This sub is not abandoned. It may seem so because of the lack of posts, but I do get a notification when someone eventually does post in here and I will always try my best to answer. If more people start posting then maybe it’ll feel less abandoned

how is it asexual if you end up literally feeling sexual attraction? sure it’s not immediate but you’re still feeling it

I'm confused about myself right now, every time I have sex it's uncomfortable, I mean it's always been with awful people so that makes sense,

I'm gonna try some pretty tame stuff with my partnetownhouse actually cares to see if it's just because of who it's with and I'll probably know what's going on at that point.

I also like masturbation and even sometimes porn so that's why this is such a complicated thing to figure out for me

Please help

I'm not going to try and wing it due to lack of knowledge on how it works. I'm more so curious about how it affects attraction and if any relationships get impacted in the romantic side due to being ace. Or how it would impact, like I said. And how it feels or how people see it or if they even mind and just accept it?

I have another sub about asexuality I made a bit ago r/actuallasexuality I’m not expecting it to get big like the other asexuality subs lol, but if yall feel like talking and posting in there 🥲 (tbh I named it that to combat the gatekeeping AA sub 🤫)

This is a fact.

A term used to describe someone who does not experience sexual attraction toward individuals of any gender.

Asexuality is about sexual attraction towards someone. Not the act itself. Do you lack the sexual attraction but still enjoy watching porn or masterbating? Reading smut? You’re still asexual and valid.

Asexuality is a spectrum. There are sex repulsed aces, as well as sex positive aces.