Hello all, essentially I’m new to beard care. I have a short stubble and pretty much I’m a neck beard but I try to maintain it to look somewhat normal. My hair is brittle and it curls so it looks like stubble. My wife says when I kiss her it’s pokes her and it feels like she gets electrocuted. Can’t grow hair on my cheeks but I wish I did ( I don’t believe I can fix that, genetics) I’m assuming beard oil is the fix for this, what’s an overall good one so I can make my beard and mustache soft.

About to edge up the neck and trim it down a bit. I usually like to keep the facial hair to a minimum (8mm-10mm) , I usually just edge straight across but I’ve seen a u-shape edge up as well. Which do yall recommend?