A few people have sent messages recently asking about getting started with scambaiting and while I’ve replied to them individually, I thought maybe it would be worthwhile posting some advice here for anybody who wants to have a go at baiting. So here’s my completely non-expert advice!

Bear in mind I deal exclusively with Nigerian romance scammers and I don’t have any experience with the wrong number text/pig butchers or Indian refund/call centre scammers.

Possible Steps:

First make a fake Facebook account with a fake email address and while you’re at it, get Zangi (or Telegram but if you get Telegram make sure you first set your phone number to be visible to Nobody) Zangi doesn’t use phone numbers, just a random number as an identifier so it seems pretty safe. I only got it recently because I’m sick of not being able to use an IP grabber in Telegram. I also got Signal but I have no experience with that yet so I won’t comment on it as an app.

Then, when you have your accounts and your fake name/age/location, you need fake pictures. I’ve been using thispersondoesnotexist.com but the trouble is every picture is different. I just found a handful of pictures of women who look similar enough to fool Nigerian scammers who tend not to have a lot of contact with foreigners.

AI pictures can be problematic because they tend to have blurred backgrounds and all be similar: face and shoulders shots. If you want to go to the trouble, it might be worth generating full body AI pictures using Midjourney or something. Most Nigerian scammers can be put off by being told no to multiple pictures- it’s not like they have a lot of options to make you send. Just tell them to fuck off if they don’t like it.

Please don’t use pictures of yourself. It would be awful if you ended up being used by a scammer to scam someone else. I realise this could also be a problem with AI pictures but at least it’s not your real face. There are some ethical qualms to doing this and you have to do only what you feel comfortable doing.

You need to make your Facebook profile look vaguely real. I just use generic pictures of flowers or a beach or something - and leave my profile fairly nondescript except for my country - the scammers don’t really seem to care very much. I’ve never actually made posts with my fake accounts. It doesn’t seem to put scammers off. I just say that I never use Facebook. All my fake profiles are friends with each other, and a couple of scambaiters more recently.

What you don’t want is a friend list full of Elon Musks and Johnny Depps and Brad Pitts and in fact, a friend list full of obvious scammers because they will recognise the kind of pictures and profiles that they use themselves. So what I do is friend request them and when they accept me and have started talking, I immediately unfriend them so they can’t be seen by other potential scammer-victims. And as soon as they move me to Zangi or Telegram, I block them on Facebook and pretend I just deleted Messenger. This helps them not be able to refer to early conversations, whereas I screenshot as we go so I keep the advantage over with them on stuff they’ve told me.

Then on FB, join groups like USA Old Man Dating which is literally 100% scammers. Rather than trying to add the person (always older ‘American’ man looking for God-fearing wife !) who makes the post, go into the post to the comment section and you will see hundreds of women replying and then you’ll see other obvious scammers trying to hoover up the women, leaving comments to multiple women so that when you add them as friends, they won’t be suspicious because they have sent that comment to loads of women.

Any public group that has dating and mentions seniors or widows will be 99% Nigerian scammers. Either scammers who use pictures of porn stars to attract men, or scammers who use pictures of older men. Oh, and also look for the word USA or UK in the group titles. Because obviously the scammers are looking for those nationalities for their victims.

Lastly, if you want to actively search out the four star generals (Eric T Hill, Austin Scott Miller, Paul LaCamera etc) you can pick from hundreds of them. And of course, any celebrities like Keanu, Johnny Depp, Prince William etc :)

Scammers are getting more and more suspicious that they are being played, so if I contact them first, I always send a voice note, because that way they can tell I’m female and English and it tends to stop them spending the first 10 screenshots being really sketchy and aggressive

If you’re on Facebook, you’ll be starting there or on Facebook messenger app. It’s horrible and clunky and you can very easily get banned if you abuse them and swear at them afterwards (which is why I have five accounts!) so you can hope that they will ask you really quickly to go somewhere else.

Be safe. Avoid Whatsapp - I’m not sure how visible your phone number is and it’s harder to separate your fake persona from your real contacts (at least if you’re English because WhatsApp is our main chat platform here)

You decide what you want to share with scammers- back when I started, I would use real stories about my life and afterwards I felt kind of regretful that I did that. I’d rather be a complete unknown to them.

Take it slow and just make one fake account at first in case you absolutely hate it. You don’t want to waste your time. Be prepared for them to be deeply unpleasant people as well.

There have been times since I have been doing this where I have had to take a break because sometimes I just feel like I’m not making any difference to the number of scammers and victims, and I’m spending hours talking to vile people. Definitely posting on this sub has made it a lot more fun.

Just try to be aware that we are essentially playing games with people who either don’t share your values or in some cases can’t afford to share your values and that can get confusing and morally suspect and doesn’t always feel as great as it seems when it’s a hilarious ‘Keanu can’t spell his own name’ post.

But I do firmly believe that huge numbers of people messing with scammers can have the positive effect of wasting their time (as long as you’re not wasting your own) and can be a deterrent. If enough of them get burned by enough of us, it might weary them enough that some give up 🤷🏼‍♀️

TL;DR - have fun, stay safe