r/books • • Dec 07 '14

What is the book that changed your life ?

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u/captainkelpy Dec 07 '14

John Steinbeck - East of Eden.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good.

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u/porn_free_account Dec 08 '14

This caused me to order the book. Seriously ordered the book then wrote this comment. Edit: letters

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u/rsjd Dec 08 '14

I mean wow. That's a great quote. Writing it down now.

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u/porn_free_account Dec 08 '14

To settle forth and not read on, is the opposite of evolving, continue, expand, grow.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

I loved Of Mice and Men, maybe I will, too.

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u/thereelsuperman Dec 08 '14

It's Steinbeck's magnum opus.

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u/PreSchoolGGW Dec 08 '14

Enjoy. It is a mammoth read, and it is worth every second of time spent reading. Grapes Of Wrath might get all the attention, but East Of Eden is far superior.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

I just read the book in a day, I wouldn't call it a mammoth.

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u/Nap4 Dec 08 '14

And now that you have bought the book, you can comment

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

That comment makes me want to read it. I already got it on my Kindle though!

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u/BadSoles Dec 30 '14

Your comment about east of Eden convinced me to add it to my reading list, was it worth it?

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u/porn_free_account Dec 30 '14

Hasn't arrived yet. I'm in a real small town so everything takes for ever in the mail.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

It sucked. Nothing happens.

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u/kkool1827 Dec 07 '14

This would make a nice senior quote

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u/Lavender_Gooms_ Dec 07 '14

Timshel.

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u/flapjackcarl Dec 07 '14

God, some of those passages are so exceptional. Beautiful.

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u/therootmcgoot Dec 07 '14

One of my closest friends has "Timshel" tattooed on their forearm in Hebrew because of that passage.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Loved that part. It made me really happy when I realized the song Timshel by Mumford & Sons was based on the book.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOHV7ZJZkTw

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Thou mayest!

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u/mastermifune Dec 08 '14

Just finished reading this book and that one word made me burst into tears.

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u/Penguinmank Dec 07 '14

My favorite book. I've never been more invested in a book than this one.

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u/BeardMilk Dec 08 '14 edited Dec 08 '14

Lee is, to this day, my favorite character in any of the books I've ever read.

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u/TheyCallMeArtemis Dec 07 '14

I'm glad to see Steinbeck mentioned. His lesser - known novel To a God Unknown will always be my favorite piece of literature.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 07 '14

I've read everything that Steinbeck wrote (including all of his letters) and I'm glad you brought up something other than East of Eden or Grapes of Wrath. To a God Unknown wasn't my favorite, but it's a bit disappointing that some of his shorter novels get overlooked by his two biggest ones. The man certainly had a way with words.

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u/conparco Dec 07 '14

I agree that he has so much more to offer than East of Eden and Grapes of Wrath, though they are notable and deserve recognition. My favorite Steinbeck will always be Cannery Row, but he is so versatile that there are many great pieces that I wish people were more exposed to.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 07 '14

Oh, I agree. EoE and GoW are two of my favorite books and they deserve recognition. It just seems like a lot of people read those two and skip his other work. It might be because those two are often required reading and people who may not have liked them have decided that they don't like Steinbeck in general. It might be that those two are so good that they shadow his other work because they're the ones that get recommended.

Cannery Row and Sweet Thursday are probably my favorite shorter Steinbeck novels. You're right; He was versatile. He wrote funny stuff, sad stuff, depressing stuff, covering a variety of themes. He's a renowned author, but it's unfortunate that some people might not be aware of some of his other work that they might appreciate on a different level.

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u/TheyCallMeArtemis Dec 08 '14

I'm a huge Steinbeck fan myself. Actually getting ready to visit Salinas, CA and check out Cannery Row :) I also thought The Pastures of Heaven is never given enough credit for what an incredible work it is.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

Of Mice and Men is pretty popular though.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 07 '14

That's true, good point. It was a good book and deserves recognition. But I would argue that it gets its popularity from being required reading in highschool English classes. The reason's not really important, though. You're right, it is fairly popular. But still, that's only three out of dozens(?) of books he wrote.

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u/istandostoievsky Classical Fiction Dec 10 '14

Of mice and men is good too. Too damn good. Southern Gritty stories.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 10 '14

Great book. Along with Winter of Our Discontent, Cannery Row, and Sweet Thursday, it's one of my favorite shorter works by Steinbeck. He did a great job making me care about the characters and then tore my heart out at the end.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Nice! Yeah, Winter of Our Discontent got me into Stienbeck, I tried to read his catalog but got stuck. I should get back into him!

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u/Sexidecimal Dec 07 '14

Just finished this one, very powerful piece.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

Cathy Ames is the only book character that got all my emotions invested in to hating her. She's literally the worst.

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u/PaintByLetters Dec 08 '14

When those topics come around about the most evil characters ever, Dolores Umbridge is always at the top but I always think of this character. The most truly wicked character I've ever encountered.

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u/mozartchef Dec 07 '14 edited Dec 07 '14

Timshel was such a powerful concept. I was talking with a friend who gave me a really interesting take from it. She showed me this video which talked about how the Vietnamese have no subjunctive tense in their language which means that things are never spoken about as "I will do this". Rather, it's "I'm doing this". Here's the video for anyone who is curious.

Edit: Sorry folks! Link attached https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zeSVMG4GkeQ

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u/JoshfromNazareth Dec 07 '14

You should know that the things expressed in that video are pretty much pseudo-psychology. It implies that Vietnamese is "lacking" or that as a culture they can't rationalize these things even though it's pretty obvious that they can.

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u/mozartchef Dec 08 '14

I think I understood that. I was just getting at that it's an interesting notion to entertain. In relation to timshel, what if we didn't have an understand of "could or should" but rather just action? Would it be better or would we be worse off? As they said in this video "accepting things as they are" can be the first step towards action in a lot of folks.

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u/Davis518 Dec 07 '14

Hey thanks for the video

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

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u/mozartchef Dec 07 '14

Haha, well played!

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u/farcebook The Invention of Nature: Alexander von Humboldt's New World Dec 07 '14

Can you try posting that again? Doesn't look like the video came through.

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u/mozartchef Dec 07 '14

Sorry, posted now!

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14 edited Jan 06 '21

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u/mozartchef Dec 07 '14

Sorry! Link posted now.

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u/RobotOrgy Dec 07 '14

Read this recently after taking a break from reading the Foundation trilogy. Steinbeck's writing is just so much more poetic and resonated much more with me than Asimov's style. I've had a hard time going back to the Foundation.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Yeah, lot's of those early Sci Fy guys like Dick and Asimov don't write poetically, they just put their ideas out there plainly and let your imagination take over. I am not a big fan of it.

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u/RobotOrgy Dec 08 '14

Ya, I really like the ideas behind Foundation but the writing is so dry it's really hard for me to stay engaged.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Yeah, I think I lost interest halfway through the second book when it became so heavily about religion. What is up with early sci-fi and religion!?!

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u/Chai-on-life Dec 07 '14

Absolutely. It's my favorite novel and I find it to be a great corollary to Man's Search for Meaning. The concepts of Timshel and Logotherapy really have SO much power to change lives.

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u/Yo_Soy_Crunk Dec 07 '14

I read this book in high school for class. I loved it and finished pretty quickly. Funny thing was nobody else read it so i was the only one passing the tests. This is the book that got me started in reading. After I read this I read all the assigned reading for 4 years of high school in about 6 months. Of course it was boarding school so there wasn't really any other shit to do.

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u/TinyPenisBigBalls Dec 07 '14

What's that school system like? What was your average school day like? Did you have weekends off with family?

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u/Busshaus Dec 07 '14

East of Eden was his masterpiece, but Cannery Row is the book that really changed my life

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u/WalkenOnYaFace Dec 07 '14

I fucking love half of this book, but I don't understand why the Hamiltons were even in there (aside from Samuel and maybe Will).

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u/The_Graft Dec 07 '14

The Hamiltons were John Steinbeck's family. Samuel is his maternal grandfather. The book is semi-autobiographical (with some liberties taken, obviously), and the inclusion of the Hamiltons is the pretext for telling Adam's story. I love the interactions between the two families.

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u/WalkenOnYaFace Dec 07 '14

Right, but it felt like he was just plugging his life into the book for the hell of it. I liked the interactions between the two families as well, but from what I remember, he spent a lot of time just describing all the members of his family. I felt like Samuel and Will were the only Hamiltons that added anything to the story.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

As I understand it, it had a lot to do with contrast. The Hamiltons were a very close family while the Trasks were always at arms length to one another. The contrast serves to illustrate what can happen in an ambivalent family, which I believe is one of the major themes of the novel. The beginning of the book shows how such a family can come about and later we meet the Hamiltons and Samuel is delivering his children while Adam is running from his past. Sorry I dont have the book in front of me to be more detailed and I am being a little vague because I dont want to get the specifics wrong. East of Eden is one that is worth multiple readings.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

Solid

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u/iamdan2000 Dec 07 '14

I read this for the first time a couple months ago. I love how the book delves in to how we are all descended from Caine and redemption. This book is beautiful.

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u/TheMusicTeacher Dec 07 '14

Steinbeck- Grapes of Wrath.

I had always hated reading. It was always slow and boring, then I randomly picked up Grapes of Wrath in my first year of college and I loved reading it. It was the first book that made me love reading.

Others followed: Angela's Ashes, Siddhartha, and almost all Steinbeck.

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u/llcatie Dec 08 '14

I was hooked from the beginning pretty much, so maybe it's just not your style? There are some powerful messages as you go on though.

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u/llcatie Dec 08 '14

I had just turned 25.

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u/llcatie Dec 08 '14

How old are you? I can guarantee it probably didn't have to do with maturity. Steinbeck just speaks to me. Not sure if you've read any of his other stuff, but sometimes it just takes awhile to get used to an author. I was that way with Hemingway. Struggled through the first 2 I read, by the third I finally clicked with him. You can always give it a try later on down the road! Sometimes experience influences how you take in a book as well.

Happy reading either way!

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u/TheMusicTeacher Dec 08 '14

There are so many good books out there. I would not feel guilty about putting one down if it doesn't draw you in.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

I'm reading this for the first time right now and I'm loving it. Every other page Steinbeck drops a truth bomb that makes me reevaluate how I view the world.

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u/placenta_jerky Dec 07 '14

This is the only book that has successfully reduced me to tears. Not tears of sadness or desperation, but tears in respect for the beauty of this masterpiece.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Yeah, I think it first came to my attention when Oprah re-started her book club for this book. She has done a ton of good for mainstream American culture!

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u/thecarpetmatches Dec 08 '14

This is my book. Timshel!

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u/perfunctorily Dec 08 '14

Didn't expect to see this one ranked so highly! This book gave me a lot of insight into personal interaction when I was younger. I read it a couple times when I was about 16.

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u/Im_a_real_girl_now Dec 08 '14

Would I like this book if I really didn't enjoy Grapes of Wrath?

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u/MisterChet Dec 08 '14

Book really brought me out of dark place years ago. Timshel is such a beautiful concept

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

Cool, reading it right now. Hopefully that means it gets better.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 07 '14

Where are you at now? I loved the whole book, so I'm not sure if it's goingmto get better for you or not. But I will say, the ending was really where the heart of the story is.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '14

I think I'm about 40% in. Basically at the part where Kate is "adopted" by Faye. I like the book, but it seems a bit scattered and I can't help but feel like this is still leading to the actual story, if that makes any sense.

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u/ChesterHiggenbothum Dec 07 '14

In my opinion, Kate's part of the story is the weakest. The first half of the book is just setting Adam up as a character. You're right in that the meat of the story is coming up. The relationship between Adam, Cal, and Aron is where the "story" is. It tries to cover a large timespan and multiple people's perspectives, so I understand it seeming scattered. It becomes much more focused as it progresses.

I hope you end up enjoying it. I know people's tastes differ, but I found it to be really inspiring.

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u/Imadethistoimpress Dec 07 '14

I read East of Eden, and I guess my hopes were too high. I got to the end and it felt like a shaggy dog story (like the term shaggy dog story, not the movie where the man turns into a dog). The ending I guess was supposed to be really moving but it felt way to much like a ”Ha Gotcha!" to me.

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u/DEAR_Mr_Eco Dec 07 '14

My favorite book of all time!

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

And now after all of these comments I will read this book. Never been a huge fan of Steinbeck, but it was on my list still to read because I'm an avid reader and I know it's a classic.

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u/KuriousInu Dec 08 '14

well given ive read all the other books here that made top 10 i think this will be my next read =) thanks

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u/squid714 Dec 08 '14

This book inspired me to change my own life. I read it on a weird trip with my family—I had been separated from them for a couple years because of my husband at the time. It helped me to see the situation I was in and how I could be so much better than he was letting me be. I realized how much I missed my family. I finished the book in five days. I went back home, divorced my abusive husband, and took my life back. I think it would have taken me much longer to realize how terrible the situation was if I hadn't picked it up right then.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

so glad East of Eden was at the top. Really helped a young man confused about conflicts of faith and science....religion and education. Transformative in my life.

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u/Dinah_Mo_Hum Dec 08 '14

Thou mayest.

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u/ObiWan_Kenobi_ The Name of the Wind Dec 08 '14

I thought about this book for weeks after i finished it. One of my favorites.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

Listening to the Audiobook now! Pretty great thus far.

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u/visitations Dec 08 '14

Happy to see this at the top! Also my favourite book.

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u/ChiBears08 Dec 08 '14

I'm reading this book right now. It's amazing and Steinbeck's writing is marvelous.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '14

For me as well.

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u/Apollo7 Grendel Dec 09 '14

East of Eden

I hated Steinbeck until I read this book. The Pearl is still one of my least favorite books ever written, but I'll always recommend East of Eden to anyone who hasn't read it.

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u/can_i_go_outside_now Dec 08 '14

I came here to say this... Holy crap I am SO not as original as I thought I was

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u/Filo-Pastry Dec 08 '14

I read west of Eden it was cool