r/auscorp • u/SaraGood • 7h ago
pls fix My manager genuinely has the worst communication style I have ever worked with
I just need to vent, my whole team has accepted there's nothing we can do about this, so we should just learn to work with her communication style.
We work in different cities so all our communication is solely online.
The type of things she's done:
* Send you a "hi", then five hours of silence later she will say she forgot what she wanted to talk about.
* Will send you a message saying "urgent. We need to talk" making you super anxious. She then either doesn't call back, or it's the most mundane shit ever that she could have typed as a teams message.
* randomly calls you until you pick up. If you try to do the same, she never picks up.
* If you send her a teams message asking if you should pick A or B, she replies with "yes". This has happened multiple times. When I clarified my question she just laugh reacted.
* Vague messages with zero prior context. I once got a message at 9am saying "how's it coming along". What's coming along?? I'm working on 5 things at once.
* Randomly dials you into meetings you aren't invited to and then leaves
* Never replies to emails. Will instead just call to reply.
* Asked if I should organise the meeting or let her forward her one. She just laugh reacted to it and never responded.
I don't always want to be randomly called when I'm in the middle of something! Sometimes I just want to ask a quick question via teams. I spend so much time meticulously writing my message for her so she has zero ambiguity and complete clear understanding of what I need, but she just comes back with a random vague response.
Why????
Edit: ok fine, I rescind the cold calling thing. I used the wrong term. Everything else still stands.