r/AirBnB • u/miss__ewok • 13h ago
First Airbnb Stay and Feeling Blindsided by House Rules [Florida]
TL;DR: First time using Airbnb. I paid $1,700 for a pet friendly beach stay for my mom’s 70th birthday, including a $300 pet fee for our two small dogs. I specifically skipped properties that disclosed no pets or pets couldn’t be on furniture/beds because our dogs sleep with us. This listing had a detailed pet policy but never mentioned that restriction. The handbook provided after booking says “no pets on any furniture/beds” and the AC must stay between 70–75°, neither of which were disclosed before booking. We check in today, so I asked if I could bring my own linens and completely cover the beds, and the host agreed, which I appreciate. But now I’m bringing bedding, blankets and fans to make the stay work. Had I known these restrictions beforehand, I wouldn’t have booked it. Am I unreasonable for feeling blindsided, or are these rules that should have been disclosed before booking? Help with options, suggestions, advice. Thanks.
Location: florida
Full Story: Hi y’all. So I booked a pet friendly Airbnb as a surprise for my mom’s 70th birthday. It’s about $1,700 total, including a $300 pet fee for our two small dogs. When I was searching, I specifically skipped properties that either didn’t allow pets or said pets were allowed but couldn’t be on the furniture/beds. Our dogs sleep with us, so I knew those properties wouldn’t work for us. The Airbnb listing for the property I booked had a pretty detailed pet policy. It listed the pet fees, number and size of dogs allowed, housebreaking requirements, additional cleaning fees for pet messes/stains/shedding on linens, leash rules, etc. Nowhere did it say pets weren’t allowed on furniture or beds. We check in today, and this is a surprise trip my mom is incredibly excited about. When I finally sat down to read through the house handbook, I got to the house rules and saw in bold: “There are no pets allowed on any furniture or beds.” The handbook also says the AC has to stay between 70 and 75 degrees, which was not disclosed in the listing either. I’ve slept in a very cold room since I was a kid, so that actually matters to me when choosing somewhere to stay.
Had I known either of these restrictions before booking, especially the pet restriction, I honestly would have chosen a different property. At that point I was freaking out trying to figure out what to do without ruining my mom’s surprise the day before the trip. I messaged the host and asked if I could bring my own linens and blankets and completely cover the beds so the dogs could sleep with us. She agreed, and I genuinely appreciate her working with me. She’s actually been pretty nice but now I’m packing my own bedding, blankets and fans to make the stay work, and the more I think about it, the more frustrated I am. I paid $1,700, including $300 specifically for the dogs, and I feel like I’m finding out important conditions after I’ve already committed to the reservation.
This is also my first Airbnb stay, so maybe there’s something about Airbnb etiquette or expectations that I don’t understand.
I’d genuinely like your perspective:
- Am I being unreasonable for feeling blindsided/frustrated by this?
- Would you consider “no pets on furniture or beds” and a 70 to 75 degree thermostat restriction rules that should be disclosed in the listing before a guest books?
- Is it normal for additional restrictions like these to first appear in a house handbook provided after booking?
- If this had happened to you, what did you do, what are the options?
I’m not upset that the host has rules. It’s her property, and I completely understand that. My issue is that if I had known the rules before booking, I wouldn’t have booked the property.
Any advice is appreciated.