r/bigdicklovers • • Sep 01 '21

Everyone please read! NSFW

140 Upvotes

Everyone please read:

First off we are growing every day! You guys are a great community, let's keep getting laid in those times of uncertainty!

Actual subreddit rules have been around for a while yet, everyday we have people reaching us wondering why they get banned in modmail... Our rules and this pinned are warnings, we do permaban rule breakers with no appeal...

Wether you are new or old user of this sub please read and understand our rules! Those can evolve, we can catch something we didn't earlier in your posts after someone reported the last one, and you can end up banned when you weren't for the same thing before cause we missed it. Using anything else than our source of truth which is only accessible in the browser version of: www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers isn't an excuse at all (old.reddit.com and reddit offical apps are not our source of truth, we will try to keep those updated if we have time but don't give a single fuck of you getting banned for not reading the version we just told you to read!Use that argument and you'll loose any chance of being unbanned!)

Posts are automatically locked, contact posters via the pms or chats. If you get an automod comment saying your post have been removed, it tells you everything you need to fix it, don't message modmail unless your history shows a post respecting perfectly the formatting mentionned in automod's comment. We won't answer people complaining they can't post here but deleting their failed posts, we need those to analyse a potential issue.

The rules below are just a reminder; we will edit the rules without touching to this pinned and won't warn you! Signing in on Reddit you accepted rule 2: making sure you'd respect the rules of any sub anytime, in our case the official rules menu from www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers and no other version.

Discord

This place has it's own discord server. It's as moderated as the subbreddit so read the rules and behave. We do ban people for joining and not saying hello...

Rules:

  1. All posters and seekers must be 18+!

Everyone must be an adult of the age of 18+. If there is doubt, you will be asked for some sort of verification. IF you find out someone is under age, PLEASE report the post & contact the mod team with their username and any proof you have! We want everyone to be safe in all their endeavors!

  1. Post Formatting!

All posts must be in this format in this specific order, otherwise the Automod will remove it automatically: Age [x4x] #City - Title. Respect this exact spacing and punctuation! If you only want to talk online; #kik #Online is acceptable, just know we can remove posts mentioning it at our discretion without warning you. You can include multiple #locations. Example Title: 29 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a Woman. Example Title: 36 [F4M] #Online #Snap - Busty MILF for Young studs.

  1. Couples Posting! ~Success Story Posting~

See rule #2 for posting format. For couples both your ages must be included! Post as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F. Automod will only accept one number. Posts not following this rule will be removed. Example Title: 2934 [FM4M] #DFW - Couple seeks third.

  1. MAKE ONLY ONE POST A WEEK

Please refrain from making multiple posts in a week, wait until your latest post is at least 7 days before reposting. If you post you will recieve a 7 days warning ban and all your posts will be removed. Infringing it a second time will result in a permanent ban! ADDITIONALLY IF you are found to be posting multiple times in a week by deleting your post and reposting, or using several accounts we'll permaban without warning!

  1. NO Trolling, pic farming, sellers, dickfishing, or catfishing.

All of the above are grounds for being banned. IF you see something report the post & message the mods include proof if you can!

  1. BE RESPECTFUL!

ANYONE receiving harassing messages for any reason let the mod team know, proof is mandatory! There is a zero tolerance policy on harassment. A girl tells you she isn't interested, don't press your luck and call her a cunt! A guy doesn't want to continue talking, stop messaging him.

  1. When responding please read the post!

THE POSTERS EXPECT YOU TO MATCH WHAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO! If it has a location and you are not there, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is a [M4F] and you are a male, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain age and you are not within their age window, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain dick size and you are smaller, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a specific race and you are not that, DON'T MESSAGE. Having issues with anyone about this? Inform the mod team.

  1. We permaban side accounts of catfishes, spammers and everyone caught trying to use two.

  2. Rule9: Back your claims with proof! Our lovers as everyone compare numbers given to them against averages. Every other method than the one used to obtain averages is just an attempt to fool people. Size claims from unverified people means ban and deleted posts photographies (in r/yourself or a dedicated sub)aren't considered as proof . We do offer one and only verification process :Valid pics are taken from your point of view showing a stainless ruler's edge centererd against the middle of your penis touching both base and tip no bending no straightening. The whole length of at least one edge must be readable. You must be standing, the pic must include your username, subreddit, date and size: handwritten, on paper or your body. Don't own a stainless ruler? Just refrain claiming anything! Applies to pics too

Recommandations

18+ ONLY for providers and seekers! Please play responsibly. For information on safe sex, you can visit /r/sex and /r/SaferSex

~

If you only want to see big dicks and/or display your big dick you might be better suited at a related subreddit such as /r/MassiveCock or /r/MonsterCock. We'll delete online posts with no warning if we see it fit.

This place is a hookup subreddit, for the people who love folks with big dicks, not a place to claim you have a big one. If you think you have a big one, always keep in mind that you are welcomed here as guests but our core is and will remain about lovers. We have no requirement on what is a "big dick." If you feel it, post it. Just don't claim anything you can't prove by our lovers standards (Rule9) or we'll ban you with no warning...

This is NOT a place for dick ratings, showing off pics, "Do I fit here/Am I big enough/Is this Big" posts or anything SPH related. Big dick holders are expected to behave, we care for our lovers, not the random guy claiming having a big one!

~ All posts must be in this format in this specific order, and you must respect the spaces and punctuation! This place refuses non reddit search compatible posts for users, our Automod removes automatically posts not matching this precise and exact format: Age [x4x] #City - Title. (x4x: M4F, F4M FM4MF, T4F...) #kik #Online is barely acceptable, we tolerate those but will delete some with no warning, don't reach the mod if a post mentioning virtual fun has been deleted this sub is focusted on hookups.

Couples, put both your ages as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F.

Only one post a week is allowed.

Give us good information and a nice description of yourself and your sexual proclivities. Less than 30 words posts aren't allowed, and low-effort vague ones will get removed without warning nor explanation. We of course will delete any posts giving an opinion one one of our rules or the way this place is moderated.

DO NOT put a picture of your face in the post or other personal information, this is Reddit! Keep it for PMs please!

~

If your post gets buried and you want to submit a new one, don't! Unless your previous is older than 7+1 days, or we'd consider you as a spammer and ban you for that!

People who break any of our rules will be banned, we don't issue any form of warning don't expect any!

~

Be respectful. We will not tolerate gendered slurs, body shaming, or intolerance. This is an LGBTQA* (and so on) safe space. Please report any rude redditors.

PLEASE MESSAGE THE MODS IF YOU REPORT A POST!

Never DM or chat a mod that will be dealt with like harassment and reported to reddit! Most of the mod actions here are automated, we have no clue of who you are or what you did and can't access it unless we do have a modmail!

Related subreddits:

/r/bigdickproblems /r/MassiveCock /r/Monstercock /r/Photoshopdick /r/LGBTGoneWild


r/bigdicklovers • • Feb 08 '26

Dark Patterns Panorama NSFW

15 Upvotes

Moderation insights because some of you are getting on my nerves(annual overview). Let's ruin their wanking time with a reality check!

Before getting into numbers, one thing needs to be made crystal clear. Modération is not about shielding you from what you don't want to see, but about shielding everyone against what may harm someone, for real!

Right now, our primary concern is a 12-year-old girl actively self-harming with razor blades who surfaces and disappears through the subreddit. That is where our attention, time, and emotional bandwidth are going.

In that context, the four obvious F4M scam accounts (the kind that anyone with two functioning neurons can identify) are not our focus. Those marginal scams are routinely flagged by long-standing community members who already know the drill, perform the necessary checks, and help get them removed. Thank you to those doing it!

This is not negligence. It is prioritisation.

Especially in a context where Reddit:

  • enforces monthly API limits lower than our hourly post volume, and
  • has systematically dismantled moderation tools designed to fight automated and AI-driven abuse,

we choose our battles.

Our limited, volunteer time is deliberately spent on reprehensible and unethical content, not on shielding the occasional careless adult from falling for painfully obvious bait. Our focus does not only involve removing posts and banning users, sometimes it's a long chain of reports taking us a tremendous amount of time.

With that said, here is the panorama. You can find one of a swinger french sub on my profile to compare what I see there.


Content Removal Breakdown

1. “Cougar” profiles seeking underage partners — 18%

Still the single largest category.

Often wrapped in flirtatious or “empowering” language, these posts target minors explicitly or implicitly, sometimes framed as mentorship or initiation. Regardless of presentation, the substance is clear: illegal and predatory behavior.

Immediate removal. Zero tolerance.


2. Adults seeking pictures of underage males — 17%

A distinct and extremely serious category.

These posts focus on image acquisition, not relationships: requests for photos, “progress pics,” body development, or “curiosity.” This is grooming behavior, not fantasy.

Immediate removal and escalation where applicable.


3. Refusal to follow rules / repetitive posting abuse — 14%

Structurally disruptive behavior.

Includes:

  • multiple posts per day,
  • reposting after removals,
  • ignoring consent and formatting rules,
  • marginal but recurring refusal to comply with size verification requirements.

Low ethical weight, individually banal. Collectively corrosive. This behavior consumes disproportionate moderation time while adding no value to the community.


4. Paid encounters & transactional searches (incl. colocation bait) — 13%

This category has evolved.

While classic “pay for sex” solicitations remain present, there has been a clear explosion of disguised arrangements, including:

“roommate” or “co-living” offers,

financial support framed as lifestyle sharing,

ambiguous housing propositions with sexual subtext.

These are still transactional relationships — just rebranded.


5. Minors actively seeking adult partners — 8%

A consistently alarming category.

Motivations vary (curiosity, distress, provocation), but the risk does not. An adult-oriented space must not function as an exposure vector for minors.

Zero tolerance.


6. Non-consensual sex requests & rape fantasies — 7%

Low in volume, maximal in severity.

Includes:

  • explicit coercion,
  • fantasies negating consent,
  • “surprise,” “forced,” or domination without negotiation.
  • and of course "my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" surprises...

Removed immediately. Big dicks does not override consent.


7. Severe psychological distress & self-harm expressions — 6%

Posts involving:

  • active self-harm,
  • suicidal ideation,
  • emotional collapse exposed to the public feed.

Handled as human emergencies, not moderation nuisances. With kids it's our number one priority, and most times the most time consuming ones.


8. Picture collectors (consent-agnostic image harvesting) — 3%

Users primarily interested in accumulating sexual images, often:

  • pushing others to DM photos,
  • fishing for explicit content without reciprocity,
  • skirting consent boundaries.

Not always illegal, but corrosive to trust and safety.


9. Scams & commercial noise (aggregated) — 2%

Includes:

  • romance scammers,
  • OnlyFans promotion,
  • Telegram / external group funnels,
  • obvious F4M bait accounts.

Deliberately deprioritized and largely handled through community flagging.


10. Genital-size fixation & measurement spam — 5%

Posts reduced to:

  • penis size declarations,
  • measurement obsession,
  • validation fishing with no relational intent.
  • my personal favorite is those with gibberish to pass the word counter..

Low harm, high noise.


11. Miscellaneous residuals (duplicates, edge cases, spillover) — 7%

Everything that doesn’t cluster cleanly:

  • duplicates,
  • borderline cases,
  • misfires caught early.

* gibberish

What this panorama actually shows

  • The most serious issues are not the loud, obvious scams we all learnt to deal with decades ago.
  • The real moderation load comes from:

    • predation,
    • exploitation,
    • blurred consent,
    • and untreated psychological distress.
  • Community self-regulation already handles low-effort scams efficiently.

  • Volunteer moderators cannot—and should not—be expected to compensate for:

    • reduced tooling,
    • hostile platform constraints,
    • poor platform tools to deal with most of those cases
    • and industrial-scale abuse with hobby-level resources.

Moderation is not about keeping people perfectly safe from their own gullibility. It is about drawing hard ethical lines and standing where harm is real, immediate, and irreversible.

And yes: we will always spend more energy protecting a child in danger than protecting three adults from clicking on a stupid link.

Comments are opened if you wanna chat!

Kisses!

Your head mod!


r/bigdicklovers • • 22m ago

Male for Female 70 [M4F] #IrvineCA - Visiting for a week, Take advantage of me while you can. NSFW

• Upvotes

I am 70, in great shape with an athletic body and a BWC. I would love to meet and enjoy some time together with a F that has would love an experience with an older experienced man with a BWC. You be 18+ single, married, BF, GF, discrete, open, bring your BF/GF/Hubby we can play together or individually, I am straight so you get all my attention. I can travel to you and discretion is a given. I am chill, educated, fit, energetic, filled with experience to take it at your speed to make sure you are 100% satisfied. If you have not been with an older man with a long thick shaft such as myself, you don't know what you are missing. Take care, let's talk.


r/bigdicklovers • • 9h ago

38 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - Insatiable Filipina Nurse Seeking a Confident, Dominant Man NSFW

3 Upvotes

​

38, Filipina, feminine, confident, and a little more adventurous than I may initially appear.

I’m a nurse by profession, but outside of work I’m drawn to a different kind of energy—the kind of man who is calm, confident, intentional, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m looking for a masculine, dominant man who understands that true confidence doesn’t need to be loud. Someone who can hold a conversation, make me laugh, make me feel feminine, and create that delicious tension where neither of us has to wonder if the attraction is mutual.

I appreciate a man who knows what he wants but still values respect, communication, discretion, and genuine connection. Chemistry matters to me. So does the feeling of being completely comfortable around someone while still having that little spark of anticipation whenever he walks into the room.

I’m sweet, affectionate, playful, and very comfortable embracing my sensual side with the right person. I’m not interested in rushing into anything—I’d rather discover the connection naturally and see where the chemistry takes us.

San Francisco preferred. Mature, confident, respectful men only.

If you’re the kind of man who can lead without controlling, flirt without trying too hard, and make a woman feel both safe and desired, perhaps we should get acquainted.

Tell me a little about yourself—and what makes you think we’d have chemistry. ✨


r/bigdicklovers • • 11h ago

Male for Female 36 [M4F] #Manhattan - visiting BWC - Random Acts of Amazing Handjob? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Going to be in town this weekend and I’m craving a slow, drawn out, expert-level cock massage worship session that leaves me feeling like a king.

Sometimes jumping into with a stranger just feels like a lot, and I’m sure your BJ technique is amazing, but for me, there’s nothing as relaxing, sensual and stress-free as a skilled stroking with hot massage oil. Plus, we can chat, make eye contact, and I can admire more of you than if your head was buried in my lap.

This is pretty open-ended, so I’m just looking to connect with someone who is into the general idea and take it from there… More than happy to return the favor, whether that is on your lady bits specifically or a general body massage.

Plenty of photos on my page, staying in Midtown Manhattan from Thursday to Sunday afternoon. If this interests you, let’s chat and see if we align!


r/bigdicklovers • • 16h ago

34 [M4F] #Online #San Francisco - Anyone into deep-voiced, tall and hung Asian guys? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Here's my profile:

  • Well travelled (41 countries so far, ask for any recs)
  • Foodie (always down to try eating anything)
  • I work in tech (Software engineer)
  • Former tennis player now getting into pickleball (I know I'm a little late on this lol)
  • I've got a deep voice and love sending audio messages
  • I have a Lovense Max 2 if you're interested
  • I've been told I have a way with words when sexting lol
  • Height: 6' 1"
  • Dick: 7"
  • Body: Slim-fit

I'm looking for someone to have some random chats with and occasionally get off together with.

Reach out if I sound like your kind of guy!

If you message me, please let me know your asl.


r/bigdicklovers • • 13h ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #Boston #Providence - Nerdy, Shy, and Honest Guy Seeking Connection and Growth Well-Endowed NSFW

1 Upvotes

I ’ll try to keep this short, but I’m happy to open up more if you’re curious.

I’m 37, 5’8”, around 175lbs, and live between Boston and Providence. I’m your typical nerd—into conventions, gaming, horror, and comic book movies. I also hit the gym when I can, building muscle after growing up naturally skinny. Let’s just say I’m not small everywhere.

Life hasn’t always been easy. I had a rough childhood that made me extremely anxious and isolated. That carried into adulthood, and I didn’t go on my first date or have my first kiss until I was 30, in 2019. That dating experience, while meaningful, was short-lived due to circumstances out of both our control.

Since then, I’ve had little to no romantic or sexual experiences, despite doing everything I can to change that. Dating apps have been discouraging, and in-person connection is just as hard when you’re not the most outgoing guy. I’ve done therapy, pushed myself out of my shell, and made real progress—but the loneliness still lingers.

I’m not just here for hookups (though I’m not closed off to chemistry if it happens). What I want most is to connect with someone who gets it. Someone real, kind, curious, and maybe a little nerdy themselves. Someone who’s also tired of feeling stuck or alone.

This post is me putting myself out there—because I refuse to let another 35 years go by without love, adventure, or deeper connection. If anything here resonates, please don’t hesitate to message. You might be the exact person I’ve been hoping to meet.


r/bigdicklovers • • 14h ago

Male for Female 32 [M4F] #Online - Bwc looking for casual sexting and photo share NSFW

1 Upvotes

Nothing you haven't heard before. Guy with a big dick who likes showing it off. I'm also very active on Reddit with a few sexting partners and have excellent reviews 😉

I'm mainly into sharing myself, having fun and friendly conversation and going with the flow of whatever connection is out there. I take requests of what you want to see and am happy to measure or take a picture on demand. Open to anyone in a relationship whose partner wants to be shamed/outsized (a much more popular fetish than I realized!). Anyway send me a DM, I won't disappoint.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

26 [F4M] #Online #Texas - Sexy Gamer Girl Seeks Long Term, Hung Gaming Partner~! NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hiya! I'm a cute, fit 26/F Caucasian blonde conservative leaning gal from Texas that here that gets along well with hung gamer boys. Like to play some games together and sometimes have other fun together through Disc too. If that sounds like you them hit me up in my DMs with your stats, what games/types of games you play and other stuff you are into besides gaming and we can take it from there. Also please 21 + only and also no inexperienced/virgins please I prefer guys who know what they are doing and talking about to have some fun interactions.

Also fine if girls want to message me! Thanks and talk to ya soon !


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 27 [M4F] #San Francisco #Online - Tall, deep-voiced, and hung Asian guy here! Let's chat! NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey folks! I'm 27 and am a tall Asian guy with a big dick. I work in tech and I like tennis, good food, good company, and good travels.

Kink-wise, I've got a thing for outdoor play. Love the feeling of almost getting caught. Beyond that, some light S&M. My limits would be anything blood and poop related.

If you're nearby, I'm open to grabbing a meal or drink and seeing where things go. If you're not, I'm open to keeping things online.

If all of that sounds good with you, send me a message if you want to have some fun or if you just want to share travel stories!


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] #Philadelphia - Philly Burbs- Daddy Seeks Cute Young Thing NSFW

1 Upvotes

Attractive older male with a sweet tooth for younger women seeks pretty little thing with a cute fuckable face to suck my big cock.

Me: attractive, 5'8”, 150, white, DDF. Juicy thick cock for you to work with. Kinda nerdy but for all the right reasons.

You: younger than me with luscious lips. Skinny or athletic or thicc. Know when/where/how to be a little slut under proper circumstances.

Maybe you have daddy issues. Maybe you just like being a good girl for a dominant older man. Whatever it may be, I’ll be sure to put you good use.

Consider this a safe space to be the dirtiest girl you can possibly be.

18+

Lmk


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Female 32 [M4F] #SF - For the woman who carries it all: let me take care of you NSFW

1 Upvotes

You spend all day making decisions, managing responsibilities, and looking after everyone else. Somewhere along the way, you stopped feeling craved, touched without an agenda, and truly seen

I want to be your private escape from the noise

I’m 32, 6’0”, married, and keep myself in fit, muscular shape. More than that, I’m a patient listener who wants to give you the space to drop your guard completely. No performing, no decision fatigue. Just quiet conversation where you are genuinely heard, followed by slow, unhurried intimacy

When we’re behind closed doors, your pleasure comes first. I take genuine pride in being a generous, attentive partner. Strong hands to melt the tension out of your shoulders, and built thick where it counts

-> Total Discretion: Mutual OPSEC and privacy are absolute priorities

-> Pure Indulgence: An unhurried space to let go and feel intensely desired

-> Consistency: Looking for one steady, reliable connection with zero games and no ghosting

If you’re craving an escape where you can simply unwind and be worshipped, send a message with what you’ve been missing most lately

(Older and mature women are warmly welcomed)


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Female 19 [M4F] #Spain/Online - Monster cock on a 6'3 bull. I love showing off, so size queens or couples are welcome. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Spanish guy moving around the country for work. I'm very hung and I know it, I love showing off and seeing women's reactions when I send pics or whip my cock out.

I'd love to show off my monster cock and seeing your reaction, and if you're near my area we could definately meet up ofc.

I'm straight so please women or couples only (escpecially in a cuck dynamic), I have no real type regarding to women. Please be either a size queen that can handle really big sizes or be interested in big cocks but inexperienced.

Preferably spanish or english-speaking couples, I know a few other languages as well.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

44 [M4F] #Miami, FL - I want to use your throat like a fleshlight NSFW

1 Upvotes

I've been wanting to find a girl that can deepthroat enough so that I can just go as deep as I've always wanted to without hitting the back of her throat. I'm pretty thick and most girls have had that issue with that so I'm looking for one that can satisfy my urge, or at least a girl that is interested in practicing.

I'm 5'8, with short brown hair, light eyes, dad bod, and a handsome face. I can host and would be down to make this a regular thing if we have fun. I absolutely love it when my partner clearly enjoys doing her work, so hit me up if this sounds appealing to you!


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Male 26 [M4M] #NYC - Turned 26 recently and my birthday wish is to suck a huge dick NSFW

3 Upvotes

hey there! long story short: my birthday passed recently and i loveee to suck dick/get throat fucked, genuinely. but i didn’t get to do that for my special day 🥺 and i’m hoping to find someone to help me celebrate. someone both safe and hung who loves getting blowjobs just as much as i love giving em! it would really make my year!

me: 5’10”, average build, 26yo, latino, side (that means oral-only!) who can SOMETIMES host. i’ve got full lips, a deep throat, little to no gag reflex, and plenty of stamina. if you want me to drain you for hours, i can! 100% tested, clean, negative, DDF

you: a new yorker (of any 18+ age, weight, height, ethnicity, cut/uncut) who loves blowjobs. ideally, can host. able to hold a conversation, and most of all: be 100% tested, clean, negative, DDF of any sti’s

if you’re hung (either super long, super thick, or both), that’s a huge plus. give me a challenge!

tell me your favorite game so i know you read this :D


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 25 [M4F] #Maryland #DC - Looking for a FWB or ONS NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm located in New Carrollton, MD and I'm 8in long

Good evening I hope you guys are having a wonderful rainy Sunday. I am looking for a young lady 22 and up who's down for an afternoon of fun. I'm black 5'11" with an average build. I like to read, hike and game. I'm an eater so come ready to have my face between your legs.

Everyone is welcome so come as you are and I'll adjust to the vibe you bring. I do have a cat so be mindful of allergies.

I can host and travel. If you're more comfortable with car play I can do that as well. For those of you who would like to get to know me a bit beforehand I would gladly take you to go get smoothies (or any other low-stakes date) or we can game a bit if that's more your style. I'd be down to play any friendslop/party game, Palworld, most shooters, or if you're a cool like that, Evolve or Titan Fall 2.

I'm free all day today but I'm normally at work 6a-6p Mon-Fri and I'm free on the weekends. If those times don't work just give me a heads up and I can leave work earlier at around 4p or start later at around 8a.

Thank you for reading and I hope you have a wonderful day.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Male for Female 22 [M4F] #newengland #online - Girthy BWC seeking size queens of all kinks, colors, shapes, and sizes ❤️‍🔥 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Need consistent partners to play with and maybe meet😇.

Whole life been told I’m massive by every girl that’s seen it, but now I want to know confirm that with true size queens. Thick with good length but is it up to par with professionals? How do I stack up against BBC in the eyes of snowbunnies? I want to know the truth.

I also love when taken girls come to me cuz I easily outsize their bf🤭or when girls reveal how much bigger I am than their ex. Love all types of girls so you’re all welcome to hmu and come see this big ass cock. Hit the DM’s ❤️‍🔥 Also willing to compare with fellow monsters.


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 24 [M4F] #Lebanon - #online - love showing off my arab dick! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello! I love showing off my arab dick! If youre into brown cock hit me up! I love older women, fellow Arabs, Asian girls... but im not picky so anyone is welcome! Especially hijabis 😉

A bit more about me: im nerdy definitely, ive got a good size, ive got a few sex stories to tell if youre into it (such as the time a milf gave me a blowjob), nothing gets me hard faster than some feet or a woman saying she likes what shes seeing! My favourite porn is exhibitionist/outdoor/getting caught, or blowjobs! And definitely love cosplay girls 😍😍

Again im not picky when it comes to my partner. The older the better definitely, and the bigger the better haha! But I wont mind any age (18+!!) Or body type or ethnicity!


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Male for Female 51 [M4F] #London #UK - Size taken roughly NSFW

1 Upvotes

Tall, fit, silver fox type with decent size (a girth that'll stretch you) is looking for a playmate who enjoys rough kinks.

I'm big, I'm intimidating, but if you're in this subreddit you'll licked your lips when you see it's size and tell me to do my worst.

I offer a menu of kinks. It's a la carte, you can make requests of the kitchen if there's something not there you would like to try. The menu includes impact play, degradation, sleep play, CNC and uniforms. Requests are welcome, there's no judgement here. Good communication is key, limits are observed and aftercare supplied. I fix what I break.

Looking for London based meets.

In your response include ASL, hair color, dress size and bra size and the word 'size'.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

38 [F4M] #NJ - Seeking a Smart, Fit Gentleman Who Enjoys Nurturing a Woman NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m looking for one—or potentially two—intelligent, attractive, well-groomed men who appreciate a woman with ambition, substance, and a softer side that occasionally prefers to be taken care of.
I’ve been juggling venture capital pitches, entrepreneurial responsibilities, and ongoing legal matters, and candidly, my bedroom and laundry have fallen victim to my rather demanding schedule. I’m perfectly capable of managing my life; I’m simply not interested in spending every available hour doing absolutely everything myself.
Ideally, you’re the kind of man who genuinely enjoys deep cleaning, creating order out of chaos, and making a woman’s life a little easier. Think shirtless domestic competence, an organized bedroom, folded laundry, and the quiet satisfaction of a job exceptionally well done. I’ll happily prepare a lovely dinner in return.
What I’m particularly drawn to:
An intellectually curious man who can hold his own in conversations about business, finance, economics, law, sports, or whatever fascinating subject currently occupies his mind.

A fit, attractive, single gentleman with his own place, a reliable car, and his life reasonably well organized.

Someone professionally ambitious, emotionally mature, dependable, and naturally nurturing.

A man who enjoys sports and appreciates thick, curvy women.

Someone who is drug-free, values cleanliness, and takes pride in his environment.

A gentleman who understands that acts of service can be just as attractive as financial success—and that competence is an aphrodisiac.

I’m especially intrigued by men who can discuss markets, strategy, or a compelling book over dinner and then roll up their sleeves to help restore order to a space. If you’re a finance professional, entrepreneur, attorney, analyst, or simply an exceptionally intelligent man with a practical side, you may be precisely my type.
This is a mutually beneficial arrangement built around good company, genuine chemistry, a little domestic assistance, and intellectual stimulation. I’m not looking for someone to rescue me, nor am I interested in aimless conversation with no follow-through. I appreciate initiative, discretion, consistency, and men who mean what they say.
If this sounds like your kind of arrangement, message me with the word “Perspective” so I know you’ve read the entire post.
Please include:
Your age and general location.

Your profession and what you find most intellectually engaging about it.

The last book you read—and one insight you took away from it.

What you consider your three best characteristics.

Your interests, especially sports, fitness, finance, or other intellectual pursuits.

What appeals to you about an arrangement centered on acts of service and companionship.

Your most recent STI screening date and whether you’re comfortable discussing sexual health and boundaries before meeting.

Please be genuinely single, respectful, and prepared to verify that we’re both who we say we are before arranging an in-person meeting.
Bonus points if you’re the sort of man who can explain a complex financial concept, make an excellent argument, and fold a fitted sheet without losing his composure.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Couple for Male 3933 [MF4M] #Tokyo #Online - ISO Hung Bull NSFW

9 Upvotes

Asian male (cuck) and White female duo seeing if there are any traveling bulls in Tokyo? Or BWC thats been here for a bit? We are in town and would love to set something up. Figuring a BWC bull in Tokyo might be a long shot, we also would be interested in chatting with online bulls since we travel often and you never know.

AM is 5’8 average build small dick into being a cuck, compared and humiliated by a bull for his and her pleasure. WF is 5’10 slender with long legs and perky breasts. A good girl who prefers bulls to treat her like a good girl that likes to be naughty and put in place. We both tend to lean sub and prefer a bull to take charge and lead the way, while also feeling the vibes and respecting boundaries.

We would appreciate messages more than one word and no blank profiles. Preference for 30+ fit/muscular bulls. Bi/ENM all ok. Wit, patience and a sense of humor with a commanding presence would also be ideal. Please let us know how hung you are and be willing to prove it. She does have a soft spot for an older man who can take control. We are also ready to verify not to waste anyones time either!

If you are not local to Tokyo and you would like to chat. Let us know where you are located as well. We travel to the UK/EU often.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Female for Male 30 [M4F] #NYC/NJ - Seeking an Intelligent, Fit Gentleman for Domestic Assistance NSFW

1 Upvotes

Im looking for one—or potentially two—intelligent, attractive, well-groomed men who appreciate a woman with ambition, substance, and a softer side that occasionally prefers to be taken care of.
I’ve been juggling venture capital pitches, entrepreneurial responsibilities, and ongoing legal matters, and candidly, my bedroom and laundry have fallen victim to my rather demanding schedule. I’m perfectly capable of managing my life; I’m simply not interested in spending every available hour doing absolutely everything myself.
Ideally, you’re the kind of man who genuinely enjoys deep cleaning, creating order out of chaos, and making a woman’s life a little easier. Think shirtless domestic competence, an organized bedroom, folded laundry, and the quiet satisfaction of a job exceptionally well done. I’ll happily prepare a lovely dinner in return.

What I’m particularly drawn to:
An intellectually curious man who can hold his own in conversations about business, finance, economics, law, sports, or whatever fascinating subject currently occupies his mind.

A fit, attractive, single gentleman with his own place, a reliable car, and his life reasonably well organized.

Someone professionally ambitious, emotionally mature, dependable, and naturally nurturing.

A man who enjoys sports and appreciates thick, curvy women.

Someone who is drug-free, values cleanliness, and takes pride in his environment.

A gentleman who understands that acts of service can be just as attractive as financial success—and that competence is an aphrodisiac.

I’m especially intrigued by men who can discuss markets, strategy, or a compelling book over dinner and then roll up their sleeves to help restore order to a space. If you’re a finance professional, entrepreneur, attorney, analyst, or simply an exceptionally intelligent man with a practical side, you may be precisely my type.
This is a mutually beneficial arrangement built around good company, genuine chemistry, a little domestic assistance, and intellectual stimulation. I’m not looking for someone to rescue me, nor am I interested in aimless conversation with no follow-through. I appreciate initiative, discretion, consistency, and men who mean what they say.
If this sounds like your kind of arrangement, message me with the word “Perspective” so I know you’ve read the entire post.
Please include:
Your age and general location.

Your profession and what you find most intellectually engaging about it.

The last book you read—and one insight you took away from it.

What you consider your three best characteristics.

Your interests, especially sports, fitness, finance, or other intellectual pursuits.

What appeals to you about an arrangement centered on acts of service and companionship.

Your most recent STI screening date and whether you’re comfortable discussing sexual health and boundaries before meeting.

Please be genuinely single, respectful, and prepared to verify that we’re both who we say we are before arranging an in-person meeting.

Bonus points if you’re the sort of man who can explain a complex financial concept, make an excellent argument, and fold a fitted sheet without losing his composure.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Male for Female 38 [M4F] #Boston - Runner's high NSFW

2 Upvotes

I like to run around the Charles and I've been thinking a lot about having a toy nearby to stop and use on my runs. A cute thing I can just jog to whenever I'm out for a run, to tease and fill up a couple of times and be on my merry way. Something simple and exciting to keep me fit and give us both a dose of touch and sensuality

Along with that I want to make time for delightfully long edging sessions, where we tease and please each other silly. Maybe I'm just inside you while we do. Just keeping the other on edge, neither one of us releasing just yet, drawing out each other's enjoyment as long as we can, whenever we can.

Ideally this is a consistent, discreet sort of fling, local to cambridge/boston, not something online. v tactile, touch-forward, love cumming multiple times in a row and teasing out the same from you, love toying with your pleasure. Green eyes drive me wild.

I'm not quite 6 ft tall, white, hazel eyes, full head of (short, dark) hair, medium/athletic build, hairy. Quiet, observant by default. Match my energy?


r/bigdicklovers • • 5d ago

40 [F4M] #Riga #Tallinn #Vilnius - Seeking hung partner for occasional dalliance NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi all, I'm a 40 year old woman, tattooed, glasses, lift weights and a lil curvy (5'6", 135 lbs).

Would love to meet a well-endowed partner for occasional fun in the Nordics or Baltics or nearby. Willing to host or travel elsewhere nearby in Europe. Bonus if dominant. Both for 1:1 and the occasional MFM. My husband is straight but comfortable being around a naked dude obviously. Not a cucking situation but he likes to see me have a good time and to be involved off and on.

Please be respectful, able to hold a conversation, and thick. Please send me a message if you're interested. Happy to share photos and other deets (and of course would like to see the same from you). Thank you!


r/bigdicklovers • • 5d ago

[ Removed by Reddit ] NSFW

2 Upvotes

[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]