r/weddingshaming • u/Archi_penko • 5d ago

Cringe Stop inviting me to your wedding after party

I’m tired of being treated like a C list friend and getting invited to only the wedding after party. Just don’t invite us! I got a text last week inviting me to the bar at 10:30pm after the full wedding has ended. So you want me to show up when you all are drunk and tired and dressed up? I find this trend to be rude, just don’t invite me!

Edit: this has happened twice to me. Once, I flew to another city only to realize I was invited to JUST the dancing, arriving after dinner had been served.

The second, I got a text a few days to come to a dive bar at 10:30pm after the ceremony and reception. I also happened to invite this person to my wedding earlier in the year, not that that entitles me to anything.

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u/Few_Policy5764 5d ago

This generation of couples getting married can be so tone deaf and tunnel visioned. I dont think id accept that invite and yeah it's tacky tbh

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u/terisews 4d ago

No manners. They want it all, but don't want to pay for it. They want all the cash gifts, but can't be bothered to write a thank you note because "it's too hard."