r/crossdreaming • • Jul 21 '21

This is a place for discussing crossdreaming, gender variance, transgender issues and the role of cross-gender dreams and fantasies in your life. No selfies, please!

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r/crossdreaming is a safe place for discussion and support for all kinds of people who color outside the traditional gender lines, whether this is done openly or in secret.

You may think of yourself as gender variant, transgender, gender queer, a crossdresser, nonbinary, transsexual, cisgender or any other identity that helps you make sense of your life. You decide.

Friends, family and other people interested in this topic are also invited.

The term crossdreaming refers to the fact that many gender variant people fantasize about living a life as their target gender. Talking about such dreams can help us gain a closer understanding of who we are. We promote the exploration of gender, without stigmatizing your sexual interests. In this forum you can discuss everything in your life (and the life of others) that is of relevance to gender identities, gender expressions and crossgender dreams.

You can post life stories, questions, ideas about crossdreaming, news articles, etc. This is also a place where we discuss the origins of gender variance and crossdreaming, and all types of explanations are allowed (psychological, biological, spiritual or mixes thereof). But keep it civil and treat your fellow crossdreamers with respect. Transphobic or homophobic comments are not accepted.

This is not a place for NSFW material.

This is not a place for sharing selfies! We suggest you post selfies over at r/transpositive, r/crossdressing, /r/GoneMildCD or /r/GoneWildCD. Find the forum that fits your needs for this.

More about crossdreaming here.


r/crossdreaming • • 19h ago

Need female friends for cross dressing support

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r/crossdreaming • • 1d ago

cross dressing

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any body in the pittsburgh area that wood like a cross dressing friend


r/crossdreaming • • 1d ago

sexy male crossdresser in puget sound area

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male crossdresser near olympia looking to meet others. im not into manly types. text 360-229-4011 Lee


r/crossdreaming • • 2d ago

Looking for recommendations

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Hey Everyone,

I recently got into cross dressing and I couldn't know where to start. I would love some suggestions about dress, accessories and other stuff. We can also meet if we are in Netherlands.


r/crossdreaming • • 3d ago

I really wanna move out and start crossdressing

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r/crossdreaming • • 3d ago

Where do I start with crossdressing?

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Hello, I wanted to start trying to cross dress and where more feminine clothing at least behind closed doors to see how comfortable I feel wearing them but it feels overwhelming and I have no clue where to start or how to dress. I want to wear a cute skirt and/or some cute off the shoulder tops but I don’t know where I should buy them (I just know not to fall into the trap of the Amazon Basics polyester skirt) or what else I need for a nice outfit. are stockings/fishnets required to cover my legs but keep a skin tone? Is there any sort of undershirt I should be wearing? Anything helps as I really want to try but I have no idea where to start. I really want to get similar outfits to what many draw transfem Jax art with.


r/crossdreaming • • 9d ago

Breast forms

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I am looking for some decent breast forms, the ones I currently wear move around the more I sweat. What are some suggestions for adhesive and adhesive friendly forms?


r/crossdreaming • • 9d ago

cross dressing

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why is it so hard to find some one in this town to dress with


r/crossdreaming • • 9d ago

Quiero ser sumisa y ser la mujer de alguien quiero ser una Barbie femenina

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Hola soy un chico que desde pequeña me siento mujer pero todavía no puedo empezar mi transición me gustaría que me feminizar y me tratarán como una mujer , si es posible me gustaría ser la novia de alguna chica o chico que le guste esto saludos a todos espero me explique bien


r/crossdreaming • • 10d ago

Halloween costume ideas

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This is my first Halloween publically crossdressing. I really wanna go to a party dressed. Im searching the interwebs for ideas and the perfect outfit. Any ideas.


r/crossdreaming • • 11d ago

¿Como Travestirse en Halloween?

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r/crossdreaming • • 14d ago

All dressed up

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Hi crossdresser carol here all dressed up anyone fancy a chat


r/crossdreaming • • 17d ago

Non-passable crossdresser

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Looking for someone who wants to hangout with me I can host at my house in Townsend Montana and I need someone to talk to please anyone interested


r/crossdreaming • • 17d ago

Em busca de novas amizades

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r/crossdreaming • • 20d ago

Weirdest situation ever

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So I am 19M don't look like it coz i am 5.3 with not so muscle or mass i am skinny

So this is kind of about my life so I secretly started crossdressing a month ago and now I feel so good whenever I dress up as a girl and I just wait to dress up everyday

So I live with my relatives now so my relative leave their clothes which they wore their whole day I the bathroom i go at night and I wear them I don't care if it's like dirty or yk sweaty i feel so girly and I am starting to like boys too

So idk what's going on and I mean I talked with many boys too they just want me to send them something they don't really care i have a online bestie she knows all about it and I am so gratefull for that

It's just I can't go bold with her coz I like to be order around

So I am just trying to find some girl yk who can order me tell me to pose and all that stuff but mainly teach me more about feminine stuff


r/crossdreaming • • 21d ago

Looking to connect with genuine crossdressers in Mumbai for friendship & meetups

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Let's plan for a party 🎉 only crossdressers


r/crossdreaming • • 23d ago

Nova Vida

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Olá. Tenho quase 40 anos e, embora esse desejo me acompanhe a vida toda, só recentemente reconheci que gosto de me vestir e me sentir como uma mulher.

Me sinto completamente perdida; alguns dias acordo pensando que tudo isso é absurdo e que estou louca por agir assim, mas na maioria das vezes acordo com vontade de me vestir de forma delicada e sensual.

Sou casada e tenho uma filha. Consegui dizer à minha esposa que gosto de usar calcinha — na verdade, ela aceitou muito bem, então consigo usá-las no meu dia a dia — mas ainda não encontrei coragem para contar a ela sobre minha necessidade e desejo de me vestir completamente e viver dessa forma.

Estou realmente lutando com isso. Devo continuar me vestindo em segredo? Nunca me vesti assim na frente de ninguém e acho que ainda não tenho coragem para isso.

Quero ter minhas próprias roupas, mas não sei o que comprar nem onde guardá-las. E se minha esposa as encontrar? Gostaria de ajuda e adoraria conversar com pessoas que já passaram por experiências semelhantes... Se alguém estiver interessado, por favor, me mande uma mensagem.

Obrigado.


r/crossdreaming • • 24d ago

Crossdressing tips

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Hey I’m new to crossdressing and would love some helpful advice. When I crossdress I don’t want to look like a linebacker in a wig. I want to look like an actual women.. very feminine

Any tips on how to do this?


r/crossdreaming • • 24d ago

Crossdressing tips

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Hey I’m new to crossdressing and would love some helpful advice. When I crossdress I don’t want to look like a linebacker in a wig. I want to look like an actual women.. very feminine

Any tips on how to do this?


r/crossdreaming • • 25d ago

Crossdresser fort myers looking for a friend

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r/crossdreaming • • 25d ago

Crossdresser

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Crossdresser looking for a friend


r/crossdreaming • • 25d ago

Crossdressers?

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r/crossdreaming • • 27d ago

Underwear

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I feel sexy like a good girl but want fun with some one


r/crossdreaming • • 26d ago

I'm 59 male and wanting to meet a crossdresser. Maybe we can be friends and get to know each other. Near Pearland 288 & Broadway.

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