OK, about a year ago an old dear friend from college passed. He was living in the US.
My bud had his "naughty" side. He would ask to meet friends when he would visit. Being close to him, I referred him to some side hustling college girls.
I get a message from his phone. I thought it was something like an AI scam because he has been dead for like a year. I figured out that it the message had the contact card of one of the girls I let him meet. There was also a forwarded text to him from the "friend".
Now there was also this - "I had always believed that Elmer loved me faithfully. It is very painful to know that he did not. And sadly friends like you was the one who encouraged him.". My friend's widow had his phone.
The wife saw everything.
Thing is, my friend was with her in the US. The most that he could have done with the girl was flirt online or "sext".
Now she hates my guts. This happens again.
Recently I sponsored a stag for m cousin that was like a son to me. I heard the wife got pissed. She was cold tome during and since their wedding a couple of months ago.
Being an elderly single I am like - WTF? I did not push anyone to bang any girl. If ever they did, it was on them.
Oh well...
Life goes on with all the hating.