r/BoyDinnerDiaries • [Femboy(ish)] • Jul 26 '26

Mod post A reminder

We are keeping this a positive helpful space.
What does this mean? It means critiques and comments that are not immediately positive in nature are things YOU, the poster/commenter must view in the light of this: is it helpful? does it fit the situation? is this some tough love and if so who are you to give it? if you are being adversarial or confrontation just because, just keep it pushing. If not, we will mod the comment, you will receive a deletion/mute/ban or whatever else we feel appropriate.

Refamiliarize yourselves with our rules.

For Girl lurkers, this is a male positive centric space. critiques and supportive comments are welcome, HOWEVER, keep in mind you are a guest, our tolerance here for rude, adversarial and needlessly argumentative comments is effectively zero.

For the recent posts concerning LGBT, read rule 7. We do not tolerate transphobia, we do not tolerate homophobia, we are not that space. If you are transphobic or homophobic, it is a violation of several rules and will likely result in a ban.

Thank you to the literal thousands of commenters who are contributing helpful, insightful and otherwise positive comments, we appreciate your presence.

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u/Dragonking444 Big guy, bigger regrets 18d ago

I have a legitimate question why would transphobia even be a thing to worry about in the sub that's supposed to be full of dudes seeking advice sharing stories and venting? like if this is a transub you know that goes without saying but I just find it confusing that there's a lot of posts in here from trans men talking about issues that are specifically trans issues in a sub that's supposed to be for dudes talking about their issues when is an entire sub dedicated to trans people to talk about their issues I'm just a little confused.

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u/Prize-Lychee7973 [Femboy(ish)] 18d ago

you already know why. dont play dumb.

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u/Dragonking444 Big guy, bigger regrets 18d ago

I'm not Playing dumb nor am I being dumb like that's a legitimate question I'm genuinely confused

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u/Prize-Lychee7973 [Femboy(ish)] 18d ago

2+2 do be equalling 4.

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u/Dragonking444 Big guy, bigger regrets 18d ago

You're not really answering my question

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u/Xeta24 Air Fryer Aristocrat 18d ago

Because trans men are just another type of man. I shouldn't have to go to r/blackboydinnerdiaries to make a post, so neither should trans men.

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u/Dragonking444 Big guy, bigger regrets 18d ago

That..is..not..the..same..comparing race to what somebody calls themselves is not the same...like at all

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u/Xeta24 Air Fryer Aristocrat 18d ago

It's the same over here, I think the mod is going to tell you to either get with the program or get lost.