It's really getting to me. I'm turning 39 this year and have wasted 10 years on a man who is emotionally broken. I'm scared as hell to put myself out there bc I'm not sure what I'll attract. Lol (Females or male) I get hit on by younger guys a lot and get told I don't look my age but I figure people are just blowing smoke. Am I right?

I don’t think I am, but I’m scared I have reverse body dysmorphia

Edit: I said “besides weight” because I’m actively working on it

Im curious. Feel like I'm pretty in the middle.

I feel like I have to try too hard to get good pictures. I feel ugly in most pics. Would love to know people's general pov. 🫰

first pic i just took today the second one was around a year ago

People told me before to let my hair down so I did

Hey everyone, i’m not trying to get an ego boost here, but I was wondering how people perceive me with and without makeup. Additionally, I’m wondering my attractiveness level because my boyfriend currently doesn’t compliment me and avoids physical intimacy.

Dont DM me if you re a guy. Im not interested in ur messed-up fantasies.

I added some pics of both with makeup and without as well as some where I felt I look decent and some I wasn’t a fan of how I looked.

No hormones or makeup or anything :))

alright ive lost 40lbs and still losing so yes im overweight I understand that but what do yall think of how I look im just curious what people will say. people say im pretty etc etc I work in the beauty industry so idk. I feel very insecure compared to other people sometimes. anyway gimme an honest review lol

I’m 50 years old

If u have any tips or tricks to make myself more attractive please lmk

I'm interested in the vibe I give off.

Edit : someone is down voting all the nice responses....that's what yall do in this sub?

What's the consensus?

Not feeling cute anymore those days. Please let me know.