r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • Oct 19 '25

MOD POST Flagged as spam/seller NSFW

31 Upvotes

Hi, we're currently in the process of fixing and improving our spam tools. And I know we've been receiving messages in the past hour from folks who've been tagged as spam/sellers. We are currently working on dialing down the sensitivity on some of our spam filters. Just bear with us as we tinker with it today.

Edit: We reapproved all the posts that were removed because of this issue.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • Mar 05 '24

MOD POST COMMENTS ARE BACK. NSFW

67 Upvotes

Hi, so after discussions among the mod team, we are finally turning on commenting again. This is to mainly help us more effectively combat spam/bots, as you all will now be able to publicly call out suspicious and dangerous posts. And to allow people to vouch for others. A few things:

  • Please still report suspicious posts, along with commenting if you want. Reporting will notify us; if you only comment, unless we are actively looking at a post, there's a chance we won't see it. Also, you can report other comments as well.
  • The comment section will still be moderated. We already have past filters in place to remove any spam, derogatory, and unnecessary comments. So, please, and I'm speaking mostly to the men, do not use the comment section to tell OP to check their messages or DM you. Trust me, they will know.
  • You still need at least 10 Karma(post+comment), to comment on posts, or it will automatically be removed.
  • If we start to see the quality of comments diminish and become too rude or disparaging, or it becomes too overwhelming to moderate properly, we have discussed allowing people to lock(and unlock) their own posts. But we have enough people now that are actively moderating, so this shouldn't be a problem as of right now.

If anyone have any questions, concerns, suggestions, feel free to comment below or message us. Keep on having fun!

P.S. Unlocking the comments only affects new posts, and since it would be unnecessary to unlock all posts that are currently locked, we unlocked all posts in the last 24 hours(of this post).


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 1h ago

Baltimore City 28 [F4M] 21216 - Looking for Ongoing Fun / FWB NSFW

• Upvotes

I’m keeping things simple and straightforward. If there’s mutual attraction and good chemistry, I’d be open to something ongoing and casual. No pressure, no complicated expectations, just honesty, respect, and enjoying each other’s company.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 3h ago

Baltimore City 31 [M4M] 21218 - looking for dom top NOW NSFW

3 Upvotes

Transguy looking for a dom top for fun, maybe fwb. Casual, drama free and recently tested. You should be as well. Message me.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 7h ago

Baltimore City 37 [TF4A] 21206 - suck my titties NSFW

5 Upvotes

pics on my profile, they need attention from new people.

open to more with F/TF/TM/NB/FB (especially making out and seeing where things go), but only interested in M for sucking my titties. this can be walk in and start or it can be more intimate.

looking for Thursday 10/15 through 10/17, but open to something regular with the right person.

we will be chatting first like normal people do, and your message must be in complete sentences (i.e. "26 M 21211 hey baby lemme suck" will be ignored).


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 41m ago

Fairfax 21 [M4A] 22043 - Bi Asian student in town for the next week. Can host or travel. Looking to meet and have fun with a couple or feminine people. NSFW

• Upvotes

HWP and clean shaved as well as tested. Twink like build. Would love to meet for coffee to feel the vibes and everything. Looking for a more loose and casual one-off encounter, so less pressure and more openness to experiment. Just communicate!


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 53m ago

Baltimore 48 [M4F] 21286 - Dominant Seeking My Submissive Good Girl NSFW

• Upvotes

I am seeking the kind of relationship where we are always thinking about each other, eager to continue talking and interacting, constantly excited by learning and knowing more together. I have a nurturing yet dominant nature and would like to be in a relationship with someone who looks up to me for guidance. If you feel a little lost and adrift in life, I can help you find your way. At the core I am very kind and loving but at the same time a confident leader.

My interests include spending time outdoors, being on the water, swimming, travel, history, diy and home improvement, reading, soccer and baseball. I have a lot of fun exploring places that have historical significance or are a bit unusual. If something breaks I can usually fix it. Rarely drink, never smoke, no drugs.

Definitely have some kinks but it always feels odd to just list them out in a post and would rather have more of a back and forth conversation about our kinks. More than anything, I’m looking for my good girl who will be by my side and on my lap to share in life’s joy and challenges.

Physically I’m 5’10”, light brown hair, clean shaven face, blue eyes, large hands, active dad bod build. I’m open minded when it comes to your body type, height, and race but would simply ask that you have pride in your appearance and are comfortable presenting in a cute and feminine manner.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 53m ago

Baltimore 50/37 [MF4F] 21234 - Couple Seeking Alt, Witchy, Kinky Girl NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey there! I’m half of a fun, kinky, adventurous couple who are looking for another woman to befriend and play with. Feminine transwomen are welcome as well!

She’s a gothy, tattooed, educated girl in her mid-30s who loves walks in the woods looking for mushrooms and spooky cute decor, and all things Halloween.

I’m a 50-year-old music geek with a love for alternative music (goth, punk, post-punk, New Wave Britpop, emo, indie, shoegaze, etc.), horror movies, true crime podcasts, visiting historic places, and playing guitar terribly.

We both love to go dancing to 80s/goth/Britpop dance nights, comedy shows, and going to quaint towns. We are always down for an adventure in and outside of the bedroom.

We’re seeking a woman who shares some of our interests and who wants to connect both sexually and non-sexually. If you love music, tattoos, all things spooky, thrifting, music, and kinky sex.

We would love to find someone who we can relate to and like on both a personal and sexual level. Someone we could go out to a dive bar with and then come home and play with. If you think we might be a good fit and can hold a conversation, please say hi! Tell me what the last great album you listened to was or what your favorite horror move is as an ice breaker!


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 58m ago

Baltimore 23 [M4F] 21228 - BBC looking for hookup NSFW

• Upvotes

Chill grad student in Catonsville looking for some fun. Open to making friends too. 6’3, love to lift, supposedly handsome.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 1h ago

Eastern Shore 35 [M4F] 21601 - anyone want to spend some time with an older daddy and his BWC tonight NSFW

• Upvotes

Searching for someone 18-20 but not a deal breaker,who has daddy issues and wants to have some fun tonight, exchange pics and flirt a little see what happens tonight, willing to drive wherever get a hotel, and have a wild night with just the two of us, pics on my profile


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 1h ago

DC 28 [F4M] 20002 - looking for monogamous sexual partner and ultimately a relationship NSFW

• Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old Black BBW, 5’5”, with a bit of a soft spot for kind, slightly nerdy men. My interests include music, the gym, writing, and binge watching sitcoms. I have a very high sex drive but am averse to having multiple partners. I also am quite demisexual, and cannot do casual fwb. That’s what brings me here lol.

What I’m looking for: I really miss physical intimacy, and I’d like to explore that with one person while we get to know each other. I’m not looking for NSA. My end goal is a monogamous relationship. We don’t have to rush into a relationship label, but I’d like us to share that intention from the beginning.

I’m still figuring out what kind of dynamic feels right for me. I suspect I lean submissive, but I’m not ready to commit to a dom/sub label. What I do know is that I want to feel pampered in bed, and breast play is something I’m interested in (very early on; like tonight even). Initially, I’d like someone who enjoys focusing on my pleasure and making me feel cared for. As comfort and trust develop, I want to learn how to take care of you, too and would be open to doing other stuff. I want to be upfront about that pace so we can decide whether our needs align.

I have a preference for white men ages 26–34. Kindness, emotional intelligence, and emotional availability are essential. Please be fully single and interested in monogamy. So no marriages, existing relationships, or arrangements. I don’t want to be anyone’s secret.

I want someone who can communicate clearly, respect boundaries, be affectionate, and enjoy getting to know me outside the bedroom, too.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for, pls PM me😊


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 1h ago

Alexandria City 31 [M4M] 22314 - Bi fit hung for similar bros NSFW

• Upvotes

What’s sup dudes! Lowkey bi masculine guy here looking other bros in a similar situation, please be fit and chill. White/ Italian 5’10 190 7.5 uc here. Send me your stats when you hmu


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 5h ago

Baltimore City 38 [M4F] 21210 - Seeking Fun FWB for Dead Bedroom Relief NSFW

2 Upvotes

Title is pretty self-explanatory I guess as I'm in a long-standing (> 5 years) dead bedroom situation. I'm otherwise happy but the last many years have just been lacking physical intimacy, for a variety of reasons. I'm routinely (~ weekly) in Baltimore for a few days at a time and would enjoy finding someone local, maybe that's also in a similar situation, to meet up with and spend intimate time together with. Not looking to change my situation or yours so this would be more of a casual thing. I have a small apartment here too so could host our adventures. I'm white, tall (> 6'), in reasonably good shape, don't drink/smoke, am highly educated, and generally easy to get along with. If you're interested I'd appreciate hearing a little about yourself, your situation, and what you're looking for. Happy to trade pics with the right person too.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 5h ago

Montgomery 32 [M4F] 20878 - have a few nights with no plans coming up. Would love some female companionship. Pics in profile NSFW

2 Upvotes

Title says it all. Few lonely nights ahead of me so would love to find a girl to chat with, possibly play around with. Online or in person. Really desperate for some head but I’m open to whatever you are. Please be local or willing to travel because I do not wish to travel far or at all. Either way if you wanna chat just stop by my DMs and say hi. Love you


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 5h ago

Baltimore 32 [M4F] 21207 - Breast play. Sucking, squeezing, titfucking NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm searching for a woman who wants her breasts played with, touched, squeezed, sucked on. Full sex is not expected and not something we are shooting for. Just low pressure, fun, relaxed, more sensual meeting.

Looking to have a good night, hopefully you as well.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 16h ago

DC 33 [FTM4A] 20002 - in town for two nights NSFW

14 Upvotes

I’ll be at The Crucible in Washington DC this Friday and Saturday night. 10/16-17.

I need to go on a self-destructive rampage. My fiance left me after five years. So… yeah I need to be used. I need to be useful to someone. I need to be hurt. Fuxking wreck me.

I’d prefer men, but if any women want to hit me up, let’s talk. I’ve had top surgery, so no tits, but I’ve got a tight pussy.

Can’t wait to read y’all’s messages.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 2h ago

Arlington 27 [M4F] 22202 - Nerdy subby gamer looking for my domme NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello!

After a while of feeling content by myself I've found myself looking for companionship, and I am finding myself increasingly submissive leaning as well lmao. So to reddit I have come, hoping to find my person or a play partner.

About me:

As the title mentions I'm a fairly nerdy guy living in Arlington, Virginia. Some of my hobbies include video games (either alone or over with friends), reading, movies/anime, MTG, TTRPGs (been far too long), and do love board games but I'm not able to play them nearly enough. I love Tolkien, Dune, star wars, Stargate, and just all things sci fi and fantasy really. I am a metalhead/rocker when it comes to music though I can listen to almost anything, with Sabaton, Blind Guardian, and WindRose being my favorite bands and I have been commonly referred to as a paladin irl. I work in tech (go figure), and I do have a college degree in a STEM field. I'm 5'10 and chubby, heavier than I want to be but think I wear it well, with a nice full beard I keep trimmed and shaved head. Trying to slowly cut down but I don't think I ever want to be truly skinny, so dad bod is def apt to describe me. I do not smoke anything and drink socially. DDF and plan on keeping it that way.

My Ideal Domme:

I am looking for someone nearby within the general metro range of the DMV, but a bit farther out is ok. Ideal age range would be 21-32 for a romantic connection, though I could go older for something more casual connection/fwb. No exact requirements on body type, just be healthy or working towards it like I am, also I am more than fine with someone taller than I am, and I am more of a boobs guy but all bodies have beauty in them. I am also looking for a nerd like me, someone I can cuddle with and watch movies and shows, someone warm and kind. Play co-op games together (BG3 maybe) and maybe ren faire dates once that season arrives again. Someone I can just gush about whatever I'm playing and then listen to them gush about something along with lots and lots of cuddling. I think I would work best with a mommy dom/gentle dom, but I would be more than willing to experiment with all types of dommes. Please do not be a smoker and please be ddf. Liking cats is also a big plus!

My Femdom Preferences:

I want to preface and say I'm not looking for a strong dynamic outside of the bedroom, I want someone I can be a partner to and then have an amazing time in bed with, but a light dynamic would fit well. I know I am for sure looking for a gentle domme, someone more nurturing and sweet, maybe with the occasional harder domme tendencies to shake things up. My primary kinks as I know them now would be lingerie/stockings, boots, edging, joi, affection, praise, and anr/breast play. I do want to try face sitting but have no experience in either right now. This would be a monogamish at most(for a dating connection), I have no interest in going truly poly/enm and inviting any other women to play with us/you would be something we have to work towards and heavily discuss. For limits it would be the standard gambit of blood and bathroom stuff, along with choking and age regression included. While I was in one short lived relationship with a dynamic I am a newbie and I am interested in exploring more kinks with someone who could help nurture this sexual side of me.

Next steps:

If I have caught your interest at all, which I hope I have, shoot me a message! I will want to verify using a video call before anything nsfw happens or before we plan any physical dates.

Hope to be hearing from you!


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 2h ago

DC 53 [M4F] 20005 - DC DMV NOVA - Thursday night energy. Do you want to meet up for a drink? No agenda. NSFW

0 Upvotes

In life we all need an escape from our routines and obligations. I'm totally cliche. Visiting Washington DC for work. I come here a few times a year. I like this town.

Let's laugh and flirt over a drink. Maybe we'll discover a spark between us. You just never know. I'm a friendly and fit guy. I'm typically in the NYC area. I'd love to hear all about you. Send me a note. Always safe and discreet.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 6h ago

Baltimore 28 [M4F] 21220 - it’s my birthday I’m looking to do some eating NSFW

2 Upvotes

Birthday today, what lucky lady is going to let me eat no kill?


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 3h ago

DC 31 [M4F] 20003 - Looking for someone who wants to build up to Nightly Creampies. Can host or travel to you NSFW

1 Upvotes

Me: BAC, 6' tall, muscular

Affirming words

Breeding

Yapping

Domination

Aftercare

Massages

Feeding you and telling you you're pretty


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 7h ago

Howard 31 [M4F] 21042 - Footjob. Let's try it for the first time the two of us NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'd really like to try a footjob. Fun time for the both of us, and let me know anything that'd make it good for you.

Will travel between Baltimore, DC, and places in between. We can keep it casual, up to you.

I'm in good shape, average height, brown hair and green eyes. White. I want us both to have a good time together. I can travel, host, meet most places. Tested 0 STD (not that it matters for feet only)


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 9h ago

Montgomery 45 [M4F] 20852 - Massage, pampering (and cnc roleplay?) NSFW

3 Upvotes

[Compilation of my success posts](https://www.reddit.com/user/Puzzleheaded-Shake37/comments/1uz00vb/compilation_of_my_success_posts_summer_25_present/)

45yo neuroscientist, 5'9", runner’s build, glasses & stubble. Clean, DDF (Sept ’26), vasectomy safe. I love hiking, trying new restaurants, and reading — basically that approachable, in-shape dad-next-door you might notice at work or in the supermarket. I especially enjoy giving unhurried massages, playful make-outs like teenagers, oral and intimacy that leave my partner relaxed and happy. I lean dominant and am also game if you are interested in age-gap or rougher, CNC-style roleplays. Whatever it is, no pressure and no judgement.

Looking for women/MF couple 21+ who juggle a lot but still want a space for passion, connection, and a drama-free escape. I’ve met some genuinely wonderful people here and I’m hoping to find another connection that feels just as easy and fulfilling.

If this resonates, I’d love to hear from you — tell me a little about yourself.

Massage, fun, and a little escape from the everyday - think of it as a mini-vacation, no packing required.

Available weekdays during the day, plus Wednesday and Thursday evenings, and weekends.

21+ only, MINORS DO NOT INTERACT


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 8h ago

Prince Georges 29 [M4F] 20784 - looking for a petite woman to pin down and use daily NSFW

2 Upvotes

If you’re a pillow princess in need of having your breast groped and sucked on I’d love to be that man that gets to do so. Let me enjoy you for hours . Lay you down and spread you open and eat you up too. Let me be your eater . In the car or at my place . Definitely up for late night fun Or when you’re need a good hand to help you release.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 6h ago

DC 32 [M4F] 20017 - Looking for black woman with big tits to titfuck. NSFW

1 Upvotes

White guy, good shape, respectful. Looking to have a good time, hopefully you as well


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r • • 10h ago

Anne Arundel 31 [M4F] 21402 - Anybody submissive sluts feeling want to fuck a bwc tonight NSFW

2 Upvotes

Anyone interested in riding a BWC tonight, 8 inches and thick, willing to verify, willing to drive and or get a hotel if needed, tall with a lean/fit build, interested in single ladies only, maybe couples focusing on the girl in a cuck, bull hotwife situation, I'm into being dominant, choking and hair pulling, don't be afraid to say hi, looking forward to meet you. Pics on my profile