r/SipsTea • • 21h ago

SMH The advice didn't age well.

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u/Ziplockmoneybags 19h ago

I'm so fucking tired of the fairy tale that every boomer spent their twenties buying houses with pocket change, supporting a family on one salary, and retiring at 55 to a life of golf and margaritas.

I'm a Xennial, and apparently I missed that magical economic paradise. I delivered pizzas in the 90s. If it weren't for the occasional screwed-up order, I probably wouldn't have eaten half the time. After paying rent on my shithole apartment, I was literally digging through couch cushions looking for enough change to buy a can of beans. I was broke until my late 30s, despite eventually having a decent professional job.

My parents were actually older than boomers. They bought their house in the Bronx for $32k in 1983 and sold it for $500k a few years ago. So I guess according to Reddit they must have been living like royalty. Except we never went out to dinner, drove 20-year-old beaters, and scrimped and saved on absolutely everything. My father retired at 75 and my mother at 84. Not because they loved working, but because they couldn't afford to stop. That house was their entire retirement savings. Now due to illness it is rapidly disappearing, there goes my generational wealth.

Sure, some boomers are wealthy. Plenty of them are also barely scraping by on Social Security. But apparently we're supposed to hate some 80-year-old woman trying to survive on $1,400 a month because she had the audacity to be born before 1965.

When millennials and Gen X retire, it's going to be the exact same shit. The tech bros and trust-fund kids will be sitting on their yachts while the rest of us are digging through the couch cushions looking for enough change to buy a can of beans. Assuming we can still afford a couch.

And the whining about raising taxes to keep Social Security solvent is particularly stupid. You'd rather pay slightly less now so you can collect substantially less when you retire? Social Security is going bankrupt, but without changes benefits are going to be cut massively. Brilliant fucking plan, you sure showed the boomers. That's not exactly something to celebrate.

Personally, I think Social Security taxes should take wealth into account. Make the billionaires finally pay their fair share (and more) and leave the working and middle classes paying what they do now.

This whole generational warfare bullshit is exactly what the wealthy want. Get everyone fighting over whether grandma had it easier buying her house in 1978 while the people who actually control most/all of the wealth keep getting richer.

But sure, blame the 80-year-old living on Social Security. She's clearly the one screwing you over.

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u/penx15 18h ago

Sure not every boomer had this, but statistically a majority of them had experienced favorable economic conditions that they have not left future generations

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u/Round-Walrus3175 17h ago

Definitely not a statistical majority of boomers. A majority of Anglo-Saxon established Americans that would make it on a sitcom experienced favorable conditions. My dad has a friend who grew up in Pittsburgh. He moved away with his parents when he was young. His dad worked in a factory. Came back there to visit when his dad was 40. All but one of his dad's friends were dead due to factory conditions. They were immigrants, mostly. 

New York and other big cities, tenement housing was rampant, still. We are talking 300 sqft, no running water for a whole family. For every family living the "American Dream", there were 2 families living in truly substandard living conditions that we wouldn't exactly consider "boomer living", let alone all the racism problems that kept nonwhites from white housing markets...

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u/penx15 17h ago

"A majority of Anglo-Saxon established Americans "

... yes. 70% of boomers are white... which would mean... a statistical majority of them.