Stop inviting me to your wedding after party

[u/Archi_penko]

I’m tired of being treated like a C list friend and getting invited to only the wedding after party. Just don’t invite us! I got a text last week inviting me to the bar at 10:30pm after the full wedding has ended. So you want me to show up when you all are drunk and tired and dressed up? I find this trend to be rude, just don’t invite me!

Edit: this has happened twice to me. Once, I flew to another city only to realize I was invited to JUST the dancing, arriving after dinner had been served.

The second, I got a text a few days to come to a dive bar at 10:30pm after the ceremony and reception. I also happened to invite this person to my wedding earlier in the year, not that that entitles me to anything.

[u/adorableoddity]

Wait….weddings have after parties????

[u/shirlxyz → u/adorableoddity]

Yep. We had one in 1975. (US)

[u/adorableoddity → u/shirlxyz]

I had no idea. Guess I’m self-reporting that I’ve never been invited to one of these. lol