

So I reached my hand down to touch my needy clit and my owner grabbed my hand so of course I tried my other one because I was gonna have an orgasm. I wanted one and I get what I want and they grabbed my other hand telling me that I was gonna stay horny.

So I whined at them and kindly asked , well demanded to be touched and my Domme was so kind and started to rub my clit. Making me more and more horny so I got closer and closer to the orgasm that I have been craving all morning only to get me right to the edge and stop. I was so pissed and horny trying so hard to touch my needy Cunt, but she told me it was time to get ready for work.

So I went to my vanity and started doing my make up, but I was whining about how horny I was so my Domme came over and started to touch me as I did my make up. But every time I stopped focusing on making myself a pretty whore for her or got caught up in the pleasure she would stop. Telling me I needed to focus my bimbo self and finish my make up.

I finally finished and was given a single orgasm which was cruel. I am a princess I need more than one orgasm but no I was sent to get dressed and go to work and just be horny.

When I came home I decided to touch myself after all I was so horny. I found myself on Reddit scrolling and interacting with posts becoming more and more aroused in right before I was able to tip. My brain was like nope you don’t have permission and stopped.

So I tried again because I can do whatever I want obviously if I want an orgasm, I get an orgasm, but the same thing happened. I got to the edge and my hand just fell away.

I tried a third time and I even started begging . Please please please don’t stop don’t stop don’t stop and still. I heard my owner’s voice in my head saying you’re not allowed to come.

I’m being punished for trying to be a brat without my dog actually doing anything. Might just share with all other brats.

Any other brats here absolutely love being naughty lil puppies? I feel that the pup x Owner dynamic meshes incredibly well with bratting, considering all the new ways to rebel (eg:stealing treats, bothering owner for headpats and scritches) as well as a fun taming dynamic (getting put in a cage for a while would be soooooooo hot). Not to mention the Owners have a new wide array of terms (endearing or otherwise ;) ) to call me until my brain goes mushy (eg, pup, puppygirl, my lovely pet, stupid flea-bitten motherfucker, dumb fucking mutt). But my absolute favorite part about being a pup is the license to be dumb :) Puppies don't think or speak, they just act on impulse. If you wanna be a lil shit, do that! If you wanna be good, do that! If you wanna get on all fours, wave your bare ass in the air, and tease Owner until they just snap, grab your hips and breed you like the bitch in heat that you are? Do that >:D It's the beeeeessst. So, fellow bratty pups, what is your favorite part the petplay dynamic, and what's your favorite thing/story about what you do/your Owner does to you? I'd love to hear and get inspo :D

Okay so I was being a bit of a bitch (obviously) and made a lot of age jokes about Daddy. There is a bit of an age gap, so naturally it was totally justified. But now he revoked all funishment from our next session, (which is practically the worst punishment for me) until I make it up to him. He told me to think of something and use my big girl brain, so I basically see two options here: Genuinely think of something to make it up to him, or annoy him so much that he can't resist punishing me. Pro-brats on here, what do you think? How do you make it up to your Dom? He's a bit on the softer side and loves when I push back, but keeps the reigns firm when he thinks I'm doing too much.

Edit: Okay, I prepared a two-page apology letter in the style of a politician at a press conference that I'll read to him in complete seriousness. Except it's more of an apologist letter. If he catches it, he'll surely be angry enough to just funish me again, if he doesn't, he'll hopefully forgive me?? But perhaps I'm digging my grave here lol. In case he catches it, I prepared contingencies I hope he'll like, mostly things I never do without whining.

Doms need aftercare too!! Just as we need reassurance and love and care, they need is just as much!! Thank you to the good doms out there. Special thank you to my daddy specifically ♡

My brat broke the agreed-upon rule of filling up the gas tank when the low fuel light came on. I was home all day and when i got in the vehicle and drove a few miles I noticed the "miles to empty" warning didn't decrease, I knew something was up. She also told me the warning light came on as soon as I got in to drive us somewhere. Needless to say, after a solid funishment session involving three toys tormenting her simultaneously and making her edge til she begged, she quickly regretted her actions and negotiated that she would tell me what really happened once she was allowed to cum. 😈

Im not talking about the usual daddy or babygirl. im talking about the weirder ones that are used. For example, I was called a werewolf but my last brat and wondered if it was just me or if it happens all the time.

My fellow brats, I’m absolutely elated! I’ve found such a wonderful dom to my bratty self. He lives far away so we’re being cool and casual but I can’t wait to get beat by him again 🥰

Don’t worry, I’m bratting pretty hard over the phone and reveling in the fact that he can’t put his hands on me whenever I get out of line. But now he’s started counting. Every infraction gets me 5 hits and I’m up to 70 already in two weeks and I won’t see him for another four weeks 😭

Please pray for me to have the strength to brat inside the lines a little and for my poor ass in 4 weeks when I’m being completely destroyed

This was long ago lol but I wanted to share since I saw lotsa lines posts🤭 the first one was the bratting attempt but I did them properly like an angel after.......🤭 made it so cute too XD with all the lil emojis hehe. What do yall think?

Hi everyone!

I made a post a few weeks ago about my dynamic with Daddy. I explained we were going to meet for the first time at the end of September and that he was going to collar me 🥰 (obviously i consent to everything i'm about to explain, we had time to talk about our limits / boundaries)

Some of you asked for an update, so here we are ☺️

It was amazing. I gave him some very bratty attitudes and i paid for it 🤭 Spanks, throatfuck, and a lot of... edging. Daddy is a pleasure Dom so it was a lot, A LOT, of edging...

And he put my collar on me, i felt so fucking amazing.

That's a very cute green leather collar with a gold chain where it's written "Babygirl" outside and "Cumslut" inside.

It made me feel so amazing, even more when i saw that daddy was also enjoying seeing me in my collar ☺️

I confessed to my owner I have a personal rule that I can’t finish more than once a day, so ofc he took that as a challenge. Unfortunately I’m incapable of resisting him and I folded right away. He made me write lines to remind me how miserably I failed. How do you resist submitting?? I know I’ll always end up giving in, but I want to at least be able to put up a little bit of a fight before that. Pls share advice🤫

Messed with the rules in our shared discord server, and she wants me to write 25!! I can barely pay attention to write 10!