Playing hard to get doesn't work anymore

[u/SEVENS_HEAVEN_7]

[u/Due_Masterpiece_3601]

I was once seeing a girl that said she didn’t want to be with me and that we should break up. I said ok no problem I accept it. Then she got upset and said I didn’t fight for the relationship? Women man.

[u/--Silen-- → u/Due_Masterpiece_3601]

100% agree. Had this several times.

‘I don’t want to see you again’
‘Ok, thank you for your time’
‘Oh so you just used me for sex?!’

Etc etc.

[u/DreamOfDays → u/--Silen--]

“If I just used you for sex I’d only care about sex. If I respect you like a person I listen when I’m told no.”

[u/Cotillion512 → u/--Silen--]

Man this reminds me of this baptist girl i briefly dated. We fucked a couple times then she got onto me about only wanting sex so I told her cool, we wont have sex for a while so she feels more comfortable. Next time fooling around I set a boundary and said no, she took that as a challenge and put her bare tits in my face, so of course I gave in. After sex she was pissed at me again for fucking. Extremely frustrating.

[u/RailroadTimebookDev → u/Cotillion512]

This must be a Baptist thing.

[u/PalmCheesy → u/RailroadTimebookDev]

Sexually repressed religious people are in every religion, in My experience

[u/Due_Masterpiece_3601 → u/--Silen--]

I then bought a house by myself made more money and she wanted to get back together

[u/PeyredB → u/Due_Masterpiece_3601]

Ooh, danger Will Robinson!

[u/sohcgt96 → u/Due_Masterpiece_3601]

Ugh back in high school this girl I know did that shit about once a month with her BF, she was so horrifically insecure she's break up with him every few weeks so he'd fight to get her back, "Its the only way it makes me feel like he really loves me!" - and I'm like wow, what a sucker.

[u/Majestic-Fig4784 → u/Due_Masterpiece_3601]

Not only women. Had a narc ex that would do this too. “I’m breaking up with you. Give me some space.” “Ok.” “No not like that”