r/r4rmontreal • • Aug 17 '26

28M4A To my fellow Redditor, beware of this Sub.. NSFW

42 Upvotes

As the title; ⚠️ PSA: Beware of impersonation and scams on Reddit — always verify who you’re talking to.
Scammers are getting better at copying profiles, photos, and writing styles to pretend they’re someone else (even people you think you know). Before you trust someone, share personal info, take a minute to verify:
• Reverse-image search their profile pics and any photos they send (Google Lens, TinEye, etc.) the number of accounts sharing pictures of public figures pretending to be them will blow your mind…
• Check their post/comment history: new accounts, very low karma, or only promotional posts are red flags. (FYI, even if there post or comments are hidden you can do a search of their username and see what they posted or commented in the past) ex: made a F4M post but commented a while ago to a M4M post claiming to be a man…
• Look for inconsistencies in their story, timezone, or language.
• Never click suspicious links or download files from strangers.
• If someone claims to be a public figure, mod, or admin, verify through official channels (their verified socials, mod mail, etc.).
• When in doubt, ask for a simple verification (e.g., a
video call is alwaaays a sure thing😉)

Real woman on this Sub have no clue what we are dealing with with the classic F4 post that are scammers, catfish and just people collecting pictures that you send off.

If something feels off, it probably is. Most F4M post *not saying all of them are, I have met around 10 real woman off this Sub and had great times, soo do not be discouraged to put yourself out there, you may meet someone great just has I did, BUT BE CAREFUL... unfortunately the odds are not in our favor when it comes to F4X posts) Report and block, and warn others in the thread if appropriate. Stay safe out there.


r/r4rmontreal • • Aug 03 '26

32 M4F & M4MF | Success Tips for Making Real Connections NSFW

18 Upvotes

Don't lose hope guys! There are genuine people here, but you have to be smart.

We all know there's a huge influx of Telegram bots and fake accounts. It can be discouraging sending messages because they either get buried in a sea of replies or you end up talking to a bot or some dude trying to fish for pics.

I've actually had some success sending messages, but I've had much more success by posting my own ad. A well-written post gives people a chance to get to know you before reaching out, and the conversations tend to be much more genuine.

I met a lot of single women here and met a few couples who are now regular play partners and I met some people who are just visiting who wanted a quick date, and met some couples too who were just visiting and looking for a third.

A few things that have worked for me:

- Put effort into your post. Talk about your hobbies or personality, and what you're actually looking for.... be direct.

- when sending pics send recent, authentic photos. It builds trust and makes people more comfortable and dont get offended if you get rejected. Trust me you'll get rejected and you gotta get used to it.

- Be honest about your expectations from the beginning.

- Respect people's boundaries. Not everyone will be a match, and that's okay...

- Be patient. Good conversations and real connections take time. But don't take too much time either!

- Focus on quality over quantity. A few meaningful conversations are worth more than dozens of one-word messages....

- Also dont use chatgpt or Ai we can smell that shit from a mile away.

How to avoid getting catfished or scammed:

- Ask for a recent verification photo. For example, ask them to hold up a specific hand sign or gesture that wasn't in any of their posted pictures.

- Have a quick video call if they're comfortable, or at least exchange a short voice note before making plans.

- If someone refuses every reasonable way of verifying they're real, that's a major red flag.

- Take your time getting to know someone before sharing personal information or making plans to meet.

- meet in public first! Always meet at a bar, cafe, or the park if you vibe with the person ask them whats next.

As for hotwives and couples looking for a third, this is my checklist on what ask the husband or the couple:

- Does your partner know you're talking to bulls?

- Has your partner explicitly consented to this dynamic?

- Would your partner be willing to join a quick video call so we can all confirm everyone's on the same page or a phone call?

- Would your partner be willing to join a group chat so everyone can verify they're aware and genuinely interested in the lifestyle?

- What boundaries have the two of you established?

- Have you discussed expectations, ethics, and communication as a couple?

- What are both of you looking for from this experience?

- Would your partner be comfortable reading this conversation?

If someone jumps straight into sexting before they're willing to answer these questions, that's a red flag for me. If I ask them to slow down and they go right back to sexting instead of discussing boundaries, ethics, and consent, I end the conversation. We all know theres a lot men here who send unsolicited pics of their wives and trying to live a fantasy.

And one last thing for the guys...

Please don't send unsolicited explicit photos. Even if someone asks for one early in the conversation, slow things down first and make sure you're actually talking to a real person. A little patience can save you from getting catfished, scammed, or having your photos misused.

There are real people here looking to make genuine connections. Put effort into your post, be respectful, stay safe, and don't get discouraged by the bots.


r/r4rmontreal • • 7h ago

IRL next few days 22 M4A looking for a gloryhole NSFW

7 Upvotes

Anyone know where an actual gloryhole is and not the "show up at my house I have a blanket" kind like an actual one where you go and kinda just sit and wait or whatever cause thats what I need and what Im looking for so if anyone knows of ones or more please DM !


r/r4rmontreal • • 9h ago

24 M4MM fun vibes NSFW

6 Upvotes

hi

i'm 24 years old white boy on the twinkier side. love sexual tension, hanging out naked and having fun. but i also love just hanging out with friends!

i was thinking it would be so fun to have a group of friends where we can hangout, play games, listen to music, watch movies, and maybe slowly get more naked as the night goes on; truth or dare, strip mario kart, etc.

nothing too intense, just good vibes, cute boys having fun together in all the senses!!

HMU with a picture if you are interested! looking for people around 20-28 years old, twink, muscle or average body, any ethnicity of course :)

je parle aussi français


r/r4rmontreal • • 5h ago

IRL next few days 24FB4A femboy got rejected by his crush, fell back to good ol' reliable 🖤🖤🖤 NSFW

2 Upvotes

Heyyy soo, i made my last post because I was in kind of a bad mood, getting rejected and all and then I got stood up by the guy I was supposed to meet... Very cool!

However, me being a failure makes me horny so if you want a piece of this, be clean, forward, able to host on the island tomorrow evening and send pics. I'm sure we'll have some fun together 🥰

Pics in profile:3

I'm so needy right now I want to pleaaaaaaase 🖤🖤🖤🖤


r/r4rmontreal • • 2h ago

35 M4F #montreal - Kinky dom looking for a shy petite slut. Let your inner slut come out. NSFW

1 Upvotes

35yo Kinky dom looking for a shy petite slut.let your inner slut come out that you don't want your friends to know about.

Fit, clean, respectful, experienced and discreet. Well traveled PhD academic and dom with a high sex drive. Love it rough. Discretion works both ways. Safe.play. Let's talk

Open to ideas and scenarios. Kinkier the better. Can host. Would love to dress you up in sexy lingerie and use you like a f doll.

Tanned skin, athletic build, lean, black hair, brown eyes, thick and uncut cock.

DM me


r/r4rmontreal • • 9h ago

22M4F Montreal — Let’s go on a date and see if we click NSFW

3 Upvotes

Sup 👀

Hey! I’m 22, a nursing student from a Montreal suburb who’s often around Montreal. I’d love to take a girl out for coffee or a drink, get to know each other, and see if there’s chemistry.

I’m looking for something regular, affectionate, and a little clingy—in the “come closer,” long hugs, and finding an excuse to stay cuddled up a little longer kind of way. I want us to actually look forward to seeing each other, not just message when we’re bored.

A bit about me: I lift, game, and have a creative side that comes out through writing and building my own fictional universe. My interests range from nursing and anatomy to dark fantasy, sci-fi, anime, and spending way too long getting a game mod to work properly.

For spending time together, I’d enjoy gaming, putting on a movie, talking, and getting comfortable with each other. I’m not looking to skip the affection. The cuddles, kisses, and little moments of closeness are a big part of what I want.

I can’t host, but I’m happy to travel, so ideally you’d be able to have me over once we’re comfortable. Let’s start with a date somewhere public, though, and see how we feel in person.

I’m bilingual FR/EN. If you’re affectionate too and looking for someone to see regularly, tell me a little about yourself and your area. Let’s plan something 🙂


r/r4rmontreal • • 3h ago

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1 Upvotes

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r/r4rmontreal • • 20h ago

46 M4F Rapellez-vous plus tard comment c'est calme en ce moment depuis que les bot farms on été touchés :) NSFW

20 Upvotes

On va s'entendre que le nombre de 18 fmf "I just want to fuck" posts est plus bas que habituellement ;)

Et ceux qui doute que ce n'est pas vrai, promenez vous sur des subs différents. Beaucoup moins de haine propager pour le fun. A ceci, bon mardi pluvieux a tous. (on est mercredi, désolé, besoin de café).


r/r4rmontreal • • 18h ago

IRL today 25 F4M Fit Black Gal NSFW

15 Upvotes

I need a new FWB. Bored and horny. Pick me up for some fun. Fit black girl with thick booty and D cup tits, hourglass shape. I can't host. We'll need a room. I'm from Outremont. I prefer a muscle man with curls that can handle me easily. Only looking for my type. And preferably someone who knows how to treat a gal, the day is gloomy and I need someone to get me out of it

Age: 22-28


r/r4rmontreal • • 4h ago

18 M4M one night NSFW

1 Upvotes

Raph ici , cherche du fun avec un gars ,

Je sais 5,7 max genre j'ai les cheveux brun court , yeux brun , versa, a mtl juste pour ce jeudi 15 oct , un peu d'expérience

3 de body count

Si vous êtes intéressé texter moi


r/r4rmontreal • • 4h ago

Friends with benefits 19 M4F looking for fwb or dtf NSFW

1 Upvotes

Genuinely js looking for someone to hook up or someone down to have some lil fun, if anyone interesting hit me up i can send any pic.

Dont mind if your older ive hooked up w a couple milfs and girls my age but reddit been kindda dry lately, send me a dm if u wanna get a pic. Hit me up


r/r4rmontreal • • 4h ago

40 M4F cisgender women wished NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm 40 caucasian, slim, good shape, 6' Who like outdoor, manga, vidéo game, board game jogging, névér triéd to breed and single.

Finally searching a women to match with ans for long terme Who is Very open sexually and try many thing since i want to explore many that I have not since always been Very away from my sexual life but now I want to explore and always wanted a child so you love to like to get pregnant and lot and continue to fuck a lot when pregnant and always like the though to fall pregnant. You like to move since we move together outside for fun. Any lady over 30 with no kid si its Will be pur first together. Its make IT moré spécial.


r/r4rmontreal • • 4h ago

39M4M jerk buddy NSFW

0 Upvotes

Chill dude like porn and masturbating looking for an also chill guy around my age that wants to watch porn and jerk off together and open to more we’ll see where it goes dm if interested and we can chat an share pics an whatever


r/r4rmontreal • • 5h ago

Friends with benefits 47 M4M Anyone want to stroke together? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’m coming out of a long-term straight relationship and want to get back into watching porn with a buddy and jerking off together, maybe lending each other a hand. Anyone interested? I’m white, overweight, five inch cut cock. I can host or travel.


r/r4rmontreal • • 6h ago

36M4F Montreal - Cherche une femme qui est debout pour discuter ce soir et pt s'amuser NSFW

1 Upvotes

Je travaillais tard ce soir et je serais ravi de discuter avec quelqu’un pendant maintenant que ma soirée se termine. Je cherche simplement une femme avec qui discuter, échanger des messages privés et voir où cela pourrait mener. Si quelqu’un d’autre souhaite discuter ou faire connaissance ce soir, on peut avoir une conversation où l’on parle de sexe autant que de nos loisirs.
Que ce soit les jeux vidéo, la musique, les films, peu importe — parlons de ce qui vous passionne et de ce qui nous permet d’avoir un bon feeling.
Je suis ouvert aux discussions. Aucun jugement, et passons une bonne soirée


r/r4rmontreal • • 10h ago

38 F4M 5'1 & curvy looking for biweekly arrangements NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm looking for a guy 35 to 55m— caring, attentive, and who gets the art of conversation.

must be single \*\\\*\\\*please no creeps\\\*\\\*\\\*\\\*

looking for a guy to take me out on a date biweekly on a set time and day, must be able to drive

***please send me a picture ( no face if your shy) and the agreement you would like I would than send one back

thx


r/r4rmontreal • • 6h ago

23 M4M thick booty white boy for bbc, pls read description 🎥 NSFW

0 Upvotes

Thick feminine white boy looking for bbc (ideally 7 or plus). Been working out a while, got a great booty. Im strictly bottom and looking for top in mtl. I give bj and you fuck me. I can’t host, no carplay or outside. You must be able to host at your place. Protection for anal is required, but bj can be discussed. Pls dont message if you don’t fit the description, I will not respond. I can send pics of my body, but no face required. No weird request pls. Looking to film pov content. Please be serious for meetup, no ghosting


r/r4rmontreal • • 10h ago

40 M4F I’d like to be your cuckold boyfriend :) NSFW

2 Upvotes

Je parle français aussi ! Im 40 yo, but I look a lot younger than my age, 5’10, 180 lb. Your age doesn’t matter at all to me, but I’d prefer someone heigh-weight proportionate.

I’m looking for a kinky and very open-minded girlfriend who also wants a serious relationship and is into the cuckolding dynamic.
I’d like to find a slutty but possessive girlfriend who wants the freedom to have sex with other men as much as she wants, but also wants a loving and obedient cuckold boyfriend who belongs to her exclusively and will never touch another woman.

This is the perfect relationship for someone who wants to enjoy being a slut, but wants a partner who’s happy to stay totally faithful to her no matter what, cuddles with her, and is always eager to worship her feet, eat her out like a good boy and clean her up after other guys used her, etc.

I’d like to find a girlfriend to develop a deep bond with, while exploring all the very exciting kinks that the cuckolding lifestyle has to offer, which we can chat about in private ;). Please tell me about yourself and why this relationship dynamic is for you. And feel free to reply either in English or in French!


r/r4rmontreal • • 6h ago

21 M4M looking for dom FWB/LTR NSFW

0 Upvotes

Heya,

I'm looking for a dominant fwb (but very much open to more) to have some fun regularly with. I've been really stressed out recently and I just want to shut my brain off and have fun.

I really appreciate a level of connection, so being able to talk is mandatory and doing stuff together like cuddling, activities and the like is really encouraged.

About me: I'm 5'10, skinny/average, ADHD, a student in a healthcare field, lives on the blue line, huge nerd. I like gaming, taking walks, going out with friends and learning new things.

Sex wise: bottom, submissive and open minded, so huge plus if you're kinky


r/r4rmontreal • • 20h ago

IRL next few days 22 M4M Can I give you my gf's panties? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I want to give you my gf's panties. Maybe I'll get a chance to see your better cock when I give them to you, maybe I'll have no choice but to show you how hot she is.

No need to do anything before or after, but I'd dream of watching your cock all over them, even better if you end up cumming on them.

You can decide to give them back eventually or you can keep them forever.

I honestly can't wait to see who's gonna own them, and maybe I'll have to borrow other things from her for you down the line, say maybe a toy or whatever you want.

I can drive to you usually or I could come meet you at a metro if you prefer.


r/r4rmontreal • • 7h ago

IRL today 20 M4F I want to eat you out tonight if you’re in south shore NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, 6ft2 skinny white guy, I love to eat ass and puss. I’m craving it rn. I can’t host but car fun is an option if you can’t host. I like big booty so if you have a big booty and you’re bored please allow me. I’m also super bored so yeah lmk wassup.

I don’t mind your age but I do prefer older woman 😜


r/r4rmontreal • • 7h ago

25 M4MF/F BULL tall and fit wellhung (check profile for pics) NSFW

1 Upvotes

hello huys as the post said asian arabe mix well hung guy tall and fit looking for cockold couple to help them ir a single girl to satisfy her i am experienced and i did have success meeting here do i am looking for a real connection i prefer slow process so i know what u are looking for exactly


r/r4rmontreal • • 7h ago

IRL next few days 23M4A hung need to be jerked and sucked and milked NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey 23M4A hung need to be jerked and sucked and milked
Be kinky and sub and fit or fem
Love if you have muscle and dont be hairy
Host and be discreet
Open if your kinky and wanna serve and pls be serious


r/r4rmontreal • • 7h ago

22 M4FB/CD Looking for submissive NSFW

0 Upvotes

A 22M guy in downtown, average build, can host,

I love to meet up with femboys and crossdressers, I always enjoy my time. Looking for someone for some more classical dom/sub.

I am very kinky and open, i want to know your kinks ;)

I have been told that i have a dick to die for...

Dm me for detail.